I m having relationship problems, I m at a loss, and I hope someone kind can help me 15

You know he's not going to like you, and you've thought about forgetting him, it's just hard to do. Since you want to forget about him, then I suggest you find a job you like or learn something that interests you to enrich yourself, keep yourself busy, and try to restrain yourself from thinking about him. If there is another boy pursuing you in the meantime, you don't have to categorically refuse, find someone who has a little affection and try to accept him.

I hope you find this helpful.

Are you sure he won't like you? Maybe it's just wishful thinking on your part?

Since you know that he won't like yourself, then if you love him enough, just give silently by his side, even if he doesn't love you, if you can't do it, it means that you don't love him enough, and the love of possession will never be as good as the love of fulfillment, if you can't do it, I suggest you leave him and look for another sunshine in your life...

Go and dedicate yourself, give him your first time, and hand over the results to God in the future, and you won't regret it.

Now that you know that there is no result, don't rely too much on him, you will fall deeper and deeper.

All you have to do now is wait.

You're a man, how can you like a man?

Now I know that You Gate can't be together.

It's better to break it early.

Or the injury will be deeper.

If it is according to your statement, it is all you describe.

My advice is that you'd better let go of your current thoughts, adjust your direction, and plan for your present and future.

First of all, I am very sure that you like her very much, look up to her, she is the goddess of your heart, and it is your current goal in life.

Secondly, I think that you have lost your way at the moment, suffering from gains and losses, and are at a loss, so pursuing her in your current state can not think of a more likely outcome than to make you give up completely.

If you really want to give it a try, I suggest you go with the mentality of failure, so that even if you don't succeed, you won't be completely lost at this critical point in your life.

I think the best way is to figure out what you want to do in college and what you want to do after college, and build up your self-confidence and ability first.

When you step into society, pursue her as a relatively mature person.

Because I think she either has no interest in you, or she's a mature and calm person, so now you, there is almost no possibility that she will accept you.

So, whether you really want to be with her or give yourself an explanation, you have to think about it before you choose.

Forgive me for taking the plunge of speculation: I guess you subconsciously think that you are his woman, or that he is your man, because you have already had a relationship.

Most people say that as long as that relationship is broken, the relationship will go downhill. Although this is not necessarily the case, there is some truth to this.

Men are different from women, men get it, they want to change it to a new one, and the picture is fresh; When a woman pays, she wants to stabilize and feel secure. Therefore, there are two completely different ideas and practices: men are getting colder and colder, and women are becoming more and more unable to let go.

In fact, this is a spell, if a woman chooses to persevere, then, this spell will take effect, it will make you sink deeper and deeper and more painful and unable to extricate yourself.

People have an emotional and intellectual side, but women are often led astray by their sensibility. In fact, your rationality comes from your deepest sensibilities, because you can't bear the dissatisfaction and hurt of your sensuality, so you want to leave; But when your sensibility is rising, you are slowly dyed by the emotion, indicating that you are hesitant again, this is the entanglement.

My personal opinion on your question is to be separated. Since he doesn't love you anymore (he doesn't love you or doesn't love you that much), if you insist, he will still let go; If he turns back, then you are destined to be hurt severely, because you feel that it is not easy, you take the initiative, you connive, so you are hurt, and in the end you are separated. In that way, it is very sad for women, it is better to find another way while we still have capital.

This process is inevitably uncomfortable, but the long pain is better than the short pain, and the sooner it ends, the sooner it is relieved. Either way, life has to go on.

Good luck!

Love eventually goes flat, the beginning of the vigorous and finally calm, the landlord can't forget, after all, it's three years, three years can make many things a habit, it's hard to forget when the habit is formed! Since you chose to separate in the first place, it may be impulsive or serious, if you want to continue, say it out loud! If you agree, you will manage this relationship well, and if you don't agree, you must believe that you will find true love!

I wish you happiness.

This requires you to understand your true inner thoughts, since he is not your cup of tea, intellectually think that they will not be happy together, so why bother pursuing it?? And personality incompatibility will seriously affect your future life!! It is recommended that you have a good chat with him, see what the other party thinks, treat feelings rationally, and wish you all the best in love!!

You miss because you have been in love for 3 years after all, and you still have feelings, but you don't want to admit it, probably because you feel that his love for you is not like before. You are not reconciled. It's like something of oneself is suddenly gone.

I have been with my ex-boyfriend for over 4 years. I still miss him and want to talk to him. But I know I don't like him as much as I used to.

If you really love him, talk to him. A 3-year relationship needs to be carefully considered. I wish you all happiness!

Because you didn't let go of him, because you still loved him, that's all.

Whether there is love or not, whether it is your cup or not, after all, after being together for three years, there will definitely be some reluctance.

But love is love and cannot be replaced, so think twice.

You've found out for yourself, and you've said something about your relationship right now, so why do you insist on it, it's because you're not reconciled!! Go to your friends, go to play, go singing, go hiking, three years is a ...... compared to the next few decadesTime will make you forget it.

One: When a person likes you, he talks more than you, the above is obvious.

Two: Seeing you doesn't mean that he likes you, maybe you are beautiful or you have a unique place to get his appreciation.

Three: Maybe he liked you before, but now he doesn't.

Quite simply, he's playing ambiguous. Not only women like to play ambiguous, men also like it, and they also have a possessive desire for people who like themselves, although they don't love, but they like the feeling of being noticed and liked, and if the other party interacts with others, there will also be a kind of unhappiness that their own cabbage is arched away by others.

If he also likes you, once you take the initiative to confess, he can't wait to confess, and no matter how shy the boy is, he understands that this is a good opportunity to confess. And he doesn't, which means that he really doesn't like you at the moment, it's just an ambiguous relationship, he doesn't take the initiative, and he doesn't refuse.

I can't see his attitude.

There's no point in guessing, let's see how he performs in the future.

If it is intentional to you, it will not be without action.

You don't have to rush to know the results either.

If he doesn't have any intention of you, it's useless for you to be anxious.

What a strange confession process, I personally think that he still likes you and cares about you, I think there are four possibilities, one, he does like you too, but he is embarrassed to admit it directly, his inner world is a somewhat traditional and conservative person, a little shy, just want to like you silently, and don't want to fall in love in college. Two, he doesn't want to fall in love in college, he is about to graduate, he will delay his studies, and it is not too late to fall in love after graduation, three, he doesn't like you, he just wants to tease you, he likes this feeling, four, he doesn't understand his own heart, he doesn't know whether he likes you or not, he was frightened by this sudden confession, and can only answer in the form of this kind of answer, if this is the case, you should let him know his heart.

You are also quite qualitative, and you are also a true love face. The person you like doesn't take the initiative to pursue, and you who like you don't feel it. So let's put it all aside for now. You will always meet the best person for you at the right time......

Go for your first love, and if it doesn't work out, you can try to have more contact with the girl who likes you, and maybe there will be unexpected surprises.

There are many people in the world who don't fulfill people's wishes, maybe they don't want to insert willows, right?

Don't go, don't like people still sleeping in the same room. It's hard to say what's going on. It's bad for you, and it's even worse for girls.