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He seems to be because of his unsatisfactory career, so he doesn't dare to burden too much on the family, at this time, you should put more effort to give him encouragement and support at work, and when the situation is better, it is better to talk about marriage, and now you are urging more tightly, it is likely to backfire, and you will lose more. It's not that I don't understand your thoughts, but I'm very sincere in giving you advice. A man has a man's sense of responsibility, and he may be afraid that his family will increase his burden at such a time, but part of the reason is that he is afraid that he will not be able to give you a good life.
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Let your parents look for him.
The knot in his heart is with your parents.
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You go and discuss it with him Besides, what's wrong with the elderly woman Now that medicine is so advanced, she won't die I personally feel that it is better for you and your boyfriend not to get married for the time being Think about something else If you really want to marry him, just help him and let him work first He has a house and some savings I'm discussing marriage If you don't have the patience to get married as soon as possible with a boyfriend who has a bit of a foundation Don't be too rash about marriage
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Well, it's really an emergency, and it's true that both sides have their own difficulties... Let him find a job first, so that he will have a little confidence, and then take him to meet your parents, parents will see each other first, so that there will be a chance to discuss marriage, but don't remember to put too much pressure on him, you have to put more snacks on marriage preparations, don't spend money indiscriminately, in fact, this kind of thing can be made up for later when you have money,
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Be considerate of him, let him have confidence in your parents and future life, let him know that you love him as a person, no matter what the material conditions are, you will not blame him, let him know, don't let him blame himself too much, and his mind will change when he gets out of this hurdle, of course, if he gets married, he will face a lot of problems, and he still needs mutual understanding and trust. Bless you guys.
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This is a common problem for men, you have to let him pass the test with your parents first, to put it bluntly, there are two major pressures, the first is to feed you better, and the second is that your parents are willing to agree. The first is for you, and the second is forced. I don't want to marry you because I really love you.
Don't worry, I'm in the same situation as him, I'm kind of connected to him.
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You can put a little pressure on him, tell him that your parents forced you to go on a blind date, and you don't want to go, but you don't want to break the heart of his second elder, let him help you with ideas, see if his reaction cares about you very much, and then decide what to do next.
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Ask, your boyfriend knows his own situation and whether he is working hard to earn money, in fact, the life of two people is lived by two people, although the family conditions are not good now, but it does not mean that it will be bad in the future, as long as you work hard! You make it clear to him what you're worried about, and I'm sure he'll think about it!
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This worry is unnecessary, give him a little time, it's not that he doesn't want to get married, it's that he thinks the conditions are not ripe. You have to encourage him, believe him, if this tolerance and tolerance, there is no such marriage, if you take into account the child, you can talk to him, listen to his opinion, at least not let this factor affect more future problems,
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Now the main thing is the question of money, let him promise you first, and then I will need you.
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Help him find a job, be more understanding and considerate of him, don't force him, save a little in life, work hard with him so that he will be very moved, give him some time! He'll definitely marry you next year.
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It can be said that your boyfriend is still more responsible, and you should encourage him more! How old are you now? As long as it's not more than 30, it shouldn't be a problem!
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If your relationship has reached a particularly mature stage, then you can propose marriage, because your relationship has always been very good, it must be in the direction of marriage, and I suggest that the best way is to propose it correctly.
The first kind of code hole, you can confess to your boyfriend, I said this confession is not about a marriage proposal or anything, but to buy flowers and then confess to your boyfriend, and then say that you want to get married, and then it depends on your boyfriend's reaction, then you must not take the initiative when you put forward this idea, you think that although the girl can take the initiative, you have already bought flowers for him, if he still doesn't understand, then he is a fool, so you can wait for his reply, if there is no response, you can propose.
For example, when you are watching a TV series, you see some marriage proposals, what kind of TV series to get married, see what kind of TV series he really, and then make corresponding countermeasures according to his reaction, if he says that he envy them or something, you can take the opportunity to propose the idea of marriage with him, of course, you can also say that you envy them, want to be like them, and then look at your boyfriend and express your hopes.
Then the third word, you can start with his friends, you can talk to his friends, because there are some things that he is not willing to tell you, he will share with his friends, so at this time your best thing is to ask his friends about their thoughts on your marriage, and then after you know, you can prescribe the right medicine.
All in all, the proposal to marry your boyfriend must be proposed with the assistance of external forces, and it must be side-to-side, so that it is the most effective.
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It depends on whether the other party wants to marry you.
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It's important to remember that romance isn't just about being hidden. There are a lot of brothers, at the beginning of chasing girls in the finger rolling hall, it was quite romantic, every holiday, either to the girl to send flowers or gifts, but once the chase is reached, it will no longer be romantic, which will cause the girl to feel, you don't love me as much as before, you chase me, you are exposed.
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First of all, it is necessary to take communication as the principle. Confide in each other what you think, you say that you are sincere to him, and now you want to marry him, and you want to meet his parents, and then discuss marriage. As for him, he also stared at why he didn't want to take you to meet your parents.
Express ideas and communicate with each other, so that each other can know their attitudes and opinions about meeting their parents and getting married.
Second, get the communication results at the end. There are several results of communication, one is that he is willing to take you to meet your parents, that is a good thing, and you will follow the trend. Another kind of caution and hunger is that he is not willing to take you to see your parents now, but he is willing to marry you and love you, but he feels that the current relationship is not yet the time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, at this time, you can give him a time limit, such as half a year, a year, etc., after this time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he agrees, a year later to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he does not agree, you will calm down for a while, see if you still need to go on, do not need to go down, just break up, after all, after talking for four years, It's been a long time, and you girl can't afford to drag it out.
Third, I have been talking about it for three years, what kind of love is almost mature, and marriage is also a logical thing, those who are married are under great pressure, the family burden is heavy, and children are needed, etc., most of these are excuses, they have been talking for four years, understanding, knowing, trusting, identifying, running-in, before and after marriage, there is pressure and burden, and responsibility, if you are afraid of taking responsibility and pressure, then this person is worth considering for life.
Therefore, you need to be clear about your boyfriend's attitude, when to marry you, breaking up is painful, but it is not good for anyone to drag it out, the long pain is better than the short pain, you are still young, you can find a good family to marry. If your boyfriend still wants to play, you can't afford to accompany him, you are older than him, and the woman will grow old quickly after the age of thirty, and the man is just mature and stable at the age of thirty, and there is no guarantee that he will not like other girls at that time.
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If you want to marry your boyfriend, first of all, the relationship between the two of you must be stable, and you have to reach the age when you should get married. It is when these conditions are ripe, and once they are ripe, you can enter the palace of marriage and enjoy a sweet love life.
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Choose someone who is right for you to get married.
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It's been talking about it for three years, what kind of love is almost all ripe, and getting married is also a natural thing, those who are married are under great pressure, the family burden is heavy, and they also need children, etc., most of these are excuses, they have been talking for four years, understanding, knowing, trusting, identifying, running-in, before and after marriage, there is pressure and responsibility, if you are afraid of taking responsibility and pressure, then this person is worth considering for life.
Therefore, you need to clarify your boyfriend's attitude, when to marry you, it is painful to let go, but it is not good for anyone to drag it out, the long pain is better than the short pain, you are still young, you can find a good family to marry. If your boyfriend still wants to play, you can't afford to accompany him, you are older than him, and women will age very quickly after they reach the age of thirty, and men are just mature and stable at thirty, and there is no guarantee that he will not like other girls at that time.
You're amazing. With just one sentence, I judged that the other party had been talking for three years?!!
Can you help me figure out which ** vote is more hopeful?!.Kneel down and ask the master for advice.
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Actual cargo fuel marriage. In fact, if you marry your boyfriend, first of all, you have to meet the conditions for marriage, for example, the relationship between two people has reached the state of searching for skin and getting married, and then the age has also reached this age of marriage, so you can consider entering the palace of marriage in the world.
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In life, the most seen is that the man is in a hurry to get married, and the woman is hesitant. When you think about it, it's really surprising. My suggestion is that it is better for the man to put it forward first, of course, if you are really anxious, you can try to ask him, if your boyfriend does not want to get married, don't force it.
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If you want to marry your boyfriend, first of all, you are saying that the relationship has reached the age of marriage, and then the time is ripe in all aspects. You can discuss if you want to marry your boyfriend, first of all, you just say that the relationship has reached the age of marriage, and then the time is ripe in all aspects, and you can discuss the next step of marriage, in fact, this matter depends on both parties.
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If your boyfriend's income is unstable and his job is unstable, then at this time you have to persuade him more, let him be self-motivated, find a stable job, and have a stable income, because otherwise it will be very troublesome to get married in the future, because marriage is a big event in life, and under normal circumstances, it is necessary to have a stable income to rely on and the marriage is strong, so you must think about this clearly, unless you love your boyfriend very much, and you can earn a lot of money, don't care about these, It's not much of a problem.
If your boyfriend is self-motivated, even if he has an unstable income and an unstable job now, he can get married in the future if he has the potential to find a good job, so it depends on the actual situation. If he is not self-motivated, then you have to think about whether to get married.
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Alas, such a thing can not be said to be good, if this girl cares about this matter in particular, even if you will quarrel because of this after you reconcile, talk to him well, or do nothing, pretend to give up completely, if he still really cares about you, he will behave, if it doesn't matter, then you don't have to recover, even if this problem is solved, there will be the next problem waiting for you, such as the house, while saving friends, also think about how to solve the problems that arise. If all the problems are solved, I'm sure your friends will come back to you too, right, handsome guy.
Isn't this normal, no problem, you're suspicious.
Not necessarily, at least I'm not, trust more. You trust Him, and He will never leave you. Don't overthink it and enjoy the relationship. Those things will be done by the cave house. Hehe. Girls now. Hehe.
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