Only after losing can we know how to cherish, and only when we know how to cherish will we not let i

Updated on psychology 2024-07-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The person who does not cherish it is because he does not know what he wants, and he cannot tell whether what he has in front of him is what he wants. Everything in the world should be cherished, even if it is not what you want, try not to hurt it.

    The cherishing that you only know after losing is a kind of progress, and you get the experience value of love.

    The cherishing that you don't want to lose is a kind of courage and the effort you make to achieve perfection. To cherish is to be good, no matter what is redeemed or not.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Gains and losses are not contradictory, they are a pair of dialectical relationships.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There will always be someone in your life who teaches you how to cherish.

    But at the same time, that person is something you can never get back.

    That is to say, no one can be with someone they truly deserve.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are gains and losses in life

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't know how to cherish and can't see the essence of the problem clearly, you can't have what you want.

    If you can see the essence through the phenomenon, but fail to cherish it, although you can have a correct relationship, it is natural to lose.

    If you can grasp the core and cherish it, you will be able to find what you need with a unique discernment, and you can maintain happiness and magnify happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is an old saying that if you don't hit the south wall and don't look back, no one will cherish what you have now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is something that only I can experience.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Contradiction is a manifestation of social progress hoho

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not contradictory, but you have emotional problems, right?

    Gain, loss People have to go through a lot in their lives, no matter what they choose, just what they want.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because we are all very young, there are some things that we will not know the answer without experiencing them. I hope that in the future, all people will not cherish it until they lose it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, there are many such times in a person's life, when they always feel that something is their own, they don't care much when they have it, and they regret it once they lose it

    It's just that we age too fast, but we are too late to be smart. I don't regret knowing you, it's just a pity that I'm never the one who can give you happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People, that's it. When something is there, don't cherish it. Instead, pursue those that are out of reach, and once this unreachable thing appears in front of you, you think:

    It turns out that you don't really want him, what you need most is the person who cares about and loves you the most, and it is also the most cherished, and that is out of reach is just a dream in your heart, once you wake up from the dream, it doesn't exist. However, when I woke up from the dream, the most cherished thing may be gone. I felt the same way, because I didn't cherish it, and he finally abandoned me, but I couldn't ask him to stay

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just because I didn't care at the time, because I didn't care in the past, I really had to wait for everything to pass away, and then I suddenly realized how precious these days were, but at this time, everything became irretrievable.

    It is often not until everything has passed away that it is truly understood, and it is always true to be sentimental when everything is no longer recovered. Go to remedy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are like this, they are very selfish, they don't want what they have, and when you lose what you want to recover, you have become someone else's pull, so people must know how to be content. Once you get it, you should grasp it and cherish it... Don't leave yourself with regrets!!

    In the end, it just doesn't make up for it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because what you feel personally can you understand one thing the most, no matter how reasonable what others say, it is only other people's feelings, other people's truths, and other people's experiences. It's not a lesson that really belongs to you

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

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