Why do people always know how to cherish after they have lost?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-29
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No one cares when you have it.

    Because the heart is always thinking about their own things pulling.

    Won't lose. Pretend not to care.

    But he "her" doesn't know.

    The more he belongs to him, the farther and farther away from him and "her".

    It wasn't until I looked back that I realized that I had missed a lot.

    If you have it, you should know how to cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    .People are all the same, and only after losing do they find out that the original is the best!! I hope each of us doesn't do such a wrong thing!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After losing, you will know how to cherish, what you want to ask is why? In fact, this is something that everyone has to go through, when you feel nothing, you don't think about how to cherish it, but when you find out that you should cherish it, it's too late. Why?

    The reason lies in yourself, people are such a smart but very stupid creature, remember that there is no so-called regret medicine in this world, and you can't avoid loss, the only thing you can do now is to cherish everything in front of you when you haven't lost everything, no matter what it is, as long as you do this, I think your regret should be reduced.

    What you get is not perfect in your heart, and what you can't get is the best!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People often never care about it when they have it, and when they think about it after they lose it, they realize how precious it is.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    "Why do many people not know how to cherish the beautiful things in front of them, and they choose to give up easily and choose to leave in a very chic way. I often think, "But why are so many people desperately trying to get what they can't get?"

    It's like it's a rare treasure. "In fact, there are many things that don't need to be asked why, because you can't get an answer if you ask, and the questions without answers are just a wry smile, in fact, many people's ideas are incomprehensible, and they can't figure out the ......

    In fact, don't shed tears or heartache for the lost years, because at least those years have brought you warm memories.

    Bless you ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it when they lost it, we should cherish the people we have around us, and not lose an opportunity because of others, lose a lover, then we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is the calmness when you have it, the ignorance when you have it, the regret when you lose, and the cherishing after it. This is the weakness of human nature, so please cherish everything around you now, and don't feel distressed after losing!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, people are always not satisfied, when what you don't get is the best, easy to get, you won't cherish it, the more difficult things to get, the more people will cherish it. And once I lost it, I regretted it again!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because people are very strong, they don't want to admit that they once didn't agree with something, and only after losing it do they realize that they were so stupid, and then they know how to cherish it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We all don't know how to cherish when we have it, and once we lose it, we will think that we didn't cherish her properly.

    So when we have it, we have to cherish it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you have it, you don't know how to care about it, you don't know how to protect it with your heart, you only think of his shortcomings, and it is not important in your own eyes. When I lost him, I felt empty in my heart, as if I had lost everything, and I felt that his existence was so important, and he had so many advantages that he never felt. If there is still a chance to redeem everything, then you must cherish it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Actually, I really can't figure it out.

    A lot of people have.

    I didn't cherish you when I was good.

    Wait until she gives up on you and ignores you before you regret it.

    After experiencing it once.

    After that, you will mature.

    Will cherish the feelings in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After experiencing it, you will know how to cherish it, and these are the gains. Although the feelings go, you still have to be grateful to him and her, he and she have made you know how to cherish and wish you good luck.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This problem is not only deeply touched by you Perhaps everyone who has experienced emotional pain has this feeling I have also experienced a lot of emotional separation and integration Although it is painful every time Why do you know to cherish after losing But you continue to make mistakes after such pain Maybe people are like this Not their own is the best, and when they lose, they will know to cherish There is no need to ask why, what should be done is not to make mistakes again and again, to remember the lesson Grasp the person in front of you and grasp the existing happiness

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you have it, you think that you own it, you change back and don't care, and when you lose it, you feel regretful and lost.

    At that time, it was too late to know the cherishing, and this is the psychology of people's gains and losses.

    It is human nature to think that if you have it, you will not lose it.

    The reality is that, it has happened, it has been a fait accompli.

    If it is unsatisfactory, let us learn to accept it and take it seriously, after all, we still have to live the following life, after all, there are many people we love and love us, for them, we should cheer up, and we should not punish ourselves with the mistakes of others.

    If it is wishy-washy, let us enjoy the happiness and warmth brought to us by this reality, learn to be grateful, and learn to grow.

    Thank you for the reality, it makes us mature and grow, and makes us understand the meaning of life in laughter and tears...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I used to long to stay with someone, but later, how glad I was to leave?

    Once upon a time, for a short period of time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone.

    Later, we learned that it was not love, it was just lying to ourselves.

    What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose. You dry your tears, and you have another person to make you laugh. You are heartbroken, and then you find that the person who doesn't love you is not worth your grief at all.

    Looking back today, isn't it a comedy? When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history. I feel the same way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why do people always say that only when they lose can they know how to cherish?

    Is it because we didn't know the possibility in advance, or because we didn't do our best at all?

    That's why you feel that what you have lost is worth cherishing?

    In fact, I feel that many things may be because we don't really get them, but if we don't get them, it's not necessarily good, so we should cherish them.

    To regret the irreparable things of the past, it is better to work hard for the current reality now!

    Maybe it's because you look at things from a different angle, so you think differently.

    But I feel like a lot of people are saying that, and I feel like maybe there is some truth to that!

    The past cannot be undone, but it can bring us experience and allow us to see our own shortcomings!

    But if too much nostalgia passes, it will be a waste of time!

    If you really regret the past, you must take good control of yourself from now on and have no regrets.

    No matter what the result is, as long as you do your best, you will have no regrets! (*Hee-hee.......)

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What is lost is often the most beautiful.

    Maybe before you get this love.

    You will work hard to fight for it, and you will work hard to win.

    But when you've got that love.

    You lose your original self.

    You just want to try the joy of this success.

    When love is far away from you.

    You just realize.

    The things you fought so hard for are gone.

    All you have has come to naught.

    The most precious thing in the world is not 'unobtained' and 'lost', but happiness that can be grasped now.

    I hope everyone can grasp their own happiness.

    Don't let happiness perish in your own hands.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because when you have him, you don't feel that he is important, and you will really feel that he is so important to you when you know that he is gone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have it, you will be satisfied, and if you don't lose it, how to understand that there is also a loss, a loss, a regret, and a desire to cherish it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People are so cheap.

    I don't know how to cherish when I have it.

    Only when you lose do you know that you regret it.

    So we need to cherish what we have now.

    Don't wait to lose it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because people know that when they lose, they will never get it again.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This is what people are doing, what they have, what they don't cherish, what they lose, but they have to regret it!! Alas!!! Why bother??

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's human nature.

    It's the greedy and selfish side of man.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because we are always looking for things from afar, around.

    Things are not easy for us to notice.

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