Why do boys only know how to cherish after they lose? Do girls know how to give up when they are so

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is nothing wrong with love, it is only us who is wrong, because we ask too much for love, too perfect, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, because everyone has the right to love and the right to be loved! If you really look at this love, go on bravely, you will find that life is so beautiful with love, because when you love someone, whether you are worried about him or miss him, it is a very good thing in the world! However, if you don't love, or this relationship has no result, then you have to give up decisively, because giving up is also a kind of beauty, if you don't give up your life, there may be only one possibility, that is, pain, if you let go, your life is 10,000 possibilities, I believe you will understand!

    Your life is in your own hands. What do you think?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello. Of course, some boys may think that this girl is not good at the time, and feel that he has all the shortcomings, but after a little time after the loss, he will find that it is a very good girl, so he will understand his mistakes and regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A comparison of the mood of a boy and a girl in the month after a breakup.

    When the girl just broke up, the previous week was very decadent and sad, and she couldn't get out of the previous relationship. After a week, the girl will be very happy and start having fun with her girlfriends. The boys were very happy and felt very free in the previous week.

    And after a week, the boy will start to think about the girl, and miss the bits and pieces of the time they used to be together. Therefore, the boy will definitely feel very regretful after losing a good girl, but this regret often takes a while to wake up. But at this time, the girl has long forgotten the relationship between the two people, and it is impossible to start all over again.

    After all, it is not easy for boys to find a really good girl. No particularly sensible girl has a boy behind her who breaks her heart. So when a girl first starts with you, she must be very willful and uninhibited.

    Only when you get along with her slowly for a long time will she become more and more sensible, and the reason why she is sensible is that in a certain way, you may have hurt her deeply. made a girl who was originally very naïve mature in an instant, and it was her boyfriend's credit as soon as she entered. When this girl really becomes perfect because of this boy, she will look down on this boy and will slowly stay away from this boy.

    And at this time, boys are often already very dependent on her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a boy loses a good girl, he will definitely regret it, even if he doesn't regret it now, and after he has experienced some unsatisfactory girls in the future, after suffering from their contempt, ridicule and betrayal, he will feel how perfect the girl he once lost is, how gentle, how empathetic, how unique, then he will be more painful, unforgettable, and will regret the choice he made even more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Still would. Boys are generally the hindsight type. When a girl breaks up with a boy at the beginning, she will regret it a little at the moment, but after she is sad, the wound will heal soon. But when a guy talks about breaking up, it's often a split second.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If a guy loses a good girl, will he regret it? Losing a loved one at any time, losing a very good girl, can be a very uncomfortable thing. This is no surprise, of course, there needs to be a time period in this, as the time period lengthens, boys will have a similar awareness, and the following will give you a specific description of friends' reference.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    One is to behave normally, eat and play, and the second is to become restless, anxious and afraid.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.Do guys regret losing good girls? On what basis? There will be regrets, boys will regret losing a good girl.

    If a boy loses a good girl and is with another girl, he will regret his decision, but regret that there is no medicine after all, he can only think about that girl silently in his heart.

    And the boy must have been a big aunt who is sorry for the girl to lose her, so he must regret it. A girl said to me: Actually, losing me should be his loss.

    I just don't have a person who doesn't love me, and in his life, he shouldn't have met someone who was as good to him as I was. There really is such a girl, who does not play with you, saying a word is a word, she is pure, she is really simple, kind, and really kind, through being positive, respecting others and being good at listening, she is humble, but also proud and stubborn in her heart, most of the time she is a woman. She is easy-going and calm, stubborn, paranoid, and obsessive about some people and things.

    2.It may be that in the beginning, she seems to be cold, but she is just immersed in her own world, most of the time the economy does not depend on you, try to earn money to support her, you will be happy to buy things for her, but it will also come back to you, the girl standing on the ground, they think that the other party will regret it, it is nothing more than his former payment, here he does not get the reward he deserves, the relationship has no desired effect, most of the people who propose to break up are also the other party, they are completely powerless, so he will regret such an imagination later, Give yourself some psychological comfort. And the person who loved him did not leave with you, and left completely like this.

    3.To put it bluntly, the rice is the same for whoever eats, the roses are for whoever eats there is some happiness, and the road is not pressure on anyone, you think you are unique, it's just that your love adds a halo to your feelings, in fact, you are just an ordinary person in the crowd, and you will be separated when you are separated. What I'm trying to say is, don't be so stubborn, in any relationship, at the very beginning of your commitment, you should be willing to gamble and lose.

    Remember: you're not just giving for the person, you're also giving for your own happiness, so don't stay in the past if you don't get the results you want.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Boys will regret losing good girls; The main reason is that after these boys lose their most beloved girlfriends, their lives will also find earth-shaking changes, and their lives were well organized before, but now they will be very chaotic, and after losing these girls, they will feel that their lives have become a mess.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he didn't meet a better girl, he would regret it, and if he met a better girl, then he certainly wouldn't regret it; If he loses a very good girl and his life is a mess, he will think of the girl's goodness, and he will definitely regret it, and if he is still living a very good life, he will definitely not regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't regret it; Because boys are especially open to this kind of thing compared to girls, they don't dwell on the past all the time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A boy will regret losing a good girl, after all, he will not meet a good girl again, and it will become a lifelong regret, which he will never be able to let go.

    For boys, it is a kind of happiness to be able to meet a good girl, and when they lose each other, they will regret each other and never forget each other. Boys are actually very emotionally homesick, even if they don't seem very lonely when they lose each other, they will leave a place for each other in their hearts, so that each other can occupy their hearts. Although the boy is not a sensitive person, he still has his own ideas in the face of feelings, even if he will not say that he regrets it, but he will reserve a unique position for the other party.

    You must know that true love is only once, and many times it is irretrievable if you miss it, and a good girl makes the other party unable to give up. Sometimes two people are separated for some reasons, and once they are separated, it will become the biggest regret, which makes the boy feel sad in his heart, and regret is inevitable, after all, missing a person he loves very much will make him sad. Love is not as simple as you want to come, many times it is a kind of fate, once you lose the other party, you will not have it again, this regret will make him feel painful and become a poison to torture himself.

    There are only one or two times in a person's life that can move their hearts, and it is even more sad for him to lose a good girl when a boy loses a good girl, and he will not face love so hard again in the future. A person's life is only so short for a few decades, and it is a very lucky thing to meet someone he likes in the vast sea of people, and it takes a lot of courage to give up a good girl, which makes him feel that it is a pain.

    Love is a luxury, and losing a good partner is a regret, and this regret will make you regret it in the end. For yourself, if you really like someone, the process of forgetting each other will definitely be painful, and the other party will kill you to the topic you can't touch, which will make him feel very uncomfortable and unfortunate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I'll regret it. I feel that no matter whether they regret losing it later, they will have to bear their own faults, and I feel that belated affection is never worthless.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, it won't; Because for boys, they are actually quite rational in their relationship, and they feel that the next one will be better, so they will not regret losing a good girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No; Because it is very likely that this girl can't get along with him, and she is not the type he likes, so the boy will not regret it once he decides to break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boys don't regret losing a good girl, thinking that a boy will regret the girl, it's just her wishful thinking and her own imagination, in reality, most boys will actually pin more hope on the next one, no matter whether the next one is good or bad, they actually think that it will definitely be stronger than the previous one.

    For a boy, if he thinks this girl is very good, he will try his best to be with this girl, instead of giving up or abandoning, once the boy wants to give up or abandon the girl, in fact, he has made up his mind, and he doesn't care whether the girl will fly in the future, whether the ugly duckling will become a white swan.

    If that girl abandoned him, he wouldn't regret it, because he couldn't impress a girl he loved so much, once his heart died, he would completely let go of everything, even if the object he was looking for was not as good as the one before, he wouldn't regret it, because in his opinion, although the girl who left him was glamorous, it was just a dream, an unobtainable existence, so he wouldn't regret it.

    However, it can't be said too absolutely, and there will still be some boys who will regret it. "Very good" is comparative, if the boy meets the girl later is not good, he can naturally feel that the girl before is good, on the contrary, if the girl he meets later is better, he lives a happy life, and is satisfied with the current life, it is difficult to have regrets and other emotions.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, if a boy loses a good girl, he will definitely regret it, especially when he finds a girl who is not satisfactory, he especially regrets that he shouldn't have left such a good girl in the first place.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, good girls deserve to be cherished by every boy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He will definitely regret it, because he will never meet a girl who loves him like this in the future, especially when he meets a girl who doesn't love him, he knows how precious it is to love a girl who loves himself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you miss it, you will definitely regret it, but some feelings are missed, and you have no chance to redeem it, you can only keep moving forward.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you miss it, you will regret it, because it is really not easy to meet a girl who loves herself, and after missing it, there is no girl like her in this world who is good to herself, and she will definitely regret it.

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