Is it good to know how to cherish after losing?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Landlord, this is very normal, we only slowly experience, will slowly grow up, and will slowly understand some things. After losing, we know that it is good, and we cherish it, which means that we have grown up again, although what we have lost may never belong to us, but we will not lose it again, which is also great.

    Lost, we can live happily every day is the most important thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People in general, so to speak. So when they lose it, they regret it. But what's the use? In fact, if you lose it, you lose it, and there is no need to care so much. Loss can only mean that there is no fate together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, this is a flaw in human nature, and many people have experienced this.

    So how to say it

    When you have something or someone at the moment, please take it seriously, maybe tomorrow you won't see each other again, don't fight over some trivial things, it's really not worth it

    I think sometimes, some things can be avoided, and I hope you can think more about it when you do things in the future, and cherish the present is the most precious

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on what is lost, is it affection or money? It can't be said to cherish feelings, only people around can be cherished, so it's right to call it treasured; If it's money, let alone cherish it, you have to start all over again, because money can't be earned

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really love someone, you won't wait until you lose it to cherish her, if you really love her, you will care, care for and love her when you have it. A person you love who deserves it. Rather than regretting it after losing. You tell me?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Useful, at least with memories.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is important to draw lessons learned.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not worth it, and since you lose it, there's no need to cherish it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's too late to know how to cherish after losing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are copied like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You are wrong, it is not because we have lost it, so we know how to cherish it, but because we do not know how to appreciate its existence before we lose it.

    Losing is just a matter of making us more aware of our own needs, not cherishing or not cherishing. Sometimes we care too much about something, it doesn't mean that it will succeed, on the contrary, sometimes we seem to don't care on the surface, but things go unexpectedly well.

    In fact, these are all deeply telling us one thing, cherishing or not cherishing is not on the surface, but a yearning in the heart. Therefore, we should not only look at things from our own point of view, but should look at things from many aspects to be correct. People will always make mistakes, as long as they don't think crankily and don't casually impose some undue responsibilities on themselves, then people will be happier and can also live a more relaxed life.

    Because sometimes mistakes are not the responsibility of one person, but of each other. When you think it's your fault, haven't you thought about the reason for the mistake, so don't just impose unnecessary responsibilities on yourself, but you should calm down and think about the ins and outs of the matter, if the thing is inevitable, it is a regret, if the thing can be avoided, but because of your own carelessness and missed, it is a good lesson to take it as a lesson. There is no progress without fault, people are slowly progressing from continuous failure, don't give up on yourself, live well, a better future will be waiting for you in front of you, come on!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The weakness of human nature.

    First: what you can't get is always the best.

    Second: I feel that I should cherish it after I really lose it.

    Man grows old in the midst of what he has not gained and what he has lost.

    So cherish the present.

    Take advantage of the opportunity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I really don't know why many people are so rigid and inflexible, and often regard a sentence as a classic of "one-size-fits-all". Take the so-called classic you asked, you know how to cherish it when you lose it, how can you say that it is right or wrong? Detached from specific people and things, it is just an empty and meaningless sentence.

    Is it that after getting rid of a person who makes you sad and painful, can you still say that you don't know how to cherish it? Some people have some things to cherish, and some people have things that they lose are liberation, how can they generalize?

    You should say something like this: only someone who has lost knows how to cherish, but not that he (she).

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, there are some things or some things, some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, once they lose it, they feel the value of its existence and use, and no matter how much they regret it, it is irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

    And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if only you had done it that way, if only you didn't have how it was ......in the first place

    But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

    If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

    There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

    This sentence is not contradictory.

    We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect from others; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

    If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because you find that you are missing something after losing, you should cherish the small things and people, friends and brothers around you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let's put it mildly, this is human nature, cheap!

    That's how I think people are cheap!

    Don't get me wrong, I'm targeting people

    That's just my opinion

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you haven't lost it, you won't know how to cherish it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because you don't know how to cherish when you have it.

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