Psychologist help, long distance love, how do I continue?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Hehe, I don't advise you to give up, there are some things that you won't regret if you do it, and what you regret is that you didn't do it. No one knows the future, just grasp the present. There are two situations of an indifferent person, cold on the outside and hot on the inside, or cold on the outside and cold on the inside, do you observe whether he has no feelings for you or is his own personality like this?

    There are two people who don't necessarily have to talk a lot when they are together, if they have a tacit understanding, even if they don't talk for a day, a look will be very stable. Familiarity increases, and the topic naturally comes.

    I think it is a process to walk into a person's heart, and it is enough to care for him slowly and express your love for him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It can be seen that you like him very much, or many people persuade you to no avail, in fact, no one only cares about two months, and you also hope to lay the foundation for future relationships through these two months of hard work The main problem is that if he really likes you, there will be changes, and he will not be very indifferent all the time, so it is not for you to be more proactive, at least from the heart of his love and considerate of him, and it is better to have things you like to do together to share happiness and communication, like him is a slow type, a little bit to make him feel your love, let him feel safe and happy, because your is not fixed It can be very confusing at times, and you should give each other confidence, and hope that you can be happy and happy every day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't show affection! Nightlife with him more! Men are!

    Especially to his part! But choose to give up! Two months of life has the potential to make you whirlpool deeper!

    Wishing you happiness! Don't be too stupid! Whoever leaves will live.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He was indifferent, but he didn't meet the girl he loved.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1 The whole question depends on how deep your love is, if the love is deep and true, the time distance is nothing, it is related to your experience. Of course, this is also a way to test your love, if you both identify each other, you must be able to endure this suffering, if you can't, you will definitely try your best to get closer to each other, then time and distance can help you, if both parties let it fade and do nothing, then each other is not true love, and it makes no sense to say how far you go. Love needs to be managed, this is a true saying.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My daughter-in-law and I have been in love for 7 years, in a foreign relationship for 4 years, and now we are married, distance can make each other strangers, distance can also produce beauty, see how you do it. My experience is that the farther you go, the more care you have, and that love can transcend distance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It won't last long, (under normal circumstances) you feel that you are unfamiliar, if you still love this person, find a way to communicate with him, exchange, love is based on mutual understanding and familiarity, no communication for a long time will definitely be weak, don't say that you can talk or text contact, text messages have no expression, this is unreliable, or have to be together. Or maybe you feel that love has faded, and you don't need this person so much, maybe this person is the same, otherwise he will definitely take steps to get closer to you. If your love is weakened, you can go with the flow, and sometimes it will slowly retreat to the natural state, depending on your own feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This one is your own. If you care about her every day and love her, I hope you can enter the palace of marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It varies from person to person! Some people can happily enter the palace of marriage, but some people will be strangers, because distance produces not beauty, but junior. This should be noted, if you love each other very much, don't doubt it, trust is the best thing to maintain love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time and space are extremely real problems. Love is not a plot in a TV series. Go with the flow!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When distance is generated, beauty is gone. And you're still a student, he's already working, and it's okay if it's in a city. As far as I am concerned, I don't like long-distance love, it's unrealistic, far water can't quench the thirst of the near, and it will also let others get close to the water first, even if it can last for a while, it's always in speculation and even contradictions.

    I think if you really love him deeply, you should let him work in the city where you went to graduate school. I hope you can live in real life and think more about the various problems that may occur in the future. Happy to you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since you have to fall in love from a distance, you have no choice but to choose to believe him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Believe in yourselves.

    Let yourself change the things that can't be changed. I believe that there is true love in this world.

    Because that's the case with my boyfriend, he's out of the country now, but neither of us has given up on anyone. They are all working hard for the future.

    Wishing you happiness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you feel that true love can stand the test and that his sincerity towards you remains the same, then agree if it is true. That's what others can't do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Does distance produce beauty, and if you meet again after a while, you may have a better relationship, but you must contact you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It feels like oh.,I don't seem to have started the class yet.,He's also a graduate student.,He's very obedient to his mother's words.,And his mother likes me very much.,Our two really talk.,But the place where he works is not in our place should be said to be far away.,Both of us feel good when we listen to adults.,But both of them are shy, so I don't know what to do.。

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think if you love each other.

    Distance is not an issue.

    You can do it after graduation.

    Go to his city to look for work.

    Stay with him.

    Wishing you happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We're going through a similar experience, I'm a guy who's been in a long-distance relationship for seven years

    Seriously, this kind of love is really difficult, you have to know that it is almost impossible for two people to maintain an atmosphere of love at such a distance, and it also takes perseverance for you to ensure that you remain loyal to each other for such a long time You are now 19 years old, if you really promise to wait for him for 5 or 6 years, then you will be 25 years old by then, if someone betrays during this period, will you feel that these years are wasted? Do you promise that you will not become the second Wang Baochuan?

    In short, if your emotional foundation is strong enough, you know him well enough, and trust him enough, then there is a point in waiting for him

    If it's just some "love impulses" right now, then I advise you to forget it! No one knows what will happen in the future!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    True love does not deteriorate because of the length of the distance.

    If you truly love each other, then don't care about anything.

    Try to make each other happier.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really love each other, then you must wait for him, saying that you are still young, he is so far away, you are just studying hard!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    5,6 years is really painful enough...

    The only way to get together is to find a way to get together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What a big test. Maybe you can't bear the loneliness and leave him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Up to half a year.

    Harry Bolong's Love Rice Field Yes, I've seen it occasionally,

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend and I are in long-distance love, although sometimes it is very bitter but it is sweet when we get together, it is better to cherish this relationship, and if you meet a good one, you can follow it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Troublesome things You just got big with me.

    But it doesn't matter, there aren't many people like us who are as big as us (it's all true).

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you feel that the relationship between the two of you is a real relationship, then it is worth waiting for a long time, but it depends on the two of you, not just one person is waiting, and the other person is not looking for a new love, the power of love is great, but you can't waste your youth, I am here to bless you first.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Treat love sincerely, treat the person you love, as long as you both work hard, all objective reasons are not a problem, the question is whether you really have feelings for each other.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't be stupid, divide it, long pain is better than short pain.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's impossible, either you change your mind, or he changes his mind, it's hard for so long, it's impossible, even if you love him until you're old in a panic, the sea is dry, then have you thought about it, will he change his mind, 6 years, oh my God, this is a number that can't see the future, first of all, do you believe that you will wait until he comes back, won't it change in these 6 years, if you don't even dare to be sure, then don't, does he love you, he loves you and won't give up on you for his own career, He can go to the field for 6 years for this cause, and let you wait for him, he is too selfish to think about you, he can ask you to wait for him for 6 years, you can also ask him not to go, you can give up going to the field for you, I wish you happiness.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you love each other, distance can't play any role, the distance is far, but the heart is together, unless one day you don't love him or he doesn't love you anymore, there will be no problems with the true heart, to contact more and communicate more, I am the same as you, but maybe I will be luckier than you, he doesn't have to be in the outside year, but the situation is the same, I mind you use your sincerity to wait for him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Give up now, don't be too idealistic mm. I've seen too many examples unless you or he does everything he can to change the length of the distance. If this is not possible, just give up, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts the woman.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The long-distance love between men and women, in the end, often ends in a breakup, and the reason is not difficult to understand, just like if you buy something in installments, and when the money is paid off, this thing is either broken, or you don't like it anymore.

    I'm not trying to pour cold water on you, this world is too realistic!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Impossible, I just tried, definitely break up and pull.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you want to, you can do it!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's how my boyfriend and I look. I don't know when we'll be together, probably longer than you. There is no way, only waiting.

    Get used to it, and you're good to go. Using the countdown method, the time flies quickly. As long as two people's hearts are together, distance and time are nothing.

    Believe in each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Long-distance love is a long-distance relationship, as long as two people's hearts are together, I think there is no necessary limit to the frequency, contact if you miss it, even if it is many times a day, let the other party know what you miss, I don't think you need to keep the necessary distance, everything is natural, and deliberately it will have the opposite effect. I think a long-distance relationship is a very beautiful thing, two people have to have enough trust in each other, maybe the other party is not around sometimes unaccustomed, will feel a little lonely, but as long as you firmly believe in the future in the future, everything is very beautiful

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Actually, it's really not interesting.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Care more about each other, be careful, start from the little things, let the other party get used to you, well! That's it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's hard - -

    It's hard to maintain that kind of feeling.

    But I hope you succeed, and that's my wish, and I hope you will last a long time.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Long-distance love is really difficult to maintain, even if two people are in love, there is no guarantee that they will be together in the future! So it's better not to be in a long-distance relationship....

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