I lived for 15 years in vain

Hehe, everyone is lazy, everyone is afraid, everyone wants to enjoy, the same.

1. Human beings are animals first, and human beings second, which is animal nature, which is normal.

2. If you can ask these questions, then you can still be saved, people are not afraid that others will look down on themselves, people are not afraid of others laughing at themselves, people are not afraid of their temporary embarrassment, they are afraid that they will look down on themselves, they will be disappointed in themselves, and they will give up on themselves, then it will be over.

3. If you want to be better, I will give you four self-esteem, self-esteem, self-confidence, self-improvement, and self-love, always keep these four in mind.

4. There is no dirty body, no dirty people, only dirty minds, if you think you are dirty, then clean yourself, yourself, it doesn't matter, the house is dirty and still needs to be cleaned, and the soul must be cleaned regularly.

5, the Internet, this, I understand, you think it's not Internet addiction, but I tell you clearly, that's Internet addiction, you have to make reasonable arrangements for Internet access, don't go online, don't go on the Internet, don't work hard, in this way, stipulate yourself, you must use the computer again, such as checking the information, then go up to check, check the computer off, definitely can't do it for a while, slowly develop good habits, and then give yourself a daily Internet time, such as 4 hours a day, the time is full, even if the day is down, shut down, what to do, As for the number of hours a day, I think it's about 1/3 of your average time now.

6. You must believe in yourself, you must love yourself, remember, in this world, the person who loves you the most is yourself, and the person who can be good to you for a lifetime can only be yourself, if you have no confidence in yourself, how can you let others have confidence in you?

7. Develop the habit of exercising every day, exercise for 30 minutes to an hour every day, no why, once people develop a habit of mental dependence, inertia, it is difficult to change, exercise can help you, you must insist.

8, good habits are very important, you must develop good habits, persistence is very important, I understand your pain, but not pain, where is the joy, not bland, not tasteless, how can you reflect the wonderful, all kinds of colors of life, many of them are not able to experience now, you are so decadent now, how can you experience so many feelings in the future?

9. Thinking so much for the time being, I want to think of something else, and then add.

If you can recognize this, it means that you are a good girl.

Children will be rebellious at this age.

It's up to you to deal with it.

It's okay to talk to your parents.

If you don't want to.

You can find a teacher you like and talk to her about your problems.

She's definitely going to help you At that time, I felt that the teacher was more accepting than the words of the parents, and our teacher and we were like friends.

In the dark, I saw your question, I read it very touching, I wrote a few, I hope it will be helpful to you.

1.First of all, are you disgusted with your current life (apparently you are).

2.Second, decide if you want to start over again (you already want to, you just don't stick to it).

3.It's up to you to strengthen your resolve, or you're giving up halfway. So at the moment, your first question is to find your life goal, which doesn't matter how big or small, as long as it's the most important thing for you personally, you just need to comfort your soul (this goal can be to comfort your family, to prove your personal worth, etc.).

4。With a goal in mind, it's time to act. You have to find where you are, take it one step at a time, encourage yourself every time you take a step, and punish yourself every time you retreat.

In the process, because your changes may cause criticism from others, take these as tests of yourself. Time is often not strange to others, time is the best healing medicine. When you reach a certain height, you are more afraid of losing everything you have now, and then you are less likely to fall.

5.There is still a long way to go in life, you are only 15 years old after all, when you are successful, if someone still mentions the current you, you can laugh and laugh and say to others:"I was young"。Yes, young people, what is not to forgive, what is not to be repeated.

6.If you have any specific details, you can send me a message, and you will be sure to answer them when you have time, good luck!

- The future is bright--- the road is tortuous---

Your courage to ask for help openly is commendable.,So I'll give a few comments first.,First of all, you have to restrain yourself from spending no more than 3 hours a day on the Internet.,And then wait until the school starts.,Make a study plan.,Write down the tasks you should complete this day.,If you don't finish it at night, you will punish yourself.,Until you remember.,So I think you'll change your ways.。。 Come on.

Let's start all over again, there is no one in the world who is infallible. I have also fallen, but looking closely at the people around me, my father's helpless sighs, my mother's helpless tears, and the disdainful eyes of relatives, that taste is really uncomfortable. Remember that your parents will always love you.

People are not afraid to make mistakes, as long as you are willing, it doesn't matter how late it is. It's still too late to be a 15-year-old girl, a girl who really likes yourself. Come on, I'll support you too.

A lot of teenagers are like that now.

The pressure from parents is really great.

We are really annoyed in the rebellious period of youth.

Everyone comes from that period, in fact, some parents can also understand you, but I think that although youth is a rebellious period, no matter what you do, there should be a degree, that is, you can't go online for too long, and occasionally have an awkward fight with your parents, your parents will think you are cute, but it's not normal often.

During this period, I suggest you watch more stories about success or celebrities, or watch some motivational TV shows, and I advise young people nowadays not to watch too many Korean dramas, where the love stories are too perfect and life is too free, which is not good for your current growth.

I think since you have the idea of changing your mind, prove that you are still a very sensible child, find out the specific reason, when you have troubles, you don't want to talk to your parents, but you can find a friend you think is very good with you, it doesn't matter if you have troubles, don't hold it in your heart, think that it's good to play, go crazy, and over time you will fall, keep a positive heart, I believe you will get the life you want!

Little sister. I'll tell you.

My identity. It's OK if you call big brotherDon't mind calling uncle.

First. You're in the wrong title. You're only 15 years old. Haven't started living yet. Living is a part of life. You're still a student. Haven't started your life yet.

Second. Quarrel with parents. I understand that.

15 16 years old is the most rebellious period, you just need to suppress yourself a little. Because I have lived with my parents for 15 years, I feel that they are so wordy, and I am a little troubled by my own incompetence. I'm afraid that people will mention things that they don't think they shouldn't but want to play.

will get angry. You just have to watch your mom do the laundry. I went to see my father at work during the break.

There is no need to say anything. Experience that you are naturally ** restrained.

Third. You mentioned death. The last thing to be.

Do you know why your mother conceived and gave birth to you in October? Is it because the by-product of the union of parents is still a giveaway? It's not like that.

You're a girl. You'll find out later. A woman giving birth to a child is equivalent to cutting off a quick piece of meat with a knife.

So why do parents bother for you? Why do you sometimes make them so angry with them, and they still don't give up on you? Because you are the meat of their hearts.

I met a man who had a successful career. My daughter was negligent with leukemia. He had gray hair overnight.

That helpless and haggard extension can make a man like me feel sad. Die. Doesn't solve the problem.

It can only make the living more miserable. Death can make parents lose all hope. It is the most cruel thing to destroy one's hope.

So your life is not your own. It's the family's. It's a friend's.

You can't help but cherish it. You should erase this word from your mind.

Fourth. You're annoyed. You remorse.

Angry at one's own incompetence. Then I thought about doing it well. Be a good doll.

Think about the people around you to change their opinion of you. I want your parents to rebuild hope in you. Actually, I'll tell you.

People live in the world. The first is to make yourself happy. The second is to make the people around you who care about you happy.

So. You can do it well. Not necessarily the best grades are good.

You have to have a sunny heart. Let your parents know you're trying. That's it.

You can give them hope. Until then. You'll be glad it's their daughter.

Do it well. There is no such thing as starting anew. It only takes a long time to change.

Still young, the future is bright, the road is tortuous...

If only you were aware of your own situation.