Have I lived in vain for so many years, I feel that I am very useless, and I have lived in vain for

Updated on society 2024-03-04
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have lived in vain, and after all these years, you still don't understand what kind of life you need, and you just stay on some meaningless things. If you don't mind what others say about you, then make sure that people have nothing to say.

    Low education? Learning is endless, if you want to learn or not, you don't want to learn yourself, do you still care about what others say? If you want to learn, then turn your good friend's words into motivation;

    In love? If you haven't talked about it, you can talk about it, and you want to have p use there;

    Black and ugly? You are a man, I am a girl who is black and ugly and still lives a wonderful life, naturally there are people who chase me, sometimes it is not those stinky skins that attract people, although it is sometimes important;

    No assertiveness and no confidence? Knowing what your problem is, can you lift your feet a little bit, take a small step, maybe your life will be different from now on, how difficult is it?

    Diary? It's not a bad hobby that can continue to grow old;

    WOW is also a form of entertainment, why do you have to be like everyone else?

    Don't play basketball and don't like sports? There are such people all over the world, not one of you, which has become a reason for you to live in vain?

    Don't have a goal? Self-improvement, not being looked down upon by friends, falling in love, doing an assertive thing, going to a movie, playing basketball, anything you haven't done can be your goal.

    Can't talk? Anyway, you've changed, who do you want your eloquence to surpass?

    What's so bad about simple people!

    Given that you can mention these so-called reasons for living in vain, you really lived in vain!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no living in vain... You don't have what you should have... No, you don't have any normal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a boring life = =

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, it was not in vain. How unruly it is, at least experienced it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello friends, now I have discovered one of your advantages, that is, you can see yourself very clearly. There are a lot of people who don't have that.

    And then you can keep writing a diary for so long, whether it's perseverance, interest, or writing, not everyone has it. I believe you have other advantages, just didn't find them.

    People don't have to be excellent, or how many advantages there are, more importantly, they must learn to develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses, and be good at discovering their own strengths and carrying them forward, which is commendable.

    It is recommended that the landlord discover or cultivate a hobby for himself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From the inability to study, other top students can easily conquer the test scores and gallop in the classroom. After going to work, there are a lot of goods around me, and I am rare to invest but I can't do well, and I sigh that I don't understand the world. The neighbor's children went to the United States and Japan again, took root and had children, and these moments felt that they had lived in vain.

    Those times when people in the world compare with each other are the moments when it is easiest to feel that they are living in vain.

    For an ordinary person, this feeling often appears at the moment when the frustration accumulates to the extreme. In college, I tried my best to learn high mathematics, and I was tired of taking the test with a score of 88, and as soon as the student came out of the examination room, he shouted that he failed the course, and he took the test 100, you smiled bitterly, blaming yourself for still harboring the youth and simplicity of high school, some things, not hard work will have results, people who are better than you don't necessarily need to work as hard as you, and you don't know when you have been thrown off the track, out of reach.

    Looking for a job to write a resume, I found that I had nothing to do with it, I had no grades, I had no experience, I had to think about my interests and hobbies for a long time, I forgot to write a pen, and the people around me got an offer to talk and laugh, you smiled bitterly, what have you done in four years of college, and you don't even have an excuse for yourself, even if you have a bland relationship, it's a pity that you are still a poor single dog.

    After working for three years, mediocre performance, no house or car, negative savings, colleagues and classmates or get married and have children, or buy a house and a car, or change jobs and high salaries, and what about themselves, credit card bills have accumulated in installments to exceed salary, rent is due, fragile vanity and self-esteem make me unable to wipe my face to my friends, let alone dare to open my mouth to my parents, I did not do my best for this ordinary working family, but became a burden, ashamed of myself, and the word "poor" with a wry smile on my face, what have I done in the past three years?

    I always feel that I am different, in fact, the mediocre can no longer be mediocre, always looking forward to the infinite future, in fact, I have achieved nothing but imagination, I suddenly look back, carefully examine myself and find that I have deviated from the assumption, and at this moment the misanthropy of "living in vain" arises spontaneously.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I was looking for a job, because my education was very high, I went to the interview with confidence, but the other party said that it was a beginning of Chinese, which made me feel that I had really lived in vain for so many years.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When I was talking to a child, and he said something very profound, I felt that I was not as good as a child after so many years of living in vain.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When I watched the recent graduates buy houses, I felt that I had worked in vain in the past few years, and now I want a boyfriend without a boyfriend, a house without a house, and a car without a car.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When I went out to look for a job after graduating from college, I was repeatedly rejected by the company I was interviewing with, and sometimes I was even told that I didn't have the ability, and I felt like I had lived in vain for so many years.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At the moment of losing a loved one, it seems that the previous years have been denied at the same time, and I don't know how to continue on the current road. I feel like I've lived all these years in vain. Anyway, all kinds of negative emotions are overwhelming, and I can't extricate myself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's that when you meet a very disgusting person or thing, you will feel that you have lived in vain for so many years, and now you have only met this kind of person, and if you meet it earlier, you can avoid it earlier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    One day, my brother asked me about the sixth grade math problem, and I suddenly couldn't answer it, which instantly made me feel that all these years have really been in vain.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I have been reading books for so many years, but I have been so fascinated by the game in so many years that I didn't do well in the exam. Fortunately, I woke up and chose to repeat it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I learned that my college classmates were now earning millions a year, I felt that I had lived in vain for so many years, why am I so inferior to others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After graduating from school, I have worked for many years now, but now I am still an ordinary small clerk, and the moment I received my salary from the boss, I looked at the meager pile of money, and felt that I had lived in vain for so many years.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're too pessimistic.

    Everyone has a value in existence.

    Small screws also have value.

    No, the machine still doesn't move.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sometimes I feel that way, too.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After that, he didn't work much and didn't do much. I'm always living alone, and I feel like I'm really.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There will inevitably be frustration in this world, and there are many moments when I feel that I have never lived in vain all these years.

    When I learned to buy things for my parents, my parents felt very moved and gratified, and at this time, they felt that they had not lived in vain for so many years. At least after so many years, I know how to treat my parents with a grateful heart, my parents are always the most important in my heart, and I finally learned how to be good to my parents, which is my biggest breakthrough, so I didn't live in vain for so many years.

    Let yourself make a regression when you know that you are right, it shows that I am really mature and sensible, you have not lived in vain these years, your experience in society is not in vain, at least you understand, take a step back and open the sky, endure the calm for a while, you don't want to pursue a certain thing too much, even if you are right, you are not unwilling, put this fact in front of others, and embarrass others. Especially when you realize that you are not wrong, you still admit your mistakes, which means that you are really no longer as naïve as before, and you have really not lived in vain all these years.

    In the world, we must let ourselves live a meaningful and wonderful life, rather than doing nothing, and I hope that everyone will feel extremely proud when looking back on their past, rather than looking back!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The moment that makes me feel that I haven't been in vain over the years is the moment when I get the results after each exam, and although I am not very good in each exam, I am still passable, which makes me very happy.

    Exams are a headache every time, I have always been most afraid of the exam, when I was young, I was not afraid of the exam, I was afraid of the teacher, if the exam was not good, the teacher would scold, saying that it was for us to remember for a long time in order to do well in the next exam, and I didn't talk about the exam when I was a child.

    High school has been working hard for a good university, except for some special circumstances in the second year of high school, the first and third years of high school are studying hard, just to be able to enter a university, and finally failed the college entrance examination, and was admitted to a good three universities.

    But in college, the university's exam is very important, one exam a semester, if you don't fail, you will fail, and if you don't pass the make-up exam, it will be high, which will affect the evaluation of some honors.

    In fact, if I think about it carefully, I feel that I am very satisfied with every unsatisfactory result, or because I am not self-motivated enough, so I think I should have a goal in the future, a little self-motivated, and I must plan for my future and work hard for a better life in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now I do have many moments that make me feel that I have not lived in vain for so many years, I used to be a cowardly person, and I don't like to talk, I feel that I have something wrong, I am too autistic, I am almost isolated from the world, sometimes there will be people around me to talk to me, I am ignorant, in fact, because I don't know how to communicate with others, and I am a little afraid to communicate with people, always look like I don't speak, I used to quarrel with the child's father when I was the same, Maybe it's because I'm too reluctant to communicate that my relationship with him is getting farther and farther away!

    A few days ago, the house was filled with gas, I really think I have changed a lot, if I encountered this kind of thing before, I would hurry up to give the money to others, and send them away as soon as possible, but that day I actually bargained with him, and said a lot of nonsense, I really admire how I became so god-like, speaking is one set after another, and I am very enthusiastic, haha, and let people help me adjust the fire, all become blue fire, it feels very good, ** on also let me give some off, It is equivalent to going to the gas station to inflat** (I just heard the neighbor say it in the morning**), the ** gas station gives us ** must be different from those large quantities**, people must still make money, but it is relatively less, it seems that talking more is indeed beneficial, if you don't chat with others, people are not obliged to help me adjust the firepower, let alone give me profits for no reason, so many years, I really didn't live in vain, finally I have made some progress, at least I know to try to communicate with others!

    And before my mother was sick, I was also busy running before and after, communicating with the doctor, taking the initiative to ask for precautions, and I felt that I had really changed a lot at that moment, and I was no longer the silly girl who was only a promise before, so many years have really not worked in vain, so that I have gradually grown up and become stronger and stronger!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I am still in a kind of muddy nightmare, I don't know if I lived in vain, but one thing is for sure, my husband told me that he can't do without me in this life, my baby said to me, he has always asked his mother to be by his side, although the child said this has a childlike naïve component, and my husband said this on a whim, but only these few words have made me, a housewife who is family-oriented and family-oriented, have a sense of being needed. I thought maybe I was sent by heaven to save them.

    I often run out to buy groceries and cook in this complacent and happy state. Some people may think that just buying groceries and cooking will satisfy you like this, and this pursuit is simply no one. Then I can only say that not only am I too lazy to think about whether the real purpose of their sentences is to please me to have something to eat, or whether they are really dependent on my existence, but I also often use the method of spiritual victory to deal with a lot of unpleasant housework that cannot be solved, such as the relationship with my mother-in-law, with my concubine, and with outsiders.

    I never thought about whether I was living in vain, but I thought that if I lived, I had to make a difference, but my laziness and lack of effort at work often seemed like I was useless, so I should go back to my family, and sometimes I can still show my presence. Wouldn't that be nice? So for me, a simple and clear moment of living in vain is that my baby and my husband have fragrant rice to eat.

    Every time I saw him gobbling up my cooking, he said: It's delicious, it's the best meal I've ever had. I don't think I'm living in vain.

    Because I have satisfied at least two of my favorite people.

    Sometimes I feel ashamed of my parents, and I don't repay their nurturing kindness with my achievements, but my mother has not pursued it more than me, and when she sees me circling around the stove, she points my hole behind and says, "This is like a woman." I really don't know what she thinks about this vain life in her life.

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