What is the mentality of a boy I like very much, but I just want to be friends with you?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think it's a very sad feeling, because I like him very much, and he just wants to be friends with you, to show that he doesn't like him, maybe out of love for her, but that's not acceptable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think I like a guy very much, but it is a very uncomfortable feeling that I just want to be friends with me, the kind of person who thinks he likes me as long as he likes him, otherwise I will be very uncomfortable, the kind that will think about it day and night.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The boy I like very much, I just want to be friends with you, it must be a very sad state of mind, after all, it is not easy to meet someone I like, and it must be very sad to miss it like this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Respect his choice, if he wants to be friends with me, then be friends, if you don't want to be friends with her, then refuse him tactfully, people who really like it can't be friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I like the boy I like, but he just wants to be friends with me, I will be sad, because he says that he wants to be friends with me, in fact, he is politely refusing to say that he doesn't like me, but I think there is no way to be friends anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think I can only say this mentality myself. I'm sure you have some objective qualities, it's good to be friends, but I really don't like you, and I don't have the possibility of developing into a lover, but I don't want you to think that I'm refusing because you're bad.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I used to have a guy I really liked, but he told me that we would always be the best buddies, and I knew exactly what he was trying to say, that he didn't like me, so we had to be buddies.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I used to have a guy I liked very much, but he told me that he and I were good friends for life, and at first glance I was very happy, but when I think about it, he is telling me that he doesn't like me, and I am sad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a chicken dog restless directed by Chen Daming, which is a work created by director Chen Daming who studied in Hollywood and came back after eight o'clock, as well as the teenager Bao Qingtian, this film and television work is also based on your Kaifeng.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The famous TV series I know with Kaifeng as the background is Bao Qingtian, we have all watched Bao Qingtian, the chief judge of Hongfu is very famous, and this is also a TV series that everyone knows.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Kaifeng Mansion, a famous TV series with Kaifeng as the background, it mainly talks about the big and small events that Bao Gong Bao Zheng broke in Kaifeng Mansion, all of which show Bao Gong's gods and wisdom.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For example, the TV series about the theme of Bao Gong is a classic, this TV series is based on Kaifeng as the background to create a good official with good character, and there are many others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The famous TV series I know of with Kaifeng as the background include the young Di Renjie's Ventilation Ape, "Children of the River", Daren is also crazy, and the well-known TV series "Dream of Red Mansions".

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The legend of Kaifeng Mansion, it is mainly about the legendary events that have always been in Kaifeng Mansion, as well as the Red Police, Anyang Baby, Blind Well, growing up together, Kaifeng Strange Talk, Kaifeng Mansion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that he feels that he is not worthy of you, or that he feels that he is not psychologically prepared, there must be some reason, these reasons prevent him from continuing to like you, I think the most reasonable explanation is that he is more mature, he feels that he can't bring you happiness, he likes you, but he feels that he can't give you what he wants, so he would rather only be friends with you, maybe he also realizes that you won't like him, he knows that there is no result, so he only friends with you, I don't know if my analysis and what you think are similar, I think if you like a guy, encourage him more, give him a little confidence, cheer him up and chase you, and ignite a fire of love for you

    There are many meanings, mainly depending on how you deal with it, the next time he says this, you ignore him, see if he will apologize to you, remember, women can't come and go at the moment, then there will be no status.

    He will be anxious to explain to you that that person is not his girlfriend, and he will express his heart to you, boys are like this.

    It's good to say this, you have to cherish such a cautious relationship friend, at least he is worthy of your friends, and at the same time he also cherishes a friend like you so that he will not want to go further, often after dating, only to find that the feeling between lovers has not been as relaxed as when they were friends.

    Sending a text message saying that he misses you because he is very nostalgic for the time he spent with you and wants to meet and get along with you. It shows that you have made a good impression on him, and you are more pleasing to him. Speaking at different levels, maybe he likes you, but he can't be with you, and he regrets it.

    When I think of you when I'm bored, it may be that you helped him pass the boring time in the past so that he has a dependence on you, and he thinks that you just want to pass the time at this time...

    It's not that there is no single-minded boy, but I haven't met him who is really tempted... If you can't meet it, many of the girls around him are playing around, saying that he misses you, maybe he really wants to, but there is a lot of moisture in it, flirtatious, virtual and real, can this still be serious? The man's words are very vain, and the most important thing is to see his actions!

    Because this boy's personality is like this, you have a more sacred status in his mind, and he should be a boring person.

    Actually, it's just to know if you have a boyfriend, and if you say your name, it means that you have a boyfriend, and if you say you don't have a boyfriend, he will pursue you.

    It's that he thinks it's possible, if he likes you, you'll be a burden to you, he thinks that only letting go is the second chase, and he says that as long as the two of you are really so-called friends, you won't be so painful for each other.

    This can show that this guy likes you. However, setting up a is based on sexuality. It can't be said that this boy is really in love with you.

    Personally, I believe that true love can stand the test of time. Girls don't give their first time easily.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to figure out why he said that. There are the following: 1, it may be his own reasons, he will be introverted and shy, shy and embarrassed to say 2

    He's a cunning guy who is testing you, waiting for you to speak first 3I don't think I'm worthy of you, or I'm worried that I'll be wrong (you don't like him), that is to say, I may be weak and have low self-esteem

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I know this better than anyone else, although I am a girl, but I think the same as him, he is not sick, nor does he like you enough, on the contrary, he likes you too much, this may not be understood by others, but I must know that although I have someone I like, I just want to be good friends with him forever, because I am afraid of losing it, I know that if we are separated, we may not even be able to be friends, but friends are different, although he may not like you, but at least I feel that I can always care for him as a friend, share happiness with him, be by his side I will be content, happy, and happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, this is also very good, how many boyfriends and girlfriends get along well at the beginning, and in the end, due to some contradictions and separation, they can't even be friends, and friendship can last forever! So although I feel a little uncomfortable, being a good friend for a lifetime is also a thing that can be met but not wanted!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Getting along with the opposite sex does not necessarily lead to love, and sometimes a guy behaves like he just wants to be friends with you.

    1. I won't take the initiative to find girls, and I won't talk about my feelings when I chat.

    Second, he will take the initiative to say his mate selection criteria, but it is not suitable for this woman.

    Third, they will reject a woman's ambiguity and do not want to delay a woman's time.

    To sum up, when two people get along, women should also be rational, when a man has the above three performances, it means that the other party only wants to be friends with you, not lovers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He will never take the initiative to chat with you, and he will not talk to you about some emotional things, and will tell you his mate selection criteria tactfully, but your personality does not meet his mate selection criteria. I won't refuse to be ambiguous with all the opposite sex.,Usually when I'm with you, I'm also very aggressive.,Get along like a friend.。

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men will keep a certain distance from you and will not talk to you if they don't have work to do. I won't have much contact with you, and when you look for this man after work, the man is also ignorant of you, and is very indifferent to you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    will not take the initiative to chat with girls, will not talk about their feelings, will take the initiative to say their own mate selection criteria, will refuse to be ambiguous, and will not delay women's time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. No jokes between men and women

    If a man just regards you as a friend, then he will never have any ambiguous thoughts about you, the most obvious manifestation is that men will not joke with you about men and women, such as some intimate topics between the opposite sex, or always ask about your privacy, etc., men treat you as a friend is equivalent to treat you as a buddy, how can there be an ambiguous thing with a buddy.

    2. Say to you that they will always be friends

    When a man categorically says that you are good friends, it means that the relationship between the two of you can only stop at the level of friends, he will not break this boundary, and at the same time he also hopes that you can understand his thoughts, if you like him, then you may not even have to be friends.

    3. You are not my criterion for choosing a mate

    Every man has a criterion for the choice of his other half, if he is sincere to you and says that you do not meet his criteria for choosing a mate, it means that your relationship is limited to friends, and you are a woman he will not fall in love with, in fact, this statement is the most expressive of his psychology.

    4. Refuse to be alone with you

    If a man has a good relationship with you, he will help you whenever you are in trouble, but he never spends time with you, and even if he asks you out, he will call other friends, which means that the man only treats you as a good friend and has no other thoughts.

    5. Never take the initiative to help you get the bag

    In the eyes of a man, he will only take the bag for the woman he loves, if a male friend never takes the initiative to help you get the bag, it shows that he really treats you as a buddy, and feels that it is too ambiguous to help you get the bag, and it is easy for people to misunderstand, so the man will not let this misunderstanding happen.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. I will only come to you to play when I am bored

    2. I don't care about your feelings

    Caring is the beginning of liking, men often start to care about a woman first, and then slowly fall in love with this woman, all kinds of care, not deliberately, it is a man who cares about a woman who has a good impression of a woman from the bottom of his heart, if you care about that man very much, never care about your feelings, then he should not have you in his heart, and he does not plan to have you in the future.

    3. When I took the initiative to chat with him, I didn't talk much

    You've been taking the initiative throughout the whole process, you've been looking for a topic, and if you don't speak, he won't reply, and for the conversation between you, it's a question and an answer. Sometimes you even say a lot of words in exchange for a few words from him, and the perfunctory emotions are really overflowing.

    4. He has never taken the initiative with you

    Even if you ignore him for a long time, he will not take the initiative to find you, there is such a pattern between you, as long as you don't take the initiative, he will definitely not take the initiative for you, sometimes even if you take the initiative, he still won't reply to you, if so, obviously, he has no interest in you, you are like ordinary friends, so men will not care about your news.

    Talk about other women in front of you

    He'll take the initiative to make small talk with you, and he'll talk about other women. If he really likes you and wants to develop further with you, he will not mention other women in front of you, let alone talk about other girls' appearance, body or anything in front of you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I often play with you, interrupt when it comes to the point, don't play well, won't take the initiative to spend money for you, and won't often take the initiative to contact you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't do anything out of line, just be friends, but keep a certain distance.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I won't pay too much attention to you, and you won't be jealous when you talk to the opposite sex.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't pay attention to you, but I will give advice on something.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Only talk to the heart, can care about you, but not often.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Helping you occasionally, I won't talk to you every day.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Introduce you to other men often.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Walk. Dude, go out for a drink.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't really care about you, I feel it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Generally, a man will talk to you a lot if he wants to be friends with you, and if he is not interested in you, he will not say more to you because you are not his dish.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He will find reasons to refuse your invitation and not communicate with you about trivial matters. He won't care about you either. When you take the initiative to talk to him, he won't talk to you much. This sock is ruined just to be friends with you, and I don't like to split the sedan car to be reckless and unbridled.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Reject your confession. will stay away from you. I'm going to hate you. Will decline your appointment. It will be very difficult to speak. Expressions can become very cold.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    will keep a distance from you, and will not often go to the brother to pretend to communicate with you, nor will he often call you **, will not do something particularly out of line, and is not interested in envying you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    For example, the hidden hall said that a man will not take the initiative to talk to you with Lu dialect, nor will he take the initiative to ask you out, and when he introduces you to others, he will say that you are his friend, and he will not have intimate behavior with you, and he will not have an affair with you.

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