I m worried about my future with my girlfriend, my future with my girlfriend?

LZ, I'm against your father's notions.

First, as a man, you can't rely on a woman.

Third, if you marry a woman from an official family, even if you are rich, you may not be happy, and if you have a conflict with her and want to separate, then everything you will turn to ashes.

So I still suggest that you love your current girlfriend well, and then the two of you can start your own career together.

This is the best way to go.

Don't think too much If you love her, don't be afraid of difficulties.

Since we're together, there's nothing we can't say on the table, so let's talk to her and your dad.

What about the women of the official family, in fact, plainness is the greatest happiness Dude, work hard.

If you love her, don't care about anything, I'm a man, I think a man should be responsible for a girl! Leave her when you don't love, and give her happiness if you love her!

It is true that the reality in this world is more significant, but in the face of loyal love, I choose the latter, because that will be the capital of my life's happiness!

That effort, if you don't want to live up to her.

This is a matter of fate, if the two really love each other, and they don't care about the reality of each other, then you can talk to your dad.

There are times in life when you need to have it.

There is no time in life to force it.

I don't think it's better to get married yet... Because you're under a heavy psychological burden right now.

When you're in love, it's endless, it's just a matter of the two of you, it's okay to divide and reconcile, after getting married, it's a matter of two families, and making trouble with Li Huan may be a normal thing for young people now, but parents don't think so.

In your current state, you probably won't be happy when you get married. Parents want you to get married, but also hope that you can find a good life, if you can't live a good life when you get married, then there is no need to get married, just talk to your parents, you said that you have a heavy burden in your heart now, you have to think about getting married, I hope you don't rush me, I don't want to regret it in the future!

And the landlord, you are very young now, there is no need to get married so early... Your girlfriend is the same age as me, and I'm still in college...

And your attitude towards feelings is actually not very good, I don't think you have found a very loving one, otherwise you won't think of your first love when you are emotionally hurt, but you don't think of your ex-girlfriend again when you don't play... I'm afraid you don't know exactly what you want right now.

As for your current girlfriend, it's not like you can get along if you want to be separated, maybe she's not a good girlfriend, but you also have to consider other people's feelings. What you think in your heart, at least you have to ask your girlfriend, why didn't she call you...

I think you need to think again. Marriage is a lifelong thing. If you make a mistake because of carelessness, it's hard to correct it.

Although the person you marry is not necessarily the one you love, she must be the right person for you. If you are really as good as you say, I am sure you will find a true emotion of your own. It's not that hard.

Mainly rely on in-depth communication, understanding and getting along. If she's really arrogant and wants you to give every time without giving you anything in return, and you don't want to go on like this forever, then I think the best way is to break up. Don't think about getting married first, see if there is someone who suits you first.

If you really don't, you can think about getting married again. This is just my personal opinion, and the main decision is yours.

I personally think there are two possibilities for your situation, I don't know if it's right or not, you can take a look at it and use it as a reference.

One is that you may not want to get married yet, you are not ready to get married, or you have a premarital phobia. Thinking about some negative things, feeling that I have been wronged, the more I think about it, the more I think about it, the more I feel that I have paid too much, and I feel unbalanced and unfair. Why don't you want to think about the time when you are happy together and when she surprises you.

And she was like this when you used to date her, why did you like her so much then, and now you think that she is not good or bad, and there is never such a thing as fairness in emotional matters. If you like a person, you should like her in all of them, not a little of them.

The second is that you have no feelings for her. Personally, I think that when you reconciled again, external factors played a big role, and at that time the feelings for each other had faded. You only see her shortcomings now, and feel that she is not to your liking, and she is just making excuses for your separation and brewing emotions, after all, this time you opened your mouth to get back together.

That's my personal opinion. You better calm down and think about whether you want to spend your life with her, after all, this is your own feelings, don't hesitate anymore, you know yourself, it's better to decide early.

What I want to say is that the byholder is clear, but not necessarily you will listen to me, but you still have to decide for yourself, because you have to follow your heart, it is possible that you and her got the so-called love, but after marriage, not only love can maintain your relationship, you need mutual trust and humility to maintain your relationship. It's better to break up, time will solve everything, don't let it be distressed later, this is my personal opinion.

Cryogenic love - value each other and need each other.

The highest state of love is to withstand the dull passing years.