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There must be something bad.
Why are you always dissatisfied? Is it because he never did things well? I don't think so, right? He must have something that you can be satisfied with, maybe you want your son to become Jackie Chan and are too demanding
And even if you are not satisfied, you should not blindly reprimand, maybe you should strengthen communication with your child, and a little encouragement may get a better effect
People are meant to be encouraged, think about it, when you are a child, you will work hard to do a good job for the praise of the teacher, and often do it well
People will have a courage after receiving encouragement, an impulse to do something well, if this impulse and courage continue long enough, then in exchange for the success of something
Communication is very important for every family, especially between parents and children, there should be a generation gap between children and parents, resulting in differences in thinking and concepts, then communication is the best way to narrow the generation gap, mutual understanding, mutual support is not more acceptable than frequent reprimands?
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You can't blindly reprimand, so the child will not have self-confidence. Be reasonable, encourage and enlighten your children. You can say it to him in another way:
You're doing the right thing, but with your ability, you should be able to do better. If you try your best and don't do it well, I won't be angry with you.
Once the child has made some progress, he should be encouraged in time and say: I am satisfied with this, I know that you will do so well, you are my pride!
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Children always have to grow up
Sometimes, letting them experience and feel is more profound and appropriate than teaching him a thousand words!
Give them a little space! Don't be too strict!
If you don't want your child to distance yourself from you because they are afraid of you, then try to let yourself go! Be honest with what they are doing!
Good luck!
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Take a magnifying glass, stare your eyes wide and discover the ten strengths of your child.
Do it right away.
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Create a good family environment. First of all, a harmonious family atmosphere will make children feel the love of their parents from an early age, let them know that parents also need to take care of others, and help children learn to care for their parents. Families must respect each other and, most importantly, make children feel that their parents are equal.
Face up to your child's needs and let go appropriately. Parents should face up to their children's growing needs, understand them, try their best to meet their reasonable needs, and do not directly reject those that are unreasonable. They should explain the reason clearly and not accumulate conflicts with the child during the rebellious period.
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Personally, I think that as a parent, you should reflect on yourself, whether you are yelling at your child, and communicate well with your child.
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Tell your child that the first task in life is to be filial to his parents, so that he can leave a good impression on the opposite sex and find a good partner in the future. The word filial piety is the first place.
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In fact, this kind of doting will seriously affect the child's future development, and it will suffer the consequences to a certain extent, for example, the child will never take the family seriously in the future, and even hurt his family at willExtremely self-centered, and in the process of children's continuous development, he may run into walls everywhere, whether in study, work or in life, he will feel that life is particularly difficult, because in the general environment of our society, no one wants to contact with people with special ego, so for the sake of the child's future, do not spoil the child too much. Here, based on my own experience, I will share with you several ways to educate children correctly, and share them with you, hoping to help you:
1. Set rules
First of all, in the process of educating children, we should set some rules for children, because there are no rules, so the rules are very important, after setting the rules, if the child touches the rules, then we must do things according to the rules, we must not get by, slowly the child will understand that everything must be in accordance with the rules, the current law is the same, no ordinary people can break the law.
2. Be reasonable
After a lot of things happen, we can't let the child do it at will, when it should be criticized, we should criticize him, if he doesn't understand, then we have to be careful to reason, only let him personally understand the good or bad of this matter, he can change himself from the heart, so, in fact, reasoning is also a very important way of education.
3. Don't satisfy him with everything
In the process of educating children, we don't want to meet the child in everything, in this case, the child will slowly feel that his requirements will be particularly easy to meet, and gradually the child will intensify his requirements, because people's desires are endless, so don't meet him with any requirements, the specific method is to meet her in a reasonable way, that is, if he has any requirements, then he can communicate with you, and if you agree, meet her.
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There are many such phenomena, but you have to think about it, aren't you a bad kid like this? Who will bear his life in the future, he has always been used to him, how will he work and study when he grows up? It's not your fault.
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It's not good for parents to be too pampered with their children. After all, the child will follow his own life path in the future, and not everyone will let him get used to him. Still, children should develop their own independent personality.
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Children are the treasure in the palm of their parents, but if the child makes a mistake and the parents do not correct it, it will inevitably affect the child's future development.
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There are some parents who spoil their children too much, which is a disservice to their children. It is the nature of parents to get used to their children, but it is harmful to children to be too pampered for a long time. Children should grow up, develop and become talents in education.
Therefore, children who can interact with each other will not have much interest in the future.
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This is not to love children, it is to harm children, if there is a mistake, you have to educate and criticize, and if you are reasonable, you must praise, so that the child can know whether what he is doing is right or wrong.
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Spoiling a child is very bad for the child's growth, and it will cause the child to be selfish, willful, and unable to accept frustration.
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Blindly spoiling children will only promote their arrogant and domineering character.
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I feel that it is time for parents to go to class, after all, the child's first teacher is the parents, and the age of three is 80.
If children can develop a good and correct character in the first few years, etc., maybe there will not be so many criminal activities in the future.
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The habitual son is like a murderer, and filial piety comes out under the stick, which is an unchanging truth for thousands of years.
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Such a parent, he thinks that it is a good thing to spoil his children. In fact, such a child can't stand the slightest frustration when he leaves him and goes to society. Who spoils you every day.
When the time comes, it will be too late for this parent to be in a hurry. Parents should guide their children, praise them for their good performance, and criticize them when they make mistakes. Let him only know what is right and what is wrong.
It's not a bad thing to have a little setback. In the future, I will be able to withstand the competition in society, not be defeated, and become an independent person. This is the love of children!
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Doting, when the child reaches a certain age, the parents will regret it.
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This is a common problem, and there is no good way to have a chance to kindly remind you.
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Rewards and punishments should be clear, and doting is a big mistake.
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It's good to kill, there's no point.
Tell him who is taking the college entrance examination and who is filling in the volunteers.
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