Should parents give their children mobile phones? How to cultivate children s habit of using mobile

Should parents give their children mobile phones? How to cultivate children's habit of using mobile phones wisely?

You can play, but you can't indulge. Nowadays, children are very fond of playing with mobile phones, and they play games or **** every day after school. Some parents are very permissive to their children, thinking that their children can learn a lot from mobile phones, but some parents will strictly prohibit their children from playing with mobile phones, they are worried that their children will be more likely to indulge in mobile phone games, which will not be of much benefit to their life and learning.

Mobile phone user habits are all important for children, but how can parents guide their children to develop such habits?

If children can develop some better mobile phone user habits, it will be of great help to their learning and training, because we can find some information on the Internet or query some online courses, which can effectively assist students in learning and training, but if children use mobile phones to do some bad things, such as playing games or brushing short**, this behavior is very easy to make children addicted to mobile phones when they can't extricate themselves, and parents are not very willing to see this kind of situation. Therefore, in order to let children learn some good mobile phone user habits, it is best for parents to make a schedule for their children to use mobile phones, require them to look at their mobile phones at what time, and strictly require them to play with mobile phones.

Parents in the child's family for the child enlightenment or deeper, sometimes parents are willing to do some things, children will also be willing to do, so in order to let the child have a good role model, parents must not always look at the mobile phone, and do not always take the mobile phone in front of the child to brush the small ** or play games, otherwise it can only have an impact on the child's psychology. Parents should accompany their children to grow up healthily. Parents can shape more extracurricular preferences for their children, so that everyone can cultivate more interests and hobbies in extracurricular days, replace electronic devices according to their interests, and also allow them to reduce the time they spend playing with mobile phones.

It is still more appropriate, because now is the age of information after all, parents should tell their children to play with their mobile phones for half an hour after each homework, and they must strictly regulate the time for children to play with mobile phones, and when they take their children to play with mobile phones, they should adjust their children's mobile phones to teen mode.

I don't think children should be given mobile phones; It is necessary to make an appointment with the children in the three chapters of the law, let them arrange their study and rest time reasonably, establish correct concepts for them, and improve their self-control.

I don't think you should give your phone to your child when they are studying; Children should be given a time frame to be able to play with their phones for a set amount of time.

When children use mobile phones, parents must set a good time for their children, which is the most important thing, and then in the process of using mobile phones, parents must guide their children to use mobile phones for what to do, and let their children do things under their own control.

We need to tell our children that they are still young and not use mobile phones, and explain to them that there is a factor in their parents' use of mobile phones because of their own work.

Children can play with mobile phones, but there must be a degree, do not play for a long time, otherwise it will easily affect the child's eyesight, as well as the child's energy, and then parents must know what the child is mainly playing with the mobile phone, which is also the most critical.

If you want to guide your child to use your mobile phone correctly, first of all, parents should set a good example, stipulate the time for their children to play with their mobile phones, combine work and rest, and tell their children that mobile phones are not the whole of life.

There is a saying that goes like this: games are the early love of fifteen years ago, the idol of thirty years ago, the Hong Kong movie of thirty-five years ago, and the martial arts ** of forty years ago. Many children who love to play games also have good grades, and the top students are even more comfortable playing games.

The main thing is how to control time, find the child's frustration, the reason for the decline in grades, improve the communication skills between you, etc., start from the environment, the child's own and parents' educational communication, etc., and systematically carry out it to help the child quit Internet addiction, establish mobile phone network boundaries, and let the child return to the previous state.

How to help children quit Internet addiction in 30 days and establish mobile phone boundaries are as follows:

Week 1: Parents should understand the 5 stages of their children's addiction to the Internet, what are the 7 commonly used ways to quit Internet addiction, what are the 8 main reasons for children's addiction to mobile phones, and then how to sign an agreement with their children to use mobile phones, and finally what to do if their children do not hand over their mobile phones? Parents should understand the whole process first.

Week 2: Parents should do a good job of helping their children establish mobile phone boundaries, what are the preventive measures for our parents to deal with when the child is noisy, loses his temper and throws things, threatens not to write homework, threatens not to go to school, threatens not to eat, threatens to run away from home, threatens to jump off the building, etc.? Parents must not fight uncertain battles, otherwise tragedies will easily occur.

Week 3: Parents start to help their children establish mobile phone network boundaries, and the most difficult thing is that the child does not agree, what should I do? That is, when we prepare to implement it in the previous 2 weeks, there will definitely be new or unexpected problems, whether parents insist on establishing boundaries, or give up because of their children's loud noise?

This is determined by the parents' aspirations, and at the same time, they also need the guidance and support of professional and experienced teachers, as long as they can take this step, they can cultivate an excellent child with a sense of rules, boundaries and self-discipline.

In the 4th week, parents must help their children consolidate the boundaries of mobile phones, help children quit Internet addiction Parents can not simply block, while establishing mobile phone boundaries, we must guide children's learning goals, learning plans, learning methods, learning motivation, improve attention, improve home environment, improve parent-child relationship, improve teacher-student relationship, etc., as long as the child finds self-confidence in learning, improves academic performance and finds a sense of achievement, then the child will no longer be addicted to Internet addiction.

Right to do:

1. Play with children normally and help children deal with the relationship between learning and games.

2. In terms of family education, parents should create a good family atmosphere for their children.

3. Parents should help their children build self-confidence and a sense of worth.

4. Help children heal their "inner children" and release their suppressed emotions.

For the situation of playing with mobile phones, parents should really be strict, discipline can let children play for half an hour every day, and then immediately put down the mobile phone to study, only in this way can children develop good habits.

Parents can agree with their children about the three chapters of the law, and they cannot play with mobile phones during study, rest, and class time; Secondly, parents have the right to supervise, if they find that they are playing with their mobile phones within the agreed time, they can restrict them, and if they can fulfill the contract on their own, they will be rewarded.

Parents can control the time when their children play with their mobile phones, so that they can play with their mobile phones reasonably, which will be much better.

Parents should give their children to play with mobile phones, and should give some relevant regulations to their children, that is to say, the proportion of mobile phones should be larger, and they should not be in such a state after getting a mobile phone. It is necessary for him to realize that there is not only a section in the mobile phone such as games, but also related learning sections and information sections, etc., which are worth going to.

Parents need to strictly stipulate a time for their children to use mobile phones when playing with mobile phones, and then over time, let them develop some good habits of using mobile phones. If the child does not have a good self-control, or is too young, there needs to be a rule such as receiving mobile phones, and if the child has reached an age like high school, let him control himself.

Therefore, if you want to cultivate the habit of using your child's mobile phone reasonably, you should give him some rules at the beginning, what is the time period of using the mobile phone every day, and how to plan the time of playing with the mobile phone. At the very beginning, give him these regulations, and you can also set up some reward and punishment systems, that is, if you perform well, you will be rewarded, and if you perform poorly, there will be some related punishment systems.

Then if you strictly implement it for a long time, it is a good way for the child to develop a habit of using the mobile phone reasonably, and when he grows up a little, let him control himself and supervise him from time to time. Change the approach to management through constant observation.

Therefore, the final conclusion is that parents should let their children use mobile phones appropriately or play with mobile phones, because mobile phones can now be said to be an important tool for understanding the outside world. With a mobile phone, children can learn some relevant information in time, or play games to relax, and then when cultivating children's habits of using mobile phones reasonably, they must strictly implement the regulations, so as to better let him quickly develop habits.

Parents should not give their children to play with mobile phones, if they always play with their children, it will make them develop bad habits, and it will also make children especially dependent on mobile phones. Make a plan for your child to play with the phone, and stipulate when the child will play with the phone, after which he should not play.

Think you should give your child to play with your phone, but you should control the time your child plays with your phone, and don't let your child play for too long; Mandatory, don't let the child play for too long, parents should also lead by example, don't play with the mobile phone in front of the child, take the child out to get close to nature in your spare time, do more time that the child is interested in, you can also take the child to the same school to play, communicate with the child more, and consider more from the child's point of view.

Parents should let their children play with mobile phones, but they should play in moderation and planning, rather than blindly indulging; We should let children form a sense that if they excel in learning or other performances, they can be rewarded for playing with their mobile phones for a certain amount of time, which can not only enhance their motivation to learn, but also limit their time playing with mobile phones.

In unnecessary cases, it is recommended that children minimize the time spent using mobile phones, because mobile phones now have a really great impact on people, and it is extremely easy for people to become addicted to them, such as adults, not to mention children, and if children are overly addicted to mobile phones and Douyin games, their academic performance will decline, and it will also affect their eyesight.

There are two ways parents can try. First of all, parents should guide their children to establish good self-control, so that children can reasonably arrange their time for playing with mobile phones and studying. Secondly, parents can set a time for their children to play with their mobile phones, for example, after their children complete their learning tasks, parents can let their children play with their mobile phones for half an hour or an hour.

More and more parents are starting to care about the time their children spend playing with their mobile phones. On the one hand, it is because some children lack self-control, and they have no way to control the time they spend playing with their mobile phones. On the other hand, because the child is not able to distinguish some of the information in the mobile phone, he is overly immersed in the mobile phone world, which may lead to a decline in the child's academic performance.

A large part of the reason why some children do not develop self-control is that they lack a sense of time. For example, children spend a lot of time playing with their mobile phones, and they lack time to study, so they are naturally unable to complete the prescribed learning tasks. Parents can create a very detailed schedule for their children, but there needs to be a gap between one task and another to allow the child plenty of rest.

When children gradually establish the concept of time, they will naturally develop self-control and reduce the use of mobile phones.

Some parents are worried that their children's academic performance will decline due to excessive addiction to mobile games or mobile content, so parents have begun to force their children not to play mobile phones. As a result, children are prone to rebellion. In fact, parents can let their children use their mobile phones to search for information for a short time after completing their homework, and gradually get rid of their children's bad habits of using mobile phones for a long time.

In general, the popularity of smart phones has changed people's travel methods and lifestyles, but more and more children are exposed to mobile phones too early, and some children cannot have the correct three views. Parents should take the right approach to guidance and make a schedule for playing with their phones if necessary.

I think parents should set a time for their children to play games when they close their acorns, especially at night, and enroll their children in interest classes, so that they can go out to exercise more, so as to disperse away from mobile phones.

Don't buy him a mobile phone. Take your phone back. Don't let him touch your phone. Tell someone not to give him your phone. If he plays with his phone, punish him.

Parents should not play with mobile phones in front of their children and supervise their children, do not let children shout to contact the code to take electronic products, you can guide children Zheng Moji to read books and expand children's horizons.

Parents can stipulate the time for their children to play with their mobile phones, and they can't be too strict or too lenient, too strict will make the child rebel, and the effect of being too loose is not obvious.

1. Make a good time plan so that your child doesn't have time to play with your mobile phone: prepare a notebook and write down in as much detail as possible when you get up in the morning, such as washing your face and brushing your teeth in the morning, making a morning for your child, etc. Write it down in as much detail as possible, mark it in order, take out the book to tick the same every time you do it, and quickly add it when you find that the hook is almost over, which can effectively prevent children from freeing up time to play with mobile phones, and can also effectively manage their own time, so that children no longer procrastinate and are more organized.

2. Divert attention: Find something interesting to do, don't turn on your phone when you're free, go out for a walk, or make yourself something to eat, tidy up your room, in short, don't let your child pick up the phone when he's free.

3. Change something to pass the time: There are always moments when you can't do anything else, but it's boring, and you can't avoid passing the time, such as queuing, waiting for the bus, and taking the bus. Carry a Rubik's Cube in the child's bag, a** (remember not to read e-books, you may not have the perseverance to read nutritious books after you turn on your mobile phone, maybe you will open a short **), or take out the notebook to see if the content on the notebook is complete, is there anything that needs to be done after getting off the car has not been written?