The man says that he is not ready to fall in love, so is he trying to break up?

When a man says he's not ready for a relationship, it doesn't necessarily mean he wants to break up. There could be several interpretations for this statement, depending on the context and tone in which he spoke.

Possible scenarios include:

1.He may need time to think about his feelings and plans for the future. In this case, he may not want to break up, but want to take the time to think it through first.

2.He may not be ready to commit to a long-term relationship, or he may feel that he is not ready to take on the responsibility of being in a relationship. It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to break up, but he might let you know what he's thinking at the moment.

3.He may have lost feelings for you or is unhappy with your relationship, so he may hint in this way that he wants to break up.

If you're confused and unsure, the best way to do this is to communicate openly with the man and ask him what he thinks and feels. This will help you better understand his thoughts and help you make further decisions.

When a man says that he is not ready to fall in love, it is not that he does not want to fall in love, but that he does not want to fall in love with you.

Maybe after being with you for a while, he feels that you are not what he really wants, so he uses this euphemism to mention the breakup.

If he doesn't want to talk about it, he won't talk about it, and there is no happiness at all with someone who doesn't love him.

He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, and if he were someone he likes, he wouldn't say that.

I think he probably meant to consume you, but I think it's only a matter of time before he proposes to break up with you.

It may be that he just feels tired of falling in love, but he still likes you very much and doesn't want to give up on you. I just want to take a break for a while, adjust my mentality, and hope you're still there.

Some boys are very considerate of the girl's feelings even if they break up, for fear of hurting each other, such a boy is still more kind-hearted, in fact, he said this to leave a way back for himself, if he tears his face with you, if he regrets breaking up with you in the future, it will be difficult to redeem you, at least you can still be friends for this reason, and you are easier to accept.

Second, it's really inappropriate.

Maybe after a period of contact, he thinks that you are too naïve, immature, and sticks to him all day long, which brings him a lot of pressure, and you have not been together for a long time, then it may be true that he proposed to break up on this ground, after all, two people are not compatible to get along for a period of time, which can be manifested in daily life.

And after being together, there is a lot of time to get along, and there will be deeper contact, so there will be many couples who have just started to fall in love because it is not suitable to propose to break up.

He empathized and said goodbye.

He proposed to break up for this reason because he was afraid that you would know the truth, and scolded him as a scumbag, and this reason is easier for you to accept, you said that he told you that he was in love with someone else, and he didn't love you anymore, so it was strange that you didn't make trouble in the heavenly palace, so it was best to hide it from you. I think this kind of man is more attentive, even if he breaks up, there is no need to redeem it.

Fourth, he has no self-confidence.

He feels that he is not worthy of you, maybe your external image, or your work, your family conditions are stronger than him, and he will be under pressure when he is with you, and he will feel psychologically inferior, causing psychological burden on himself, especially those boys who want to save face, when they hear others say, you kid is lucky, you have found a girlfriend with such good conditions, and now it is going to be developed, although others are praised, it sounds sarcastic in the ears of these men, and his psychological burden will become heavier and heavier, and finally he can't bear it and proposes to break up.

It may be that girls love to play tempers, and boys can't stand it, so they propose to break up in a fit of anger, and there may be some things in girls that he can't accept, because he can't stand those bad things, and he doesn't want to hurt each other, so he uses this reason to break up, in order not to hurt the other party.

Yes, he has made it clear to you that he is not in a good state and wants to break up with you.

This indicates that your boyfriend may be experiencing financial difficulties right now.

I think so, I have to say that from this sentence, you can feel that your boyfriend doesn't have any self-confidence in this relationship, and he doesn't want to stay with you for a long time.

You can find out what happened to him recently, if there are a lot of things going on at home, it may be really tired. If everything is normal and nothing happens, then you really want to break up.

Yes, he was just trying to find a euphemistic reason to say it. So when he says that, you're going to break up.

Summary. Hello, glad for your question.

If nothing unpleasant happened between you and your boyfriend, and he was thinking about breaking up, this situation should be that he doesn't like you, as for what he said about not wanting to fall in love, this is just an excuse to cover up what he doesn't like, you must have your own judgment, don't always listen to what he says, and feel if he has changed his mind.

The boyfriend suddenly had the idea that he didn't want to be in a relationship, and then he thought about breaking up, but he said he wasn't.

Hello, I am Teacher Qi Gege, an emotional counselor, and I will answer your questions immediately Typing, don't rush Hello, I'm glad for your question. If nothing unpleasant happened between you and your boyfriend, and he was thinking about breaking up, this situation should be that he doesn't like you, as for what he said about not wanting to fall in love, this is just an excuse to cover up what he doesn't like, you must have your own judgment, don't always listen to what he says, and feel if he has changed his mind.

Two conclusions:

One: He is really tired, long-distance relationships are very tiring, and your distrust of each other has led to today's tragedy! (If he doesn't go to Hangzhou to see you, you will quarrel, this is a long-distance relationship killer).

2: He has a new girlfriend, there is still a chance of this result, I have met girls who turn their faces than book blocks, so I believe that there are such boys.

Result: If you insist, first correct your usual behavior, see if some places are too strict, boys need a certain amount of space and time, if you are forced too tight by your girlfriend, you will feel tired, every day**qq, so I will be tired!

If you don't want to stick to it......Just give up, depending on your age, there will be more opportunities in the future! But remember, don't be too clingy, some guys may like it, and sometimes they will be more disgust......ingTo have the reserve that a girl should have, maintain your own style, that will look more temperamental! It's easier to catch your boyfriend!

Remember, girls are to be spoiled, not to say that it is good to think well, and to divide if you want to! Believe in yourself no matter what!

The two sides should not just be suspicious of each other, adjust and negotiate, and the problem can be solved.

The question is, is something wrong with him? In fact, many men are also very conflicted, he may not say that if he wants to end, he will have a new love behind him, but in fact, he is not. If you are careful why he doesn't come to you, why don't you go to him?

A lot of times men are passive. And after a long-distance relationship, you will feel insecure.

The worst plan is to be an adolescent playmate. Why did he tell you this before the national exam? Is it just because you're tired?

You're a student, right? In fact, there are very few people who fall in love and get married during the study stage, and you can only think of it as a transition, because they don't have any concerns during the study period, in fact, I think the same way during the reading stage, but what I didn't expect was that we all defaulted to each other as a game, and no one took it seriously. (Laughing).

What I want to say to you is, don't care what your relationship situation is, you should know that it doesn't change anything. The important thing is how you get to know men in the future, which can only be said to be a lesson. It's not like falling in love on campus in society, what you know in society is true, it's not like a fairy tale like the campus, and what you say will do to you.

Really, relax a little bit, keep up with the rhythm of society, there are still a lot of people who love it

Girl, only you know your feelings, no one has the right to give criticism and advice, even if the authorities have a brave heart, they have no regrets if they love and disperse, I can really feel your pain. I've been doing this for three years, and you have to keep going, as long as you still love him. When love reaches a certain point, two people are not together until the end is the most tormenting, to let each other see confidence, not one person is walking this relationship, it is two hearts.

If you follow the same footsteps, you will be able to reach it.

Sometimes, a person's departure is to test whether or not you will leave next.

If you don't love it, let it go, and don't be nostalgic for things that don't belong to you anymore.

Divide it.

He doesn't love you anymore. Why waste any more time on him.

There are many good men. You need time to forget about him now.

It's been a lot lighter between you, let it go.

You'll stick to it, right?

He said he loved you, he was just tired, tired.

He still loves you, and I firmly believe that he will come back, and when he will come to you, he is no longer tired, he has rested.

He can love you with all his strength and give everything he has for you.

At this time, you can be an ordinary friend; Come and spend time with her, you love him, and he loves you.

He'll be back eventually.

Because ......He loves you.

I love you very much.

What is a long-distance relationship? It's just that the place is different.

What's the big deal?

Don't forget, there is ...... between youThere's love.

And it's a deep, deep love ......

Love is a very fragile thing, love, but also tired, let your boyfriend take a break, maybe he will figure it out, when he thinks, you might as well do something for him to move him, to do the final salvation! You can also take the opportunity to relax yourself! If you can't save it, you can also let yourself go and start a new long-distance love run!

Long-distance relationship is really hard, my previous boyfriend is not from the same place, we have been together for 2 and a half years, and we broke up for many reasons. Now I'm going to talk about another one I also met on the Internet When it comes to getting married, but there are still a lot of problems in the middle that have not been solved But I think I still have to believe in him and believe in myself I can only say that long-distance relationships are expensive in the persistence of two people It is useless for you to maintain it alone I hope you can consider it Don't be so persistent After all, it's the same result if it drags on Why not let him go.

Well, I'm also in a long-distance relationship, but I'm in the same place as my girlfriend's hometown. I think that this situation is very likely to 、、、 one party has changed his mind, personal opinion!!

1. Communicate with him well, and the breakup will be clear.

2. Girls drag some, and there is no grass at the end of the world.

3. Time is the first to kill everything.

If you don't love, you don't love, and everything else is a reason.

There are many reasons why girls don't want boys, but there is only one reason why boys don't want girls, and that is: you're not good enough.

Don't miss him, just pack up and work hard.

As a bystander, I think he said "I'm tired and don't want to fall in love anymore" is completely an excuse, and men take the initiative to break up, usually because they have a new love, which means that they didn't really mean to you before, and they have been tired of you for three years. It's not a big deal, you should go and find the true love that belongs to you, and true love will not be the case. I wish you to find true happiness.

A short time is a beautiful time, and a long time is distance, maybe it's just an excuse.

I think he still loves you

However, long-distance relationships are unreliable

If you like him、

It's going to be with him and slowly integrate into reality

1, he changed his mind. 2. Don't pay attention to him from now on. He'll come back to pester you. Don't be impressed. Forget about him completely and start your new life.