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Hello, friend.
Marriage was originally built on the foundation of love, and before the two of you found love, there was a crisis of trust.
It's really hard. I also think that we should talk about it, she can't avoid it, and so do you.
Regardless of whether she has other men she likes now, I still hope that she is an honest girl, as you said.
Now it's important that both parents are concerned.
I think you should be clear about your parents, and your parents' point of view is not a guarantee of your marital happiness.
It's on your own.
You are also a man, and this marriage is for yourself.
Be sure to talk to her first and be clear about her attitude. Show her your attitude, and then, make your own decision.
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Friend, you are in a dilemma, indeed, sometimes we live, we can't just be ourselves, sometimes we come to ourselves under all kinds of pressure and breathless.
It's ordered, it means that the woman is okay, you can see the past, you might as well talk to her (maybe there is a misunderstanding), say everything that should be said, if you insist, you have to estimate the matter.
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To quote Xing Ye's classic lines, I haven't heard of this kind of thing, women are willing, men don't do it, rely on. You can't break it because of a little thing, people always have to make mistakes, just change it.
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What else do you need to ask... Disperse it...
It's already obvious.。。 It's good that you found it early. If you find it late, you will regret it.
For a lifetime ... There is no need to think about anything else ...
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It's early, it's better to get married than to get divorced, and now you're still fresh from getting married, and if you're divorced, it's an overnight vegetable.
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What do you mean? Are you still worried about whether you should share with her? I don't think this kind of person has anything to be nostalgic for, so retire and erase a layer of black from your future.
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If you don't want to, take advantage of it early, and regret it after getting married, you really don't have to rush.
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If you are engaged and want to withdraw from the marriage, both parties can make it clear and negotiate. Unregistered marriages are not protected by law. If the legal certificate is not obtained, the husband has the right to demand the return of the bride price.
Betrothal refers to a prior agreement between a man and a woman for the purpose of future marriage, and it is a folk custom. According to the provisions of China's Marriage Law, only when both men and women have registered their marriage at the marriage registration office can they be considered married, and only then will they be recognized and protected by law. Betrothal, on the other hand, is not a legal and mandatory procedure for marriage, and therefore does not have the force of law and is not protected by law.
Gold jewelry and other items given to the other party after the engagement can be resolved through negotiation, mediation or litigation between the two parties. If the woman is unwilling to take the initiative to return, she can conduct some mediation through the relevant departments or sue the court to demand the return of the property. However, if these items are voluntarily given by the man, they will not be returned in principle, and if the property is forcibly requested by the woman or obtained by fraud through engagement, the heavy gold jewelry items shall be returned, and the small items may not be returned.
Interpretation II of Several Issues Article 10: Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances:
1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;
2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;
3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.
The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.
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Legal Analysis: In general, the case of divorce. The woman is required to return the bride price.
In addition, the man gives the woman some things such as three golds. All of them are also subject to refund. The specific amount of refund depends on the specific situation.
If the parties already have a de facto relationship as husband and wife. Then this bride price money and these things must not be refunded in full. Because of the damage that has been done to the woman's second marriage.
That is, he is already de facto married.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.
Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.
Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.
Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.
Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:
a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;
3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.
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After getting engaged, you can get the gift money back. Because it is only an engagement, the two parties have not yet registered their marriage, and the bride price is a conditional gift, and if the marriage is a condition, only after the marriage registration can the conditions be fulfilled. If you are not married and do not meet the conditions, the parties can revoke the gift and ask for the gift money back.
Article 10 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation (II) on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China: Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if the party falls under the following circumstances: (1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; 2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; 3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor. The application of the provisions of items (3) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.
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