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I think it's better to stay in the city, because it can broaden my horizons and learn a lot of professional knowledge.
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I think it's better to stay in the city, because there are more opportunities in the city, and it is also conducive to developing their talents.
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According to their own future planning, different people have different plans for their future, and they are determined according to the actual situation.
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1.No future.
If you don't graduate from a good university, or have a skill, working outside, you can generally only choose some simple low-level jobs, basically in the factory or some service industry, many people feel that they have been doing this, there is no room for appreciation, and they can't learn their own skills, and they are getting more and more confused after a long time. A few years later, I will also reach the age of marriage, and the pressure to buy a house will also come, so many people will choose to return home at this time to develop, after all, sooner or later they will come back, hoping to stabilize as soon as possible.
2.High overhead.
The salary in the city is higher, but the corresponding cost of living is also much higher, renting, daily consumption, it can be said that any aspect is every year will have a corresponding **, if the young people who have reached the age of marriage, to consider the wedding bride price to buy a house, and even in the future there are all the children together, only with their own ability there is no way to cope with the high prices in the city, it is difficult to save money.
The house in the city is several times that of the hometown, and it is difficult to realize the dream of buying a house and settling down with your own ability. And the house in my hometown is cheap, and of course the pressure is much less. If you can't save any money in the city all the time, it is equivalent to wasting time, it is better to go back to the countryside as soon as possible to find some work, at least the expenses will be much less.
3.There are children.
Young people who are not married may have no pressure outside, for young couples who have just gotten married, working in the city will be too ordinary, the income is not high, and the pressure will be greater after having children, and there are many young people because they have been left-behind children left at home by their parents, and they will feel more or less psychologically missing, so young people are not willing to continue their old ways with their children, and many of them prefer to spend a little more time with their children after having children. Even if the salary in my hometown is not too high, it is very stable that my children can go to school stably when the family is together.
4.There is work.
Although the salary in my hometown is lower, as long as I am willing to work, it is not without opportunities. Now the countryside has changed a lot from the past, and it has developed quite well, like many young couples working in nearby counties, which is also relatively stable. Go out early and return late, and you can also take care of the elderly and children.
It's much more cost-effective than earning one or two thousand more yuan outside but staying away from parents and children.
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Many students from rural areas will have more or less finches or such entanglements after graduation, especially boys, who want to take root outside their hometowns, and their families generally do not agree, and the countryside is always a foreign country, and it will definitely be harder to work hard. But if you give up the opportunity to go to the big city, you will return to the countryside, and more or less Li Ying will be unwilling.
How do you choose? Let's hear what netizens have to say.
Viewpoint 1: National development is mainly in cities.
According to the international law of development, the rural population will definitely become smaller and smaller, for example, in Japan, where only 7% of the population is engaged in agriculture. China is now also taking the road of industrialization and urbanization, and the focus is bound to be in the cities. Moreover, if college students do not study agricultural counterparts, they have neither experience nor knowledge and funds when they return to the countryside, and it is more difficult to develop, and there may not be many people needed for positions such as civil servants and teachers, so it is recommended that college students work hard in the city for a few years to save enough experience and technical funds before returning to the countryside for development.
Viewpoint 2: There are many acquaintances in the countryside who are good helpers.
Some netizens also support college students returning to rural areas for development. After all, China is a society of clan kinship, and when you return to your familiar hometown, blood relatives can provide the best help. Moreover, some netizens believe that the country also attaches great importance to the three rural issues, and although the development resources of the countryside are not as good as those in the cities, they will not be very bad, so it is better to go back to build their hometowns.
Viewpoint 3: It's too tiring to work hard in a big city.
The pressure in big cities is very great, food, clothing, housing and transportation will be much more expensive than in rural areas, and the salary of college students who have just graduated is generally not high, except for rent, water, electricity, and various social consumption, it is basically difficult to save money, let alone buy a car and a house, and sometimes there is no basic rest guarantee at work. It's better to go back to the countryside and work 9 to 5, with a less salary, but the pressure is not so great, the utilitarian is not so strong, and you can buy a house after saving a few years.
Viewpoint 4: It is also the hope of parents to let their children work in big cities.
Rural parents insist on sending their children to college, not just to let their children have a better job and life, especially in remote areas, parents have been tired all their lives and have not been able to go out, but hope that their children will not experience their old path, trapped in that small world for a lifetime. Therefore, if you can go out, don't go back, and it is also a good practice to give back and sponsor the construction of your hometown in the future.
Viewpoint 5: Each has its own difficulties, and the key is to look at your own choice.
This kind of netizens are more neutral, thinking that it is not easy to be in ** now, the city is good in the city, and the countryside is also happy in the countryside, the key is to see what direction you want to go in the future, if you want to do a big career, of course, it is more likely to stay in the big city; If you want to live a comfortable life and spend time with your parents, it is also a good choice to return to the countryside. But no matter which one you have, you have to work hard to get what you want.
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In fact, going to university is more of a new possibility for rural students, if they can't go to college normally, then the vast majority of students will go with the crowd to work or learn a trade after junior high school. Rural parents generally have a sense of responsibility to work for their children, thinking that they can save money for their children as soon as possible to build a house, buy a car, start a family and take care of their children, and everything will come naturally.
If they get along well with each other, then they will get married in a year or two, then their parents will complete a major mission, and then they will look forward to having a baby as soon as possible to see their children, and they can more or less help their children's lives. But most young people are in their twenties after graduation, and with hard expenses such as renting a house and eating, they can't afford to lose much money all year round.
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