How can you not care about love, how can you make yourself less concerned about love.

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He's just a dependence on you, and I'm probably about the same as your boyfriend right now.

    Just like a child's dependence on his mother, I'm also miserable right now, why did I become like this.

    My girlfriend and I don't know if it's going to work out.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love hurts, not love is painful, since they are all hurt, then love boldly. Oh also.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really love him to the extreme, then accommodate him more, after all, true feelings are not for everyone, if you think he is just like this, and you don't have deep feelings for him, then let go as soon as possible, don't let yourself be hurt more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Divide it. If a man is more passive, he will not cherish him if you follow him. What suits you, appreciates yours will definitely appear.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I send 30 text messages a day, 1 hour ** to base up

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend and I have just passed like this, I haven't looked for me for a week, I don't answer his **, I don't reply to messages, I just talked to me today, men will be tired, he doesn't contact you doesn't mean he doesn't want you, it may be that he is tired, maybe he is busy, don't care so much, as long as he is in his heart and you are fine, if you really feel tired, just separate from him|~!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This kind of man is the typical loser, who does not leave and is forever tormented by ducks.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The attitude towards love is also related to everyone's cognitive view of love. For example, like the love concept of who loves me and who I love.

    Love. Clause. 1. Judgment that these people are generally passive in love. Most of these people are pursued by the other party to obtain love, and rarely take the initiative to approach a person to understand a person's heart to love someone. Clause.

    Second, Yan Chongbu, which is also related to personal self-confidence, is generally affected by family growth and has a strong inferiority complex in the heart, and generally people who like it are stuffy in their hearts and dare not take the initiative to express it, so they will also become passive love viewers, that is, whoever loves themselves, I will love whose position.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Based on some psychological and emotion management advice, here are some ways that can be useful for friends:

    1.Be aware of or void your emotional troubles and try to identify the causes and root causes, reflecting and understanding your emotions and needs.

    2.Accept and express your emotions, don't suppress and hide your emotions, and you can ease your emotional distress by communicating with friends, family or professionals.

    3.Learning to relax and self-regulate can relieve emotional stress and anxiety through meditation, yoga, exercise, **, etc.

    4.Learn to think positively and have a positive mindset, try to look at things from a positive perspective, and look for solutions and strategies to solve problems.

    5.Cultivating your hobbies and social circle can make your life more fulfilling and rich, and reduce the impact of emotional troubles.

    The above are just some of the methods that may be useful, depending on the specific situation and personal needs, choose the method and strategy that suits you. If the emotional distress is too severe or persistent, it is advisable to seek professional counselling and**.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I comprehended the avenue of heaven and earth, the vast truth.

    The essence of the emotional clock is the excitement and dependence of the body, a feeling of hormone production, when the hormone subsides, can we still be like a one-to-one individual for a lifetime without getting bored? I've been here for meImpossible!

    How long can you love a piece of clothing that you love very much? I can only love to wear it out for the first time I bought it, and when I wear it out and find that it doesn't suit me, I want to return it. If so, for how long?

    Can it be worn for a lifetime? In the same way, let me love someone, when I don't get it, I just want to get it, and after I get it, it's time to really judge whether it's appropriate or not, this is emotional, and I can't think about it when I don't get it. When I came to the conclusion that this suited me well, what about the second year, the third year?

    I don't believe that I can like it for a lifetime, the living habits of two people are 20 years different, even if they are together, there is a big difference, the best development period of childhood is missed, the habits are qualitative, and the attitudes of different genders towards things are completely different, which is born and printed in the DNA. After the hormones of the two of them subsided, if they can't be as polite as strangers, it must be an anxious life of sprinkling firewood, rice, oil and salt, even if they can live politely and calmly, they have become friends, how to avoid having secret feelings for others? It's better to be single, I don't have to think about all these irritability, it has nothing to do with me.

    In the same way, last time I brushed up on a couple, the wife originally intended to post a photo of the two to celebrate the 20th year of the couple, but the wife's exquisite maintenance attracted countless onlookers, and the women shouted that they would marry the right person and be undefeated for many years. But I'm really afraid of marriage +10 after I see it, because that man feels like 60 years old and almost finished......If one party is really good, one party must be affected, it's better to be single, at least we can only rely on our own ...... for good or bad

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is no right or wrong to love someone, only whether you want to or not. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

    Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

    Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, and some fate is far from fruitful, loving a person does not have to have, but having a person must be cherished. What to do, let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and possession, let go of the burden and move forward lightly, get out of the sea of suffering out of danger, turn around and leave at the moment when the tears fall, don't let yourself be hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, happiness, and happiness, people don't love you, then, how can God go to tie up people, the twisted melon is not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem, self-love, lose your personality, and indulge in pain, why bother?

    It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you can only get it if you lose, and people who don't want to dismantle the stuffy and lose their luggage will never swim to the other side. Be strong, have confidence and courage, look for someone who really loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish it. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

    At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have a blog that I hope you can read and help you.

    Sometimes I am very sensible, and sometimes I can't control my emotions, I will inexplicably recall people and things that have passed, and I will be inexplicably sad: how did it become the past?

    But facts have proved that the harder you work to get it, the more you try to cherish it, the more you want to cherish it, only the memories you want to forget, and the more painful it is to forget, it is often engraved into a memory.

    I always believed that everything God did to me was right, so I was always so lucky. So this time too, because of the loss, I got good memories, and if it wasn't for the loss, maybe I wouldn't have been able to understand the taste of love for the rest of my life. If it wasn't lost, maybe in the other party's place, even the memories would be invited into the ** station.

    This loss is also worth it, and each other can have the perfect memories that are worth looking forward to and fantasizing. What you get is often not as beautiful as you imagined, and what you can't get can often be imagined to be perfect. People are this kind of virtue, so loss is more worthy of respect and cherishment.

    I think of the jokes we used to make together, the joy of making together, and the touching of caring for each other. Love is born between this empty and vast universe, between two pure white hearts that pursue true love, and disappears in the untouchable, unspeakable struggle and confusion.

    It only takes a moment for beauty to move this life and reverberate for a century.

    So, in this century, when the time comes for my true love, hope is no longer the passing of the past.

    Do it and cherish it, cultivate, and look forward to the day when my fate will give me the right person at the right time and place!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, because your own good grades are one thing.

    Because the gap between the advancement will be relatively small.

    If you make a big mistake.

    There will always be a thousand words in my heart.

    The main thing is that I am not reconciled.

    Then you can try to learn not to compare yourself to him. Nothing is missing.

    As the saying goes, go your own way, so let the mocking gun go.

    As long as you are on your own point of view and do your best, it's OK.

    Self-blame will only undermine your confidence in forging ahead next time.

    And in fact, as you said, grades don't represent a person in the first place.

    It's just one of the metrics you have in school.

    Don't care too much, and don't not care.

    If you have some hobbies, such as basketball.

    You can use exercise to adjust yourself, and try not to let an event trigger emotions whenever you want.

    and to influence the next thing to happen.

    I hope you can forget about these troublesome questions as soon as possible.

    Instead, it has become a direction and goal for one's own struggle and efforts.

    Proud people often don't last long.

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