When I was about to get married, my boyfriend s family went bankrupt, should I continue to get marri

Updated on society 2024-07-28
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think it's better to choose to continue getting married. Because the two of you are married, you don't fancy his property. It's him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When he was about to get married, his boyfriend's family went bankrupt, so he should choose to postpone it and let him deal with the things at home first, because he and his family are definitely not in the mood to get married at this time, so if he continues to get married, the scene may not be good, so wait for him to deal with it first.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends.

    If there are signs that the boyfriend has acted immorally in this bankruptcy process, it shows the quality of the boyfriend and is not trustworthy. Marriage should be postponed.

    On the contrary, in this process of bankruptcy, the boyfriend's performance is positive, positive, and only due to the bankruptcy caused by the external environment, at this time he should marry his boyfriend. Encourage and get through it together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello: When you are about to get married, your boyfriend's family is bankrupt, and you should choose to postpone, because your boyfriend's family has just gone bankrupt, you should give your boyfriend a little buffer period, if you take the liberty to continue to get married, it is not very responsible for both parties!

    So when I was about to get married, my boyfriend's family went bankrupt and I should choose to postpone! Hope it helps, hope, thank you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Choose to postpone, because marriage is a big deal, and if you go bankrupt, the wedding will be canceled or the cost will be reduced, which will be a pity for the girl. Moreover, marriage is not poverty alleviation, and bankruptcy may also lead to unequal parties. At the same time, this is also a test, a responsible man will not let his girlfriend suffer, but will choose to bear it alone, this is also to see the man's ability, to see how he deals with this matter, whether he will make a comeback or slump, this can be seen his self-motivation and sense of responsibility, if he is sluggish and self-defeating, then such a boyfriend is not worth entrusting for life, if he works hard, then you can work with him to wait for him to make a comeback and then get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When I was about to get married, my boyfriend's family went bankrupt. You should choose to continue to get married, because you are married and choose this person, not his family property, and you will live with this person for the rest of your life in the future, not with his family property, and you should choose to continue to marry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's better to continue to get married, after all, the relationship between the two people is already very strong, of course, since a person has the qualification to go bankrupt, it means that he was also very capable of making money before, he will definitely make a comeback, don't worry, even if he collapses, you should also influence him through your positive energy, so that he can continue to start from scratch with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm getting married soon, my boyfriend's family is bankrupt, and if the wedding costs a lot, let's postpone it for the time being! If everything is ready, get ready to get married!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello! I think this question is very simple, it mainly depends on your thoughts, if you are in love with your boyfriend, whether he is bankrupt or bankrupt, whether his family is bankrupt or not, whether he is capable or not? If you like her, you love her, then I think you can still continue to marry him, instead of extending, on the contrary, if you fancy her family, not this person, then I think that this marriage does not continue to choose to extend the period, because in this case it doesn't mean that you like this boyfriend very much, you chose because his family went bankrupt, so it depends on how to choose?

    It depends on what you choose in terms of attitude.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you should choose to continue to get married, because if you choose to postpone it now, the other party's family may think that you are a greedy and vain person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Generally, the marriage date cannot be changed, and the marriage should be continued, and you will have to suffer a little in terms of conditions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you're about to get married, your boyfriend's family goes bankrupt, and I think you should still continue to get married, because you're not marrying his property, you're marrying this person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When I was about to get married, my boyfriend's family went bankrupt, and I personally think that you should continue to get married, because you are looking for a boyfriend, no matter whether he has money in the family or not, as long as the boyfriend has this person with potential, the family will be rich in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm already getting married. The family went bankrupt. I think it's better to get married. After getting married. Working together with his family to recreate a new world, you can't say that you won't get married because you're bankrupt.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it is two people, when they are about to get married, and the boyfriend's family suddenly goes bankrupt, in this case, they should not continue to get married, but should choose to postpone it, after all, in this case, the boyfriend's economic conditions have a major problem, if you still choose to get married, there is no doubt that it will increase the financial burden of the family in the boyfriend's family.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of problem depends on your own thoughts, if it is really serious and has affected your marriage, you should choose to postpone it. However, if it is not affected, it can be held as scheduled, and the two can work together to re-establish the family business.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should continue to get married, because you and your boyfriend are not together because he has a lot of money, but because he is a person, so although the family is bankrupt, you will definitely have a bright future if you work together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In any case, you should continue to get married, two people are together because of love, not for the money of your boyfriend's family, and when the man's family is bankrupt, you should continue to marry to give your boyfriend comfort and strength.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The postponement is good for both parties, you can see the sincerity of the families of both parties, and the love is sincere and long-lasting.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will continue to get married.

    This depends on personal choice, if you marry your boyfriend because you are greedy for his family's money, then your boyfriend's family is bankrupt, you don't need to get married, you don't even need to postpone, just mention breaking up, but if you marry your boyfriend because of love, then you should discuss with your boyfriend at this time, as long as your boyfriend does not need to postpone, then the wedding should be held as usual.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    They must choose to postpone it, because their family has no money for the bride price, let alone a wedding, and they must wait for their family's conditions to start better before getting married, and they can't get pregnant before they get married, and they should do a good job of contraception.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Postpone marriage, so that the psychological burden of the boyfriend can be smaller.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm about to get married, my boyfriend's family is bankrupt, and I should continue to get married! Let's get through it together!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think I should have the option to continue to get married, after all, life still has to go on, bankruptcy is still temporary, and I can start again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's postpone it first! Handle all kinds of things well, adjust your emotions before getting married, this is not a very urgent thing.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Choose to continue to get married, and life will be better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When he is about to get married, his boyfriend's family is bankrupt, at this time, his boyfriend must be very uncomfortable, and he must not have confidence in getting married.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Continue to get married. What you want is marriage, love, the man who is willing to accompany you to old age, the girl's appearance is only a few years, don't let your laziness become a material excuse.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can think about it in another way, if you are your boyfriend, of course your boyfriend does not want you to leave him, and can help him when he is troubled and when he is in trouble. There is still a chance in a man's career, it will not be too late, a failure does not mean anything, if you really love him, I hope you can stand in his point of view, but every woman has her own happiness to pursue, happiness is at least inseparable from material, material domination consciousness. Let's talk about your father, every father wants his children to find their own happiness, you can talk to your father, happiness is your own, you have to seize the opportunity yourself, and see your own choice.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At least you'll come here to ask netizens to help you figure out what to do, proving that you still know that you should continue to walk with your boyfriend.

    I believe that the vast majority of netizens will tell you: Since you really love each other, no matter how difficult and difficult it is, you have to go on together.

    I know so!

    In fact, I think you also know in your heart that what you need now is everyone's encouragement and courage.

    It's an unfortunate thing that your boyfriend has an accident with his finances, it's not that he wants to do it or it's a mistake caused by his fault, his essence hasn't changed, and it's still the person you love and the person you love as always.

    The future days may not be as smooth as before, but there are always winds and waves in life, you have such a good harbor, are you still afraid of such a little wind and waves?

    A thousand words, here can only bless you...

    In addition, you are a smart girl, and you know that a good daughter-in-law should be able to hide from both ends, and it is also a good thing not to tell your father to know, so as not to worry him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    From the point of view of love, I should be with him... But marriage is a lifelong thing... Are you willing to pay off the debt for him? Once the road begins... It's definitely a hard road... It's up to you how you choose... It's useless for others to say anything... It's up to you... I might really think about it... After all, when he makes a comeback... What will happen to the relationship at that time·· Be cautious... Before you get married, you have to think about yourself... Prudent and cautious... This society... Hey...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    See if you really love him! If the relationship hasn't reached yet, he has to do it, I think it's better to break it up early!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You shouldn't give up when it's so difficult, two people should be stronger, go through the difficulties hand in hand, love is testing you!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should help him even more when he is in trouble. Rest assured, everything will be fine.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Love him, you should be with him when he is most difficult.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Be realistic that love can be done in another way.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It takes courage to survive and love needs perseverance.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your boyfriend wants to break up with you at this time because he doesn't want you to suffer with him, such a boy must cherish it and go through this difficult time with him.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It may be that I am afraid of affecting you, it depends on what you think, if two people have feelings, money is something outside the body.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's better not to get married.

    1: A bankrupt family, although the emaciated camel is bigger than the horse, but it is not easy 2: You are only 28 in a hurry, do you want to marry him or do you say that other people can also get married3:

    28 is not a big deal, I advise you to think about it, marriage is a lifelong thing, don't be rash, in case of a bad life and divorce, your life is basically half ruined.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Is it because your boyfriend doesn't want to consider getting married because his family is bankrupt or does he not want to marry you for a while? This is a critical question, and you must figure it out. If he doesn't want to marry you, then divide it.

    If he is worried that he will not be able to give you a better life because his family is bankrupt, then it doesn't matter, you can tell him that you are willing, wait a while, and as long as he works hard, he will definitely see that this kind of hard life will not last long. So what's there to worry about?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    What's the relationship like between the two of you? Do you think you are important to him?

    If he loves you very much, then knowing your thoughts, it is estimated that he will say that he will make up for your beautiful wedding in the future and get married first.

    If he doesn't want to get married at all, doesn't have a commitment, and just makes you wait, then you'd better find someone who likes you.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I will choose to share his weal and woe.

    If I choose to break up with him because of his bankruptcy, it proves that I was with him for the sake of property in the first place. Even though we're not married yet, I still have a choice. But if I really love him, not only will I not break up with him, but I will choose to fight with him.

    Because to see whether a woman really loves a man, it depends on whether the man is willing to accompany him and share weal and woe when he is hungry and cold. Since I love him, I won't let go easily.

    As the saying goes, there is no banquet without a banquet, but it has not been said that there is no family without money. People say that material is the foundation of love, but I want to tell you that although material is the guarantee of love, two people who love each other have a very stable economic foundation, which can only prove that they have bought an insurance for their love. But can people who buy insurance live their lives in peace?

    In other words, can't people who don't buy insurance live this life safely? We buy a sense of security, but the sense of security is given to ourselves.

    Maybe choosing to share the weal and woe with your boyfriend is not as simple as imagined, and our road may be long and difficult. But the support of love will make me fearless. What is the purpose of living in this world, isn't it to be with the beloved?

    If I choose to give up because of a small problem, then I am too cowardly. No matter how many people ridicule my choice, I will not give up easily.

    I'm willing to be such a silly woman who accompanies him through thick and thin, at least when he is thirsty, I can hand him a glass of water, and when he is hungry, I can cook him a meal. I want to tell him: don't be afraid when you are helpless, because there is always someone standing behind you who supports you.

    Even if the sky falls, she will stand up with you.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    First of all, I want to find a rich boyfriend, but if one day this problem really falls on my head, I will really share the weal and woe with him, I think if I really find a rich boyfriend, I also fancy my boyfriend, I am not the money in my boyfriend's house, his bankruptcy does not affect my love for him, some people may say that I am naïve, yes, I admit that money is very important, but in the face of love, I will still choose love. I believe that his family is bankrupt, not lost So, bread needs two people to work together to fight, not to say that it was obtained for nothing.

    In love, what I want to get is not to worry so much, I think love is love, don't engage in so many forms, if the family is bankrupt, there are difficulties then two people have to face it together, I think when one party feels that they are the most painful, if you leave, it means that you don't really love him, not really love him, you love the money in his family, I think such a woman is very cheap, I especially hate such girls, I think in your eyes, You have given up love, you only have money, is money so important? Compared to love and people.

    In fact, I think that all people want this life to be smooth sailing, and life should not play any jokes on me, but I think that even if you encounter life and joke with you, you have to do the right thing, you have to be worthy of yourself, and you have to be worthy of the people you love. In fact, the most memorable thing for two people is not all the sweetness we have experienced, but all the hardships we have experienced.

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