What is it like for people who don t chase stars to suddenly have idols?

The most intuitive and real feeling should be that I feel like I have the whole world.

In the past, I was alone when I went to work and cooked, but suddenly I had an idol I worshipped, and I felt that I was no longer alone, and everything could be related to him.

When you have an idol, his journey of chasing your dreams will bring you positive energy. Whether you encounter unhappy things or difficulties in your studies or life, as long as you think of him, you can continue to persevere.

It won't be embarrassing to go out to have a dinner on weekdays, and you can also talk about him. The previous self felt bored and had no pursuit, but after having an idol, he would want to be a perfect person like him, and he would work harder to become a better person, and with what he endorsed, he would go crazy to buy it, and when he had an object, he felt that he was out of love and couldn't get out of the shadows for a long time.

In short, there was no idol, it felt like such a life, when there was an idol, it felt completely changed, everything in life would be related to him, joys, sorrows and sorrows were all along with his news. I want to go to his concert and want to wear the same clothes as him. He will always worry when he is sick.

You can't live without him.

I'm a person who is relatively slow to heat up emotionally, chasing K-pop stars or idol dramas in other people's adolescence. I silently read fairy tale books at home, and when I was older, I started reading history books or romances**.

At that time, I felt that girls were very stupid to save money to buy **, posters or something, what's wrong with eating a good meal, what's the use of buying something that can only be seen and won't appreciate. Sometimes when they mention their idols, they are full of, and sometimes when they talk about excitement, they are accompanied by screams, which makes it impossible to look at them directly. Usually three sentences do not leave their idols, and they will say whatever they do, "Ah, my brother said that he likes to eat durian", "My brother is super handsome in basketball", "My brother is holding a concert in ** today, I really want to go" and so on.

At that time, I really didn't feel about chasing stars, and I didn't even understand that those girls sometimes did well in exams and told their parents that they wanted to go to a concert.

But when you have idols, you feel that those are understandable. Start with appearance, fall into talent, and be loyal to character. When you think of your idol, you can't help but want to laugh, you will be very happy, and you usually go to Weibo to see if he has any updates and any news.

Or what new TV series or magazine covers you have filmed, you will want to buy them, you will chase TV series on time every day, and you will always go to Amway with your friends, hoping that your idol can be recognized by more people. I also want to say that he really wants to breathe the air in the same place as him on his birthday, and I want to see him up close and tell him that you are really great like this. I really couldn't imagine that this kind of thought would happen to me before, especially when my favorite idols were three little boys younger than me, and I had a feeling of growing up with them.

I've always thought I'm a very low-key person, with some actors and singers I like, but I never thought I'd chase stars.

I like to watch some variety shows very much, in the past few years, variety shows were not as many as they are now, and now there are many variety shows on weekends or non-weekends. At that time, the most were those talent shows, and there were very few reality shows, and I just watched it, although I liked it very much, but I never actually acted on it. Later, there were more variety shows, and more and more stars came out, and everyone didn't seem to like watching TV series anymore, and they were more interested in variety shows.

I know a friend, I don't know why she has been chasing stars since she started, and she has liked a male singer for almost four or five years, and she still never gives up. It was also with her that I learned what it means to chase stars and what it means to experience it personally.

I think everyone has watched the concert, most people watch it on TV, but our star-chasing friends do go to watch it live, and it feels really different from watching it on TV. I remember it was the first time I went to a concert, it was in 2014. At that time, the happy male voice was very popular, and they started the tour, and I watched several shows with my one, and I basically watched them in Jiangsu, and I was very happy that Suzhou was also a stop, so Suzhou was my territory, and I was afraid of something.

But she was different, and she went to those distant cities in Wuhan, and her friends who knew her thought she was stupid, and spent so much money to watch him sing those two songs.

Now, watching concerts is commonplace, there are a lot of stars in Suzhou in the past year to hold concerts, in fact, the ticket price does not need to be too expensive, you just go to feel the atmosphere and atmosphere of the scene, and if the conditions allow, you can adjust it appropriately**. I'm waiting for our brother Lu's concert now, and if I have an idol, I will always want to know his dynamics, and then I'm looking forward to him having good works, and occasionally holding a concert from time to time, it's good to watch the show.

In the past, I didn't even listen to songs, I followed my father to watch Bruce Lee since I was a child, Shaolin Temple, I don't have any concept of these idols and the like, at that time, I liked whoever was great, and the peers around me asked me if I knew the supreme Lihe, do you know she, and I was blinded when I asked, I said that they were as good as Zhang Sanfeng, and they had to look at me white. I watched them buy stickers, pieces of paper, posters, and said who was so handsome, and I was depressed, what did I like?

Later, I learned about a combination called Feilun Sea by chance, and I began to embark on the road of no return to chasing stars. At that time, I was in the fifth grade, and the little girls around me gradually had the concept of handsome guys, and I first looked at Wu Zun in it, and I thought that this person was simply not too good-looking, okay, I just thought it was good-looking, and later, I began to be the same as them.

I bought the first entertainment magazine in my life, I bought posters, I bought stickers, what did I feel, it was the feeling that I dreamed that I had to dream of him, why did I still have such a beautiful person in the world, why didn't I meet this person earlier, and so on. In short, I feel that I am starting to fall, I don't like Bruce Lee anymore, I even changed my preferences, I started to like trends, my dad said sourly, what is this. Pointing to my poster, I said this is my idol.

In fact, I am also a little proud, I finally have an idol, what did he do, but it was amazing, I liked him. Outsiders ask you if you have an idol, and you say that I do, and you really feel proud at this time. If you have an idol, you love to find a soulmate, you like me, and you like us together, it's good.

It's like, suddenly there is faith. In fact, I didn't understand star-chasing people before, I think celebrities are people who are very far away from our lives. Until I met Cai Xukun.

The only idol I liked for twenty years. Weibo has been used for so many years to look at the hot search to see what the big thing is, and only when I meet you do I know that it is not a good thing to be on the hot search, and only then do I know that the hot search may also be brushed up by sunspots in order to destroy the popularity of passers-by. It's also you, let me have the idea of wanting to protect, I will always accompany you and protect you as a king.

Avoiding so many people shows that you are worth it. There is strength, and the red one has confidence.

Cai Xukun, you are my little luck.

When I met you suddenly, my whole world will be you from now on.

2018 is my 18th year, and it is also his new era.

It turns out that I like to cast in the middle of the night, buy water on the **, tearful anti-black, empty bottles with enemies on the belly and back, and be cautious Amway.

He is the most adventurous dream in my youth, and it is also the source of my efforts to fight alone in the college entrance examination, he is the dream-chasing boy I cry and cherish, and it is also my patience to control my temper in the face of keyboard warriors, he is my weakness and my armor, not so much that he is my idol, but that he is my youth.

Knowing his past and his experience, I truly believe that the best waiting in the world is called the future. Cai Xukun, go forward, we will be behind you.

if you need me,i will be your side.

Hmph I used to tease those who chase stars, saying that they were stupid, but now I'm stupid myself.

There are too many words to say, just a single sentence: I don't care if he's good.

I didn't like boys with studs, boys with makeup, boys with long hair, boys with red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple hair.

When I saw Lu Han, I liked it all.

It's over, it's the feeling of being in love, Luhan is a pit, and if you fall in, you don't want to come out.

just like Lu Han, no matter how black fans scold, for Lu Han: start with appearance, be loyal to character, and fall into talent.

Like Luhan and don't accept any rebuttals.

I like Luhan and don't give up all opportunities.

Like Luhan, don't let go of a detail.

Like Luhan, don't indulge any black fans.

I like Luhan, there is no reason!!

Most of them are written by themselves.,Only Sister Reed can take it and send it casually.,The others were found out by me, let's discuss it and don't send it without my consent.,Except for Sister Reed.。

1；Idol, this word, for normal star-chasers like Xiaohe, they are sunshine and compass, illuminating the way that guides us forward.

As for parents who don't know the truth and passers-by who don't understand it, they say that they are like devils, and they can't avoid it and can't hide.

Because in their view, anyone in the world who has contributed to society is worthy of our learning and worship. Only idols are not worth it.

The idols in their eyes will only pretend to be on the screen, which will have a very negative impact on society and even on young people who are not yet mentally mature.

But in fact, normal star-chasing behavior, whether it is for idols or for our fans themselves, is beneficial and harmless.

2；How many people chase stars, and at the beginning they didn't chase those excellent qualities in idols that we didn't have?

Their hands and shouts on stage, their energy on the screen, their confident smiles and extraordinary words, what is not worth pursuing?

In other words, the idols we admire are actually the people we aspire to become in our hearts.

Take Xiaohe himself, Xiaohe was originally a person who was not good at words and communication with people, that is, the kind of existence that was placed in the crowd and no one would notice it at all. If you don't have self-confidence, it's not that you have low self-esteem, but you just feel that no matter what good things happen, there is a high probability that it will not fall on your head.

But these ideas only existed in a period of confusion and confusion, and after Xiaohe had an idol he admired, he naturally disappeared.

Thanks to their presence, Xiaohe has learned to smile at life and treat everything he wants to do with a positive and serious attitude.

3；There are two sides to everything, and with the development of society, there are also some irrational people, and these irrational people are also the root cause of some parents and passers-by misunderstanding idols.

But Xiaohe also dares to say that there are not a few people like Xiaohe who carefully guard their favorite idols, and they are the majority.

And it is precisely because we simply take idols as an example that we can constantly improve ourselves, make ourselves progress, and be a helpful person to society.

Isn't this the meaning of the existence of idols themselves?

Some people carry the power of idol propagation, all the way forward fearlessly. Or find the secret of learning and get admitted to your ideal university. Or find a purpose for your job and become the object of envy in the eyes of others. Or maybe you have found the true meaning of life and become a better version of yourself.

Under normal circumstances, the love that fans give to idols has nothing to do with love.

This kind of affection is only about one's own affection, only about the attraction of high-quality spirit.

In today's social wave, people are increasingly fond of trying to find someone online. However, finding a public figure to target, whether for pure pursuit or serious marriage, comes with a range of ethical and risk issues. Especially when a public figure is already married, choosing to continue pursuing it can cause bottomless suspicion and controversy.

Therefore, we need to have a clearer understanding of the consequences and responsibilities of such decisions.

First, there is a moral dimension to finding public figures as objects. If this public figure is married, then our actions will affect him, his family, and even society as a whole. This is a very sensitive issue, and we need to respect the privacy and well-being of others.

Secondly, there are risks associated with finding public figures as targets. This includes whether you have been attacked, whether you have been ridiculed, whether you have been suppressed, and so on. For example, public figures don't necessarily like you or they already have their own families and happiness, so we should consider the consequences of our choices and our ability to deal with them later.

In addition, if we continue to target public figures, we may expose our personal information or invite attacks on ourselves. It can lead to reputational damage and serious personal life and work.

In this case, careful consideration is important in pursuing the moral aspects and risks of such a Zheng Xi stool. We need to be clear about our own aspirations, as well as the characteristics and realities of public figures. More importantly, we should always maintain a good social moral value and respect the rights and well-being of others.

In general, finding a public figure as a target requires caution. We should follow various rules such as age, human morality, social values, and realities, balancing the impact of our feelings and actions. Ultimately, we should respect the lives and well-being of ourselves and others and avoid irreversible consequences.