What if the parents don t agree? Please calm down and help me think about what to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-16
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's too much, you actually beat the child out, beat the child at 7 months, and hurt your body, are your parents really good for you, or is it just for their own dignity?

    The big mistake has been made, I can only open my heart, don't think about it, do whatever I want in the future, and don't ......go against my true wishes

    Parents are always parents, and they will not blame their children forever because of the anger of the moment, so they can do what they want to do with confidence, as long as it is not against the moral ......

    As for your husband and your husband's family, you have to comfort them more, according to your description, they are really good and like you very much, but your husband should be a little inferior and weak, his own child, how can he agree with you to beat it, what is even more incomprehensible is that 7 months for a woman, how much physical and mental harm it is to beat a 7-month-old child, as a husband, you should resolutely protect you, do not let you have any such concepts, I hope that in the future you will give your husband confidence, Let him know how to love and protect your relationship on the basis of loving you......

    I wish you a soon, healthy and happy ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Silly, I believe this kind of thing, if you agree, you won't let you hit the child, if you agree, this child must be a baby, you are really simple, if your husband is the person you believe in a lifetime, if he doesn't marry the kind that he doesn't marry, then go with him, wait for two years after giving birth to a child, and then come back when the parents are calm, and communicate slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My cousin also ran away with my uncle and boyfriend behind her back, her boyfriend came to her uncle's house with her, my uncle disagreed, scolded to the street, and beat my cousin and his boyfriend away with a stick, and then for several years my uncle and my cousin did not have contact, my cousin got married and my uncle did not pay attention, and then later, my cousin gave birth to a child, and when the child was three years old, my uncle thought that his daughter couldn't stand it, so he dragged my dad to my cousin's house to carry a letter, wanting to recognize his relatives, and then my cousin-in-law also did not hold grudges, and brought gifts to recognize relatives, Now the family is also harmonious and beautiful. You, you're too stupid, give birth to the child first, and then live with your husband, after a few years, your father will see that the raw rice is cooked and matured, and what parent will really be ruthless to cut off the relationship with their children, but it is just to scare and scare you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm also from the countryside, what's so bad. It stands to reason that your parents also want to find you a good home, but your current boyfriend and his family are very good to you, and you must still have feelings, which is the most important thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do things that make practical sense to your parents, not things you want to do that they don't find meaningful.

    Unless, your parents have good reasons for objecting, for example, after being together again, they are sure that they will cause you another harm. Otherwise, you should still make your own decisions about your life.

    If there is no good reason, then your parents may be dissatisfied with him in their hearts and oppose you being together again. If that's the case, then you have to make it clear to them, and they will definitely say that they are doing it for your own good. This reminds me of a saying, "Love you, love you, how much you are forced to do it in your name", they are actually forcing you not to choose your own life for the sake of your own dissatisfaction.

    You need to make this truth clear, but, unfortunately, not every parent is reasonable, so sometimes you need to be appropriately tough, play the bitter card, after all, they still love you, feel sorry for you, then of course, he also wants to do work, cooperate with you, and try to eliminate the psychological factors of the two elders.

    This is a tedious and long-term matter, and I hope you will be happy in the future.

    What should parents do if they want to have a second child, but the child does not agree?

    Parents want to have 2 children, first of all, whether they have the financial conditions, if they have the economic conditions, there is no need to care about the children and disagree.

    You are a parent, how can you let your child lead you by the nose.

    If the child is over 10 years old and wants to live with his mother, the court will give full consideration to and respect his opinion.

    In fact, there is a basic truth to everything.

    In accordance with the basic provisions of the Marriage Act.

    If two people love each other, others have no right to interfere.

    As long as that girl is really willing to be with you for the rest of her life, she will help you think of it! There must be a road before the car arrives at the mountain, the boat goes straight to the bridge, and it is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover, she will cherish it, and I wish you happiness (*hehe.

    What to do?

    If the child is willing to go out and stay, he will not be able to stay. Only when you go out and see can you choose a better path.

    If you're a kid, go it alone once and go out and see it for your dreams.

    If you are a parent, then give your child a little space to go on a rampage, always under the care of his parents, and he will not grow up for the rest of his life.

    The main thing is "Child", if you make your parents feel mature, you will not be so worried when you grow up.

    Parents need to find out how long their children have been dating, whether they know each other very well, especially whether they have enough understanding of the family situation of the rural target and the problems they may face in the future. Try to ask your children to spend a little longer before talking about marriage.

    The effect of directly beating the mandarin duck is very poor. Parents should think twice.

    That's up to you. If you really love your lover and feel that you can't live without him, or that it's painful and painful, then choose to stick to your feelings. If you feel that your lover is not important to you to that extent, but you care more about your parents' opinions, then you can only follow your parents' opinions.

    In short, there is only one criterion for choosing in the world, and that is to see which one you feel is less painful to choose.

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