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My boyfriend's mom also stopped me from being with him, but my boyfriend never gave up, and broke his hand to the bone because of my mother's trouble. But no matter how much we persuade, the more we talk, the harder it becomes, we have been together for seven years and have not wavered. If you and your boyfriend are people who really love each other, just stick to it, so that you will not have regrets in your later life, and I think it is also a good way to convince his relatives first.
We're still trying, and all my boyfriend's relatives approve of us, but his mom just doesn't move, but I'm sure my sincerity will impress her. Your situation must be a little better than ours, because his mother is very unreasonable, and it is difficult to change what she says, and I think other parents are very good at talking, as long as the child insists, he will not say anything. If you hold on, don't be afraid of anything, and want to be together anyway, then simply say it straight to the point, and I believe that one day your parents will accept it.
Don't be stiff, learn to love the family of your loved one, that's the smartest.
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I think it's better to convince his mother first, but if there are more important people who are not very opposed to you, you can also work towards him first, but the focus should still be on the mother, or even if you get married, the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be good. You can go to their house more often, be positive, care more about his mother, and don't lose your temper. Anyway, it's the same as on TV, the eyes are bright, the mouth is sweeter, and the dripping stone is worn.
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I don't agree with what I said above, happiness is what I strive for, don't be scared because of some obstacles, if love doesn't go through tribulations, how can I see a rainbow? Only the love that experiences love will not be afraid of all suffering, lz I support you, don't give in because other people say, oppose it, love is a matter of 2 people, not others. You can also discuss with your boyfriend to find a good solution, I believe that your persistence, your mother-in-law will be moved. Come on.
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Or give up, you have to admit that sometimes things can't be solved by hard work alone, he's starting to be cold, isn't he? Then what troubles do you expect him to get through with you in the future?
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Take your time, and let them accept you.
Hey, poor landlord, I wish you all good luck.
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In fact, as your boyfriend, he also thinks a lot, and I think the reason why he does this is because he really can't live without his relatives! Sometimes letting go is good for you and for him!
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As long as your boyfriend is on the same line as you, there is no problem.
Otherwise, you can only leave him
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Obviously, it's a family feud from the last generation, and you have to hold hands and discuss with the man's family, and this is not a reason at all.
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If your family is against it, you won't be happy even if you get married.
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There is no need to waste youth on someone who no longer loves himself.
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In fact, the opinion of the family has already made your boyfriend choose to give up.
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Actions and time speak for themselves.
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Summary. Hello, I think that parents do not agree with love, you can do this: on the one hand, try to put yourself on an equal footing, and not in a high-low relationship.
Don't regard the kind of filial piety to parents as absolute obedience, think that parents should be obedient if they are elders, when we have been facing our parents as children, parents will habitually regard our demands as immature ideas. However, each of us can make our own decisions, and as a mature and independent individual, our opinions can be accepted. The same is true for parents, who can only communicate effectively and deal with differences more easily if they stand on an equal footing.
Rather than blindly obeying. On the other hand, we need to learn to understand our parents and empathize effectively. Parents oppose romance, many times the starting point is good, but also want you to get more happiness, unless it is those irresponsible parents, so we can't oppose parents because of their parents' opposition, I think, the best way is to slowly persuade parents, with practical actions to prove that you love each other is right, worthy of blessings.
Hello, I think that parents do not agree with love, can do this:
On the one hand, try to put yourself on an equal footing, rather than in a high-low relationship. Don't regard the kind of filial piety to parents as absolute obedience, think that parents should be obedient if they are elders, when we have been facing our parents as children, parents will habitually regard our demands as immature ideas. However, each of us can make our own decisions, and as a mature and independent individual, our opinions can be accepted.
The same is true for parents, who can only communicate effectively and deal with differences more easily if they stand on an equal footing. Rather than blindly obeying.
On the other hand, we need to learn to understand our parents and empathize effectively. Parents oppose romance, many times the starting point is good, but also want you to get more happiness, unless it is those irresponsible parents, so we can't oppose parents because of their parents' opposition, I think, the best way is to slowly persuade parents, with practical actions to prove that you love each other is right, worthy of blessings.
I hope mine can help you and I wish you a happy life and all the best! Good night
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True love is not easy to come by, since you love, don't give up easily but work hard with him, as for the parents, don't force it, you can take a sleek way to slowly circumvent and do work, so that they can accept it slowly. And you guys. >>>More