Is there pure friendship between people of the opposite sex?

There is pure friendship between the opposite sex, because we both know that we just have too much in common, common topics, and we all know that it is not easy to meet a friend who understands himself and understands himself, so slowly two people are more and more dependent on each other, and the relationship is getting better and better. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy. People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection.

There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment. In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that?

I asked myself with a smile. For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

There is pure friendship between men and women, but it is very rare, and this pure friendship is not determined by mouth, but a kind of friendship that has been formed naturally after the test of time and the scrutiny of the years.

The formation of true friendship is not due to the deliberate attraction of both parties, with some accidents, with some unawareness.

There may have been that complicated relationship at first, but as time goes by, it gradually simplifies according to the understanding and familiarity with each other. Thus a special feeling is formed, not only friendship, but also mixed with a touch of family affection and kindness. It's like growing up together, too familiar with each other, and accustomed to each other's company, even if you try very hard to change the simple feelings between two people, it is difficult to do, and finally there is a kind of trust and liking that is better than family affection, always pure, not under your own control.

The formation of this kind of friendship is the most precious and special, far from knowing each other for three months and two months, a year and a half, and feeling that the other party is good is pure friendship.

Without going through layers of screening and filtering, it is too early to say that it is pure friendship and life confidant.

It's rare to have such a confidant of the opposite sex in your life, if there are three or five, I'm afraid you don't even believe it, how to think is actually everyone knows.

But no matter what, you still have to have a sense of boundaries in life, and you must keep a certain safe distance between friends, which is an explanation to your lover and a respect for that friendship.

Of course, there is no such thing as pure friendship.

Pure friendship is a need for both sexes.

From childhood, when there is a sense of independence, we have an understanding of the opposite sex. At that time, it only existed in the subconscious curiosity stage, and as people grew older, people began to show a sense of infatuation with the opposite sex.

The relationship between the opposite sex is precisely from acquaintance, dependence to love, and then it becomes the love we are pursuing. In addition to love, there is also friendship between men and women, which is based on non-love, and psychologists have shown that pure friendship is the relationship without so-called sex and dependence.

However, most of the interactions between the opposite sex are due to the subconscious sense of need for a certain party, but it has not evolved into love. The needs of the sexes are long-lasting, and pure friendship is the need to distinguish it from love, but it also contains certain elements of love.

Pure friendship is what is called spiritual love.

The term spiritual love was put forward by the philosopher Plato, and for the topic of love, Plato advocated an eternal and pure feeling. He opposes the use of love as a tool for stakes and the satisfaction of desires.

The most we usually hear is people who come to cover up under the pretext of pure friendship. By pure friendship they mean precisely a kind of spiritual dependence.

Someone has investigated the opposite sex who get along with each other as friends, and what they really think in their hearts. Most men are willing to engage with unmarried and married women, and although it is not an act that crosses the boundary, there is still a sense of spiritual pleasure. This is what we often call the effect of "men and women matching" without getting tired of work.

Pure friendship is built on freedom.

Pure friendship between people of the opposite sex is different from a love relationship, and this kind of interpersonal communication is more free in behavior and consciousness, which is not influenced by the other person.

The reason why many people want to seek more friends of the opposite sex is precisely because they can learn different things from each other. This is often due to the fact that there are psychologically complementary elements between men and women. Men usually feel that talking to friends of the opposite sex can make them feel comfortable psychologically.

Pure friendship is based on freedom, but once one partner has a higher emotional need than the other, it can evolve into a more complex relationship, and some people may not even be friends in the end.

Through the above three points, it is clear that pure friendship between the opposite sex is obviously based on ideals, and if there is no need for love, we must know how to maintain a sense of distance and relative proportion.

Pure friendship is just an excuse, people will subconsciously have feelings, but the restraint of morality makes people keep their sanity at all times.

Even if there is no need for affection between a man and a woman, it is necessary to maintain just the right amount of intimacy. Plato's theory of "spiritual love" is utopia or reality, of course, this is only a beautiful hypothesis.

Becoming friends between people of the opposite sex is all about seeking psychological sustenance.

People need companionship, and it is not easy to find someone who truly understands their joys, sorrows, and sorrows in the vast sea of people. Therefore, many people will cherish their true confidants.

And among these confidants, there are people of the same sex, and it is inevitable that there will be people of the opposite sex. At this time, gender is no longer important, as long as you can talk to each other, as long as you can warm and accompany each other, it is enough.

This is a relatively pure mode of getting along with friends of the opposite sex, they will become an inseparable part of each other's lives, and that person has always occupied a very important place in their hearts.

There are also people of the opposite sex who become friends to satisfy their biological needs.

Everyone has physiological needs, and some relationships with friends of the opposite sex are based on satisfying physiological needs.

This kind of opposite-sex friend is impure, and when there is a physical need, they will satisfy each other, and they are neither pure friends nor in love, but an ambiguous relationship.

Therefore, some men and women become friends of the opposite sex with each other in order to meet their physical needs.

Friends between people of the opposite sex, and not because of love.

There are many regrettable things in this world, including love.

I love each other deeply, but for some reason, there is no way for the two to be together, but they don't want to leave each other, so they stay by each other's side as friends of the opposite sex, and there are actually thoughts in their hearts.

This kind of opposite-sex friend is also the most common opposite-sex friend, and the best ending is that the other party also slowly accepts, and the two people fall in love over time, so the friendship sublimates into love.

Therefore, some men and women choose to become friends of the opposite sex because they can't love it.

Yes, yes, but it's rare.

I don't think so, after a long time, there will be problems, so you still have to be cautious about making friends.

In general, no.

Unless two people don't have that kind of function!

There is pure friendship between men and women, but only in these two cases can there be pure friendship between men and women. The first is that one of the thieves is ugly, and you remember that in this case, as long as one of them is ugly enough, the friendship between the two of them is pure enough. The other is that one of the two does not like the opposite sex, that is, they advocate that the same sex in this world is the group of true love.

Leaving aside these two cases, there can be no pure friendship between the rest of the men and women. If you think there is, then you can only say, you are the one who is loved, don't say that you have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, you have been together for many years, if something has already happened, I tell you, that is not realistic, if you are the one who is loved, you are just unscrupulous and fearless to accept his good to you, if you are the one who gives love, you just don't want to admit it, you dare not confess to this person, because you are afraid that once you confess, if the other party rejects you, so many years of relationship will be gone, even the two of you, may not even be able to be friends, so you have a tacit understanding between each other, telling me not to ask, you don't say, I won't leave, and you won't leave. You know why so many people hate the so-called opposite-sex girlfriends nowadays, it is because these people use the banner of pure friendship between men and women, and then do what only lovers can do, and regardless of the occasion and without proportion.

Two people give each other a dish, taste each other's food, and then hook up in public, if the two of them have something sad, they have to go out alone to comfort each other, if their object is angry, it is to straighten their waists and give you a sentence, the two of us are pure friendship, take care of each other. I'll ask you which normal person can tolerate their object has such a disproportionate girlfriend of the opposite sex, I send you those who believe that there is pure friendship between men and women A word, if one day, your object has a so-called pure friendship of the opposite sex, then do you choose to believe them, or choose not to believe them, if you choose to believe them, then if the two of them go out alone at night, you don't have a hurry, if you choose not to believe them, Then why do you think that you are pure friendship?

A popular way to play on social media platforms is that you take your boyfriend's hand and see how he reacts. In most cases, we can see that the boy in ** will hold the girl's hand firmly, and everyone will say that there is no pure friendship between men and women. Some people will joke that it is quite simple to have pure friendship between men and women, as long as one of them is extremely ugly, and it is guaranteed that there will never begin.

In fact, this is not necessarily true, we still have a lot of friends of the opposite sex in our lives, and we may be able to become friends because we have the same interests or hobbies or are classmates or colleagues. If you don't do some excessive behavior, you can still maintain a long-term relationship with friends. If you want to maintain a good relationship with good friends for a long time, you can't get too close to each other in the first place.

It's not a big problem to make an appointment for a dinner party, but the frequency of this party can't be too high. Some things that are only done between couples, such as watching movies, are best avoided between ordinary friends. The warming of feelings is accumulated in meeting again and again, as long as the number of times has not accumulated to this point, then the feelings will not increase, and they can still maintain the position of friends with each other.

When two people meet, they should also grasp the degree between getting along. No one said that two people must walk shoulder to shoulder and hold hands. A road is so wide, can't you find a distance where two people can walk side by side?

Especially like the game that is popular on social platforms mentioned earlier, this kind of temptation is better to do less, and it is not something that should be done between friends of the opposite sex in the first place. And being able to be friends shows that the three views are at least consistent, and doing these senseless temptations under such a premise is for the boy to give him a hope, and it is clear that he doesn't want to be friends. And many boys themselves will laugh at themselves and say that the attitude of boys is not to refuse and not to take the initiative, even if this temptation is just for fun, it may make your friendship deteriorate from now on.

The last point is that when your friend of the opposite sex has a partner, then you need to automatically and spontaneously keep your distance from this friend of the opposite sex. Especially some daily cares, these things no longer need you to do, people have their own objects to do these things. You should retreat to the position of a friend, even if it is just a general person who nods the head, and don't interfere in the daily life between other couples.