Isn t it right to leave the best of yourself to your classmates?。。。 5

Okay, but if you can hide the other side of yourself, if you can hide it well and not be seen, it will be better, if you are dyed and see the bad side of you, people will think that you are not real enough, too fake, or too vain, contrived. On the other hand, some people see that you are doing well in all aspects, and they will feel threatened from the bottom of their hearts, which is called jealousy, which is a normal human emotion. After all, no one is perfect.

I don't think so... Do what you have to do. After all, people are not perfect. If you leave the best side to your classmates, you will be hypocritical... Trust me.

This is !! But it doesn't need to be like this in front of classmates. It's supposed to show the truest side of yourself.,Remember the innocence of the past.,How many people remember that they used to be beautiful.。。。

It's so hard. Always smile, hide your heart in your heart, you can't take care of your image if you have fire, you can't tell if you have suffering, you have to top everything yourself, and you're so lonely in your heart.

The idea is good, but the reality is wrong. Leave the good side to your classmates, but make people feel that you are very fake...

Don't be afraid to be known about your shortcomings, but try to hide your weaknesses.

You have to give your classmates the most authentic side of yourself.

Yes, at least you can leave a good impression on your classmates.

I think that's right, but some children's shoes can misunderstand you.

People are two-sided, and this is the most real you.

Sometimes it's right, sometimes it's noticeable.

How could it be wrong? Classmate relationship is a delicate relationship, heavier than ordinary friends, but thinner than important friends, and many important friends will be classmates.

Right. We should leave not only the good for our classmates, but also for your parents. They raised you from a young age.

It depends on what kind of classmates we have a good relationship with, and we should show the most authentic side, not the best.

That's right, everyone wants to be the best for others.

That's right. It's not just friendship. It's also interpersonal communication.

The reason is that the tolerance of our relatives makes us too presumptuous. If you lose your temper with outsiders such as leaders and colleagues, it is likely to damage your relationship. Therefore, we pay attention to ways and means in our communication, consciously or unconsciously.

And "relatives" are a more stable relationship than "outsiders", we know that even if their words and deeds are out of line, they will not be accountable and will not hold grudges; Even if you use them as a punching bag, you can gain tolerance, understanding, patience, and understanding.

The family is a relatively safe and inclusive environment. When we are wronged outside, we will go home to vent. In such a psychologically safe environment, it is easy for us to forget how to speak well, and to use sarcastic, distorted, exaggerated, and demeaning language to our family members.

In addition, our psychological expectations of those close to us are too high, thinking that they should support themselves, and once they encounter difficulties, it is easy to form a psychological gap, feeling that "others don't understand me, why don't you understand", the more we think about it, the more angry we become.

When we wantonly transfer the harm done to us by outsiders to our spouse, we do not see the care contained in a cup of hot tea that the other party silently serves; When impatiently interrupting the kind nagging of parents, we never saw the old man leave without a word, quietly sad in the house. Fellow relatives bear our harm without regret because they are closest to us, are closest to us, and can tolerate us with love.

Some netizens once calculated that the time spent with their parents was only a few dozen days to more than two hundred days, and the precious time with other close people was also limited. From now on, don't leave a rough attitude and unceremonious accusations to those close to you.

Let's put it another way.

We always leave our most false selves to strangers, but we leave our truest selves to those closest to us.

Because after meeting strangers once or twice, you may never meet again in this life, so being polite is the most time-saving and energy-saving for unnecessary trouble.

The closest people are the ones who have to meet and get along almost every once in a while, and everyone has to get used to each other's tempers. Therefore, you must show your most authentic self so that you can get along more harmoniously in the future.

No one is perfect! Good and bad can only be seen by the people you love the most. As the closest person, it is natural to defend the bad side of him or her.

If you don't show that you don't care, others don't care about you, and if you act casual, others will be very casual with you, so I don't want to be too nice to others, I don't want to act like I don't care in front of others, I don't want to be too close to others, because I don't want others to be too casual with me, I don't want to be wronged.

Chen Gang, He Zhanhao.

The little-known story behind Liang Zhu.

In 1957, He Zhanhao was admitted to the Orchestra Department of Shanghai ** College, majoring in violin. At that time, they often went to the countryside to perform, and each time they played foreign repertoire. He Zhanhao slowly found that there were fewer and fewer people listening to them play the violin.

He began to think, can he use the violin to play the ** that the Chinese like to see? As a result, He Zhanhao, Ding Zhinuo, Yu Lina and other 6 students established the "Violin Nationalization Experimental Group".

At first, He Zhanhao used the tone of Yue Opera to create the string quartet "Xiao Liang Zhu", and for the first time tried to play Chinese opera with Western instruments**. In the spring of 1959, Chen Gang from the composition department was sent to work with him. After three months of hard work, the song was finally completed.

Interestingly, there was no part of "turning into butterflies" in the song at that time, because they insisted that young people in New China should not be superstitious. **The leaders of the academy couldn't help but laugh when they heard this, pointing out that this was a creative technique of romanticism. Only then did they "rest assured" to make up the "butterfly", so there was today's 26-minute violin concerto "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai", which is known as "our own symphony in China".

The masses, created "Liang Zhu", I just sublimated it. He Zhanhao repeatedly emphasized.

I really envy and wish a lover to become a family member.

No, what you show to others should be your true self, whether it's good or bad. Although this may make others have a bad impression of you, it is easy for you to enter the hearts of others and make a lot of friends. Of course, there are some personal things that you can't tell others, no matter how sincere they are, so you are easily hurt.

Even if it is bad in many eyes, as long as you don't think it's bad in your heart, and then use your heart to play your own advantages, many times, bad is also a kind of compensation for yourself. Be your true self seriously.

I'm afraid that I've saved the best for my friends, only to get their jealousy;

I'm afraid that I have dedicated my best self to you, but I can't exchange your true heart.

If life is only as it first seems!

On this noisy Tanabata night, I hugged myself tightly with both hands, in the mirror, laughing and crying, there is still such a person in the world who can accept my imperfections!

Wrong, you should show your truest side!Agree to the jacking.

This is not called the good side, this is called disguise, this is called deception. You're a master of wordplay.

Sometimes it's a little uncomfortable, because of outsiders, the closest people talk about themselves for a little thing, and outsiders are closer than themselves, and they are no longer their own family.

My husband is such a person, he can't stand it and is going crazy.

I know, it's good, I hope I can correct it in the future!Love them, love yourself!

However, the worst side is indeed the most real side.

Anyway, I don't think I have lost my temper in a few years.

Because the person closest to you will never dislike you badly.

On the one hand, it is too unrestrained, and on the other hand, it is not filial enough.

The former is not the real self?

Kudos to you.

It's really good. Source: This is a very good thing.

Leave the worst of yourself to your loved ones, yes. It is time to be filial to your parents, and to calculate your parents. It is time to trust your sister and never lend a helping hand.

It's my buddies, if something happens, I will contribute my own money and efforts. When something happened to them, they didn't show up.

Well, that's the greatest sorrow in life.

You should love, but you are suspicious and distrustful;You should hate it, but you try to stammer.

It's upside down. It's so helpless to live.

Yes, emotional intelligence is too low. Pretend to be a grandson outside and be an uncle at home.