Hate yourself for escaping reality 20

I think people can have two sides, one is to face others, and the other is to face oneself

In the face of others, you can be a little fake, this "false" is not to lie to others, but just to meet a situation that you don't like at work or let yourself accept, should socialize, sing and sing, but pay attention to protect the body, don't take this as a sin, in fact, people inevitably have to contact with society, and strive to integrate into the society in order to gain a foothold, this is also a kind of social activity, know more people, understand more things, is helpful to their own development;

Be real about yourself, know what you really want, pursue it, and enjoy life simply and happily.

If you're optimistic, you can have two worlds at the same time, and it's quite rich, hehe.

Actually, even Chao likes anime and always cries when he sees it.

I also watch anime when I go home!! Although I'm not running away, I'm still happy to have someone who likes anime as much as I do, and I watch the touching parts of anime repeatedly, and then cry until I don't cry anymore...

I hope you can find a thing you like to vent your emotions, and face it after venting, and face the reality with the purest and most calm mood It will be much better Oh This is my experience!

Actually, I'm also an escapist person.

Poor boy, when will you grow up?

The poor must have something to hate, and you don't pity the beggar? It's not easy for your parents to raise you so much.

Let you go out and see how you can get a foothold in this society.

People who can and know how to enjoy life must have gone through many bumpy roads before.

Learn to endure like a rich man.

The poor will only run away.

A sober person is miserable, and because he is sober, he has thought about getting rid of it, and because he can't get rid of it, he continues to indulge. Such a chain reaction actually exists for everyone, but in a different way. We are all children who live passively.

In fact, to be honest, escaping is not necessarily the most difficult to hide, and facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable. Why choose to escape? Escape is a cowardly behavior, a manifestation of weakness, a psychological factor of fear, a helpless failure, escape is a shadow of the soul, there is a bad heart to escape, the more fearful the heart, the more afraid the heart, the reality is always cruel, there is no need to be afraid of things, and then there is no way to escape, the most important thing is to make yourself strong, and dare to bear the courage to face problems when encountering problems, only dare to face it, everything will pass, but start all over again, In fact, people who are afraid of danger are 10,000 times more terrible than the danger itself, turning around is not necessarily the weakest, hesitation is not necessarily no choice, just don't want to be wrong, bravely go their own way, don't choose to escape.

In fact, some things are always sad, get through it, if you are hurt and wipe away the tears you accidentally dripped down, pretend that everything doesn't matter, and then drive it all out of your wounded heart, and if you don't want to bear it, forget about it, as a sad death. Make yourself strong, get out of the shadows, get out of trouble, face bravely, whoever can forgive others, who can save others, who can save yourself, you know, in fact, a second can be all, a tear can also be a lifetime.

One day, Plato asked his teacher what love was, and his teacher told him to go into the wheat field first and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field. You can only pick it once during this period, and you can only walk forward, not turn back. Plato did as his teacher said.

As a result, he walked out of the wheat field empty-handed.

The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it, and he said, "Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see a big and golden tree, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it;

When I walked to the front, I found that it was not as good as what I had seen before, and it turned out that the largest and most golden ears of wheat in the wheat field had long been missed; So, I couldn't pick anything. The teacher said, "This is love." ”

To seek love is to seek one's own happiness.