Why don t many people know how to cherish it now?

In fact, it's not that people don't know how to cherish, but they don't know what they really want, and what is too easy to get often never knows its importance. It is not surprising that we can only understand the feeling of everything, the persistence of wanting to protect something.

When I feel that I have everything, I don't care about anything, every day I just want to satisfy the little wish in my heart, I feel that I have already owned what I like, and I never thought about its place in my heart, until later, something happened, I finally understood what it means to have, what is happiness, what is cherished. One day in the uneventful, my mother suddenly fell ill and couldn't get out of bed, dizzy and nauseous, but we didn't know why, in a hurry my father accompanied my mother to the hospital, I was alone at home, and suddenly I felt that the sky was going to fall, I was at a loss, dazed, and scared. I've never been so afraid of losing, and I've never thought about the consequences.

After that, through many things, I gradually found that the easiest thing we ignore is always what we already have, many things and people, when we don't think it's important, once we lose it, we regret it, because some are really once missed, it will be a lifetime.

So we have to be down-to-earth, cherish what we have now, the most summarized example from me, is to cherish people, those who love us unconditionally to give, we don't need to be jealous of others because of envy, what we should do at the moment is to constantly improve their ability and quality, only by continuous efforts, can we have more, and have a better life. will give a better life to those we cherish. I believe that hard work will always pay off.

With the acceleration of social development, each of our lives and even the whole society has entered a fast-paced mode, many people just meet in a hurry at a party or in a certain place, that is, a side of the relationship, a lot of work or things are mostly coped with, development or the pace of life has become faster so that more people pay more attention to quantity than quality, the pace of life has increased so that many people hurry and ignore the beautiful scenery or people along the way. As a result, more and more people gradually forget to cherish. <>

Since childhood, we have heard such a saying: Don't lose it, you know how to cherish it. Cherishing may sound like an easy word, but actually practicing it is something that many of us can't perfectly interpret. Cherishing is not an excessive spoiling or even indulging in a thing, nor is it a stagnant obsession with the present, it is the best interpretation of everything you have done, and it is wholehearted devotion and dedication.

It's respect for everyone you meet.

Nowadays, many people have forgotten to cherish these two words, on the one hand, the reason is that the pace of our life is accelerating, on the other hand, people's quick success or busyness makes people gradually forget their original intentions, mechanical learning or work, so that people have no interest and can not play their own strengths, boring work makes people feel that life is dull and not to cherish.

So more and more people began to forget to cherish, but each of us came to this world for a better life, we should spend our lives in the way we really like, cherish every day of our lives, cherish every decision we make, cherish everyone we meet, cherish the family love and friendship around us, so that every day is meaningful, when we look back on our life when we are old, there are no regrets and no regrets, every day has been cherished.

Because I have gained too much and have not yet lost, I take too much of other people's efforts for granted, and even after losing, I never find my own problems and complain about others' wrongs, and other factors have led to many people not knowing how to cherish it more and more. And there are more and more such people, to use a pro-people word, that is, this kind of people do not know what to do.

In today's society, parents love their children so much that they have no ego, and their lives are full of children. Is that good? That's right, you haven't missed all the details of your child's growth, but your child has been cared for for a long time and he doesn't take your care seriously!

Why is it that when your child is by your side every day and you nag him, he will be impatient and quarrel with you, but when he is far away from home to go to college and work, and when he comes back, the parents talk about him, but he can listen to him?

That's it, the easier it is to get, the less you cherish it; The more often you get it, the less you cherish it. My friend and I used to be like this, the two of us went to school together, hung out together, did homework together, etc., and were inseparable. But I find that every one or two months we are bound to be estranged for a while, and this estrangement is followed by a new round of intimacy, and if we get a gift from him or something after the estrangement, there is a great sense of happiness.

So to sum up, the reason for not cherishing is the unconditional giving from one party, and the saddest thing is that the other party is completely unaware. It's scary, they're used to enjoying the care and love of others, but they don't realize that they might lose, and even if they do, they don't care at all, just look for the next person who is willing to pay for me, cherishing is not in his consideration.

And this phenomenon often causes the circle of friends to become narrower and narrower, the people around you are fluctuating, and there is no fixed lover and friend, which is a very sad thing.

In this era, people's material life has improved, but their hearts are more empty and they don't know how to cherish it.

First of all, one of the reasons for this problem is that the material conditions are abundant now, people can easily buy what they like, if they don't like it, throw it away and buy it again, never cherish a thing, and reflect it in the inner world that both people and materials think that there is no money to buy, so people will not know to cherish.

Secondly, in this fast-paced life, people like to look at the flowers, read books and skim books, travel like to take pictures, eat like fast food, but they don't know how important it is to slow down to discover the true meaning of life, and to slow down to understand how important it is to cherish a person and a thing.

In short, there are indeed many conveniences in life now, and we can learn a lot of things with our mobile phones, but we still have to advocate a slow-paced life, of course, this slowness is the slowness of the inner world, and it is more important to cherish what you have than those material things.

This is probably human nature, and there is also unspeakable helplessness in it.

Being loved is always fearless, we feel that the people around us, the people who are good to you will not leave, it is this kind of wrong perception that makes yourself more and more presumptuous, wantonly to wear off the good feelings of the other party, and slowly even good people will be angered. It's all because the people around us come too easily, and they don't give people the feeling that they will be lost, even if they don't cherish some people, there will always be better people, so we don't care about squandering our emotions and reckless of the consequences.

Nowadays, many people are polite to strangers, but they often speak ill of their close ones, although we all feel that since we are so familiar with each other, we can joke with each other and lose our temper with each other, otherwise who else will we confide in our emotions? Yes, the best people are often treated as trash cans by us, and of course it's okay to have occasional small fights, but long-term unscrupulousness often wears out some good feelings, and it is precisely because we are too familiar that we don't want to cherish each other.

There are more times, it was originally a good number of people, but for various reasons, everyone scattered all over the place, expired each other's small lives, so that a short time can be connected to maintain feelings, but after a long time, the common language has been slowly lost, everyone lives a different life, can not empathize with the experience of others, so there is no way to find a common topic to support, the occasional chat has become hurried and even very embarrassing, and over time there is not much contact.

Originally, very good friends had to compromise with the world because of distance and time, not that we don't cherish each other, but that there is really no position to care about each other, and the feeling that used to be has gradually become very light or even none, and more have become shallow general friends.

Maybe it's because we're all chasing the unknown "better". It's like picking out the most beautiful flower among the flowers, many people stop and go, knowing that they can't find the most beautiful one after shopping through the whole garden, maybe the one he got at the beginning, or maybe the one he gave up halfway, who knows? Because in the midst of a thousand flowers, one always thinks that something better will be waiting for him later.

In fact, the best is already in your hands. It's just that you're pursuing too much perfection and don't cherish what you have now. <>

I think everyone has had such a stage, especially for the student party. When I went to kindergarten, I was very envious of the primary school students, they seemed to be more independent than me, they didn't need to be picked up by my parents, and there were no nagging teachers like in the kindergarten, but when I went to primary school, I found that it was not good at all, and the courses became more and more difficult, not only addition and subtraction but also multiplication and division. I miss the ease of kindergarten again, and after getting used to the life of elementary school, I want to go to middle school again, so I have more pocket money, and I have more time away from home, so I don't have to complain so much.

However, when I went to junior high school, the same situation happened again, I was always nostalgic for the old days, so I came to college in a trance, and then came to the junior year in a trance, approaching the tail of graduation, looking back on the past, thinking about the past, the more troubles I had when I grew up.

I don't want me to be like this in the future, so I want to start from now, live in the present, grasp every minute and every second of the present, don't worry about the past, and only ask to pave the way for a better future.

No matter what our past is, happy or difficult, that is in the past, cherishing the present is the most important thing, although there are many tempting cases now, there are overnight fame, there are overnight riches, but I would like to say don't take risks and give up what you have now in order to pursue these.

If you can't get it, you love it more, and if it's too easy to come, you will ignore it", for the more difficult things to get, people will always have a desire to conquer, and after getting it, they won't care so much about it.

Because there are too many things in my heart, I have to think about the other when I get one of them, but most people still know how to cherish it.

Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

It is innate human nature not to be content. What he can't get will always be precious in his eyes, and what he can't get in front of him is too easy, and he will always lose it inadvertently, because he doesn't care at all. This is the nature of the lack of human heart, and when he loses it, he knows that he cherishes it, and everything is over.

Cherish what you have now, don't wait until you lose it to regret it, feelings are weird, if you lose it, it's hard for you to get it back.