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People don't live for themselves, if it's just for themselves, then they can be much more comfortable, and they can disappear whenever they want.
But we have too many stumbling blocks.
So even for the sake of your parents, for those who truly love you, you have to work hard, so that those who once looked down on themselves will one day be impressed by themselves.
Don't be so negative, go out for a walk more, even if you get drunk with friends, don't think about it alone, it will only make your heart more chaotic!
You will never find the answer to the question of why people live
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Find someone you can trust and pour out your heart, and you will feel much more comfortable.
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I don't know what you've been through. You'd better be able to get out and about now. Take a trip outside.
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When you take everything lightly, you will be content.
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Life is a reality, responsibility is also a reality, can't escape it, since you have to face it, it's a day to escape depression, and it's also a day to be positive and happy, so why not be positive and happy. Learning to be alone is a good habit ......Happy Wishes!!
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Not everyone lives for himself, he also has relatives, friends, and all those who love him need his presence. Who in this world has no shortcomings? There are no perfect people in the world, only people who strive to make themselves perfect, since this is an unfulfilled dream, why should we make ourselves so tired to make ourselves perfect and surpass others?
Be yourself, live a happy and happy life, this is the goal of life, a person has a grain of rice is lonely, and with their beloved people to have a grain of millet is happy. Learning to be satisfied, learning to share happiness with others, this is the happiness of a lifetime.
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After people have a heart!
I want to stay quietly alone, with a pair of eyes gently closed, and a heart thinking silently.
I don't want to see people say that I am tired, how tired I am to carry it; I don't want to complain to others, how bitter I taste; I don't want to cry when I meet someone, and I hide how much pain I have.
In life, there is always more tiredness than beauty, and I have to face it;
In the relationship, it is always more painful than drunk, and it is inevitable that there will be heartbreak.
If you can't figure out right and wrong, you can only taste it alone;
Cut the constant wrong, wrong, right, right, only secretly shed tears.
When a person is tired, he can lie down and rest; I'm tired, I don't care if I can let it go! Some feelings are indescribable. The smile is far-fetched; words, all feel redundant.
Immerse yourself in your own world,
Is it silence, silence, or indifference;
Can't get rid of everything,
Is it a tangled, a heart knot, or a complex.
I'd rather be alone in a quiet daze,
I don't want to tell;
Be willing to think quietly with one heart
I don't go to contact either.
It turns out that what can be shared with others is always more happy than sad; What you can talk to people is always insignificant. The wound in the heart, only oneself hurts the most; The unspeakable pain is best understood only by yourself.
Actually, a lot of thoughts
It doesn't have to be said to everyone.
Someone who listens and understands and comforts you;
Some people don't understand it, and they become haggard.
Your bitterness, your tiredness, your exhaustion,
No one can replace it;
Your love, your affection, your sorrow,
You can only taste it alone.
Quietly placed in a corner,
Flip up when no one is around;
Gently shed a tear,
Beautiful in times of loneliness.
In this world: you always have to taste the ups and downs by yourself, you always have to block the ups and downs by yourself, and you always have to carry them by yourself!
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As you said, since you were a child, you have developed an inferiority complex and introverted and sensitive character, so it is safe to tell you that the key to completely changing your life situation and rekindling your enthusiasm for life lies in yourself, and others are not the focus.
You have to be open-minded, and you have to have a big heart that embraces many things. Don't stay at home all the time and do nothing, you can go out shopping with friends, or climb mountains, consciously exercise and fitness, and physical health is the first. Secondly, read more psychological counseling books to teach you to be a strong person at heart.
People's psychological state can be completely changed, and what is needed is a mentality and time that you want to change. It's very important not to rely too much on your husband, you can't help but give him free space, two people need to understand each other when they are together, if you are more considerate and understanding, he will naturally not take you seriously.
As for the baby, you are married to him, so there are many things that cannot be forced, and you need to think about it in the long run. You can't pin your life on your husband or your future child, otherwise even if you give birth, you will always be miserable, what if the child doesn't listen to you at all, what if you don't have any interest in the future, won't you continue to suffer?
Therefore, the key lies in yourself, change the current sick psychological state, open your mind, be calm, nothing is unpassable, cannot be solved, I wish you happiness.
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If the pain you should suffer in your life is predestined, sadness is also to endure these pains, and happiness is also to endure these pains, then it is better to accept it with a smile, not to mention that there may not be so many ups and downs when you adjust your mood.
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As that friend said, all you have to do is live your life now, don't think about your offspring, think about your father and mother, they want you to be safe
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I can't help but do anything, I'm just a student. Someone will help you, I wish you a happy time!
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You can just stop thinking about the future and do the present well. Everyone knows the future, and we can look forward to it. Let's travel. Relax yourself.
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It may be that you are the only one in the world, you should have your own space, hobbies, etc., and be distracted.
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It's okay, God is fair. Be sure to believe in yourself.
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Everyone is actually a lonely walker. No need to complain, when you are tired, just take a deep breath and you will feel relaxed; When it's cold, just clasp it with both hands, and you will feel warm; If you are bitter, close your eyes and listen, and you will feel happy.
There is no need to regret it, since it is the path you have chosen, no matter how difficult it is, you have to go on your knees. We can't change the suffering that reality gives us, the only thing we can do is to know how to let go of ourselves!
If you want to cry, let the tears flow to your heart's content, and laugh when you want to laugh. Who will know, who will know? At this time, listening to a sad love song, you will suddenly burst into tears? At such a time, a shallow and gentle greeting suddenly leads to a lot of thoughts?
In a person's life, he has walked, passed by, loved, hated, hurt, hurt, cried, laughed, who can really forget? Take yourself and your soul for a walk, quietly, gently, through setbacks, through sorrows, through memories, out of the downturn, and find yourself.
A person's life is neither as good nor as bad as imagined. There will be sadness behind everyone, and there will be unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own tears to wipe and their own path to follow.
Just remember, add a coat to yourself when it's cold; Buy yourself a loaf of bread when you are hungry, and give yourself a strong strength when you are in pain; If you fail, give yourself a goal, fall down and get up in pain, give yourself a tolerant smile and continue to move forward, and be your truest self.
Always show the brightest smile in front of people; always bury the most lonely heartache behind him. The road is walking step by step, and the footprints left are the clearest to yourself; Things are done little by little, and I know the hardships best.
You walk tired or not, your feet know; Whether it is difficult for you to hold on, you know it on your shoulders; Whether you're doing well or not, you know. Strong people are people who understand life!
In this life, there are always realities that people don't want to accept and feelings that they don't want to bear. always face it with heart and lungs, but can't get the kind treatment of appreciation; has been waiting with all his heart, but he can't wait for his conscience to find out.
Pain, but feelings; Hurt, but the heart. was so serious that he was desperate, but he lost completely; is so single-minded that he leaves no room for it, but he forgets to cry coldly.
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1. Sometimes, even if your heart is like a knife, you have to smile brightly. Obviously vulnerable, but so strong; Tears rolled in my eyes, but I told everyone that I was fine.
2. The invisible scars hurt the most, and the tears that can't flow out are the most aggrieved. It's sad to be sad, it's good to taste it slowly alone, and it's good to be sad and bear it alone.
3. I thought that as long as I smiled every day, I couldn't see my troubles. I thought that as long as I closed my eyes and changed this, I would not be able to see the whole world. I thought that as long as I covered my ears and shouted, I could not hear those troubles. It's just, after all, it's just what I thought.
4. You broke into my world, and then gave up halfway, and in the end I was the one who was reluctant, and I was the one who was heartbroken.
5. Some people, some things, should be forgotten and forgotten, people have never reassured you. Why should you be amorous?
6. I originally thought that as long as I hold you tightly, I can go forever, but I didn't expect that the tighter the grip, the faster you will lose.
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...It's impossible to forget the pain.
Only after a long time slowly fades away.
It became a poignant memory.
Think about it and laugh it off.
Life doesn't give us that much leeway.
Don't look back. There's actually nothing behind it.
Say goodbye to the past. Go face a new day.
Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!
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