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Your girlfriend and your mother are very ignorant. They don't think about your feelings and your situation, first of all, the mother said that the daughter-in-law should be, but don't be too blunt, if the mother doesn't say it, she won't be able to play the role of a mother-in-law. If it's too blunt, it won't play its original role [educating daughters-in-law].
Girlfriends shouldn't contradict it, if it's wrong, it's wrong, just don't talk, why bother to contradict it. Of course, you are making peace with things when you are old, and you are opening them left and right. In front of her mother, she said that she was not sensible years ago.
said in front of his girlfriend that he shouldn't contradict his mother, they all knew that they had done something wrong, so they asked you to speak and mediate.
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Say that your mother is wrong in front of your wife, but let your mother, (but speak fair words and speak to your wife).
Say fair things to the mother and hope that the mother understands that the son is partial to the wife. Ask your mother to get rid of the habit of scolding your wife. Otherwise, we won't be able to live together, either my mother will leave, or I will get divorced.
You have to say that you don't want to see your mother leave, and your mother should not want to see her son divorce!
There is also one of my theories, I live with my wife for a lifetime, and my parents are before they get married, and their children are before the children get married, so I spend the longest time with my wife (don't talk about divorce).
Look at your parents and wife!
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Oh, I suggest you, just like you saw on TV, secretly tell your mom that my girlfriend said she knew it was wrong, and she was embarrassed to apologize to you, so she let me come, and then I was telling your girlfriend that my mom asked me to apologize to you, and she was embarrassed to tell you, so that's it.
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Just look at the TV series "Double-sided Tape", it's real!
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The girlfriend has a quarrel with her mother, so when you coax her, you must first tell him that her mother is your mother, what your mother said is right, or not, you have to respect him, because he is your closest person, and then you and your girlfriend say don't be angry, let's go out shopping together!
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The girlfriend has a quarrel with his mother, so don't get involved in your matter.
You can take your girlfriend out for a bit of fun and have a meal to distract your girlfriend.
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Don't coax, just take your girlfriend out to play, just separate them for two hours, and there may be nothing to do when you go home, you have to believe that they are mother and daughter, there is no hatred, just a little careful thinking and small emotions between women, and this kind of careful thinking of women comes and goes quickly, so don't worry too much, take one out for a walk and there will be nothing.
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At this time, you must comfort your girlfriend and enlighten her thoughts.
Tell your girlfriend not to really care about the people in the family, it is for your own good, you have to know how to consider their feelings.
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It depends on your ability, the most important point is the contradiction, don't intensify it again, and at the same time really make it clear that her mother is sincere to her, but there are some things that he may not accept, but everything is for his good.
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Then you have to get married on both sides, both to coax your girlfriend and you, to coax your mother, and to keep these two people not sad.
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When a girlfriend quarrels with her mother, she should be persuaded to be more considerate and tolerant of her mother as a junior.
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First of all, you have to look at what your girlfriend is arguing with your mother, and then analyze it to correctly guide the relationship between two people.
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We have to learn to understand our mother, our mother does a lot of things for your good, not for your good, but in the wrong way, only by understanding our mother, can we reduce the quarrel with our mother.
We have to communicate with our mom a lot because of the way of thinking of two generations.
Different, which is what we call the generation gap.
It is easy to have misunderstandings, and only by communicating can we know what we really think about each other, so that we will not quarrel because of misunderstandings.
After quarreling with your mother, you must calm down, don't run away from home because of this, that will hurt your mother's heart even more, and don't engage in a cold war and face the problem positively.
After quarreling with my mother, I have to put down my son and take the initiative to reconcile with my mother, what is the face in front of my family, coax my mother, they are all a family, there is no deep hatred, I amuse my mother, and it will pass with a smile.
If you don't control your temper well, when you quarrel with your mother, you must not say a lot of things that hurt your mother's heart because of impulsiveness, and you must stop in moderation, once some words are spoken, it is difficult to take them back.
After reconciling with your mother, you have to sit down with your mother and have a good chat about why you quarreled over this matter, tell your mother what you really think, and believe that your mother will eventually understand you.
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1.What causes conflicts with my mother?
2.If the cause of the conflict is not serious or you think it is serious, then you can coax your mother, in words and actions, to make your mother feel comfortable, to be a child, to be a coquettish to the mother, to talk about the matter, and to make a promise to the mother, you will be forgiven, because the mother loves her children the most.
3.To give you a suggestion, don't always have conflicts with your mother, in this world, only your mother is the one who loves you the most, you have to feel your mother's love with your heart.
I hope you can give me my opinion, thank you.
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After having a conflict with your mother, you must first apologize to your mother, because you were impulsive and did not mean to quarrel with your mother.
Mothers love their children, their love is selfless, sometimes they say or do things that we don't understand, but you have to know that they are all for our good!
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It's a very common thing to have a conflict with your mother, but it's not important, the important thing is that your mother is the best person for herself, he won't hold a grudge against herself, and you shouldn't hold a grudge against your mother, so being friendly together is the most appropriate!
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Conflict with his mother. To be resolved, you should first admit your mistakes to them. Then calm down and think about it.
The main reason for the contradiction lies in whom. If on us. Communicate with him progressively, and if the conflict is in your parents, you can also patiently explain it to them.
The solution to the conflict is to be calm. Put the problem. Explain clearly.
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Calm down and communicate with your mother well, she will understand you, it's all for your own good, so you can't help but lose your temper.
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The world you see is a mirror of your heart, and the pain comes from the struggle of the heart.
Mom is also from the age of 18, she is also out of love for you, her money, when you use a lot of money, won't she use it for you?
However, sometimes the mother's love is incorrect, and there is a misunderstanding with the child, and the expression and interpretation of the love of both parties are deviated, leading to mutual accusations, resentment, and finally hatred, which is sad.
In parent-child communication, we have seen that many parents love their children wrongly, impose their will on their children, do not trust their children, and use discipline methods to control their children strongly, not to set an example, so that children trust him, admire him, learn from him, should be taught, or teach by example.
The vast majority of today's parents say that their children are difficult to manage, of course, it is difficult to manage, and it is not difficult to use the management.
If it is said that the child is really difficult to lead, who believes it, the child has a great father or mother in his eyes, it is a proud thing, and if he does not learn to let the scholar learn, he is a little fool. It's all smoked.
When the mother is in a good mood, take a look at the parent-child communication with the parents, or let the father, aunt and other elders propose to watch together, during which you can't blame the mother, "Look, it's all your fault, you're not right, that's not right."
I want to show that my mother loves me, I know, can I love me well, I also love my mother, if my mother can love me well, I must study hard and repay my mother better.
To save face for your mother, don't say that your mother is not in front of others, and there should be fewer people watching together, preferably family members. Don't use this as an excuse for others to talk about your mother.
Well, do it yourself.
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I think it's better not to have some conflicts with my mother, but to sit down with my mother and solve the corresponding problems through communication, maybe through chatting, all the problems of the two people can be discussed. This is also a situation that reduces contradictions. We want our parents to understand what we think, and we have to understand what our parents think.
Each other has to think for each other.
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Be coquettish, play tricks, give her a hug, and the woman who loves you the most in this world will definitely forgive you. Parents who have not won their children.
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The grace of parenting, hard work for a lifetime, do not be angry with your mother, respect and filial piety to your parents, your mother is not in the right place, she has a good attitude and communicates patiently, and her mother accepts change.
I had a conflict with my girlfriend, and my girlfriend sent a message to you about Chengsha, that is, she still loves you, so I hope you can forgive her.
Calm down first, and then take the initiative to talk to the other person.
Start by asking your girlfriend to talk to her family and make an appointment to visit them. Bring some gifts to the past, meet to be polite, say hello to the elderly, don't mention the money as soon as you meet, formally propose to buy a house from the process of conversation, in a negotiated tone, you need to think about the future, you need a suite for marriage, you can't wronged your girlfriend, but the money on hand is not very enough, I want to ask her parents what they mean, can you borrow some money to turn around, and when you have a better hand, you will return the money to her.
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