What is it like for a person who has lacked family affection since childhood

The relatives around us are the biggest nobles in our lives, although they are connected by blood, but they don't understand gratitude, don't understand love, don't need love to water family affection, no matter how good family affection will wither.

If you rely on family affection, it will drag down family affection, and if you care for family affection, you will kiss and add affection.

Family affection will never give you the icing on the flowers, for fear that you will be confused, he always pours some cold water when we succeed, so that you are sober, and family affection He always encourages us to keep moving forward.

Family affection is always the one who sends charcoal in the snow, no matter what, he hopes that we will get better and better.

If you lose your family affection, because you don't know how to be grateful, your soul is polluted, you have to think about it on the wall, cultivate virtue, wash your heart, and find your tainted soul, and you will be confused and enlightened. Know your family's good intentions for you.

will be even more insecure. Either it's hard to trust people, or it's easy to be deceived. It can be extreme to look at some things related to feelings.

People who need love a lot and care about being good to them are easy to hurt and hurt more easily.

No matter how resolute a person looks on the outside, there will always be a vulnerable side in the heart. No matter who it is, there is a desire to be accepted and loved in the heart.

When I was a child, the main thing of love was the affection given by my parents. And when he grows up, it gradually diverges into friendship from friends and love from lovers.

If a person lacks the love of their parents from an early age, they will have a significant lack of love when they grow up. People who have "lacked love" since childhood, 5 manifestations that are prone to appear!

If you lack family affection from an early age, you will grow up to be very afraid of failure, rejection, loneliness, not being good enough, being abandoned, not being loved, losing control, and many unknown factors. Our fears can either solidify us or motivate us to develop maladaptive behaviors, such as maladaptive perfectionism.

Pleasing compulsions in order to gain a sense of control. If interventions are not implemented properly, there is a high probability that adults will experience the same symptoms as they were left over from childhood. This will be followed by several other coping mechanisms that may have developed from childhood and into adulthood (or developed during adulthood).

The lack of maternal love will cause the following common situations due to the different living environments.

Because in life, my father has a great influence on me. Then, the inheritance of the father's character will show a straight line of succession. The personality shown will fluctuate due to the influence of the father.

Lack of maternal love, because of the lack of this part of the affection in life, and the inheritance of character, in the process of life, with reference to other family examples and comparisons, so as to form an anthropomorphic psychology. In psychological growth, the missing parts are compensated. Good performance aspects, such as:

Good housework, delicate mind, knowing how to take care of people, kindness, etc. But there are also negative examples, such as: rebellious personality, unassertive, cowardly, etc.

The lack of education of female family members will directly lead to the inevitable psychological inferiority complex and self-protection mentality in the process of children's growth. It usually manifests itself as a decrease in interpersonal skills and a high degree of caution.

The extremes of personality are not only the lack of maternal love, but also the probability of extreme personality in single-parent families or orphans, which greatly exceeds the probability of occurrence in normal families. They will have a relatively clear definition of their likes and dislikes in their hearts. And the performance is also relatively obvious.

This also illustrates the statement of insecurity.

Lonely and lonely, rebellious in words and deeds!

Family affection is absolutely there for most people, and you don't have to ......regret it

The so-called family affection is the emotion between relatives, parents may discipline their children more ruthlessly, and children will doubt "I am not their biological child" A sadness in their hearts hits, making their little self doubt the ...... family affectionWhen I became a parent and grew up sensible, I understood that my parents' "ruthlessness" at the beginning was definitely a spur to change their evil ways and return to ......So the hatred for his parents when he was a child turned into a stronger family ......

When menopause meets adolescence, family affection is once again doubted ......When you are young, you will have huge doubts about your parents, "Are you good for me", "Why don't you support me in anything", ......When your own humanity makes you hit your head and bleed, the warm harbor - home becomes the only place you can rely on, and the arms of your parents will always be a warm ......At this time, you will feel what family affection is......When the warmth of your parents heals your wounds, and your willfulness hurts you again, it is still the warm ......embrace of your parents that helps you healKnowing parents should do this, so that the child's humanity and injury become the child's growth experience, and the child will become more mature and responsible, but the ...... that force the child not to experience those setbacksIt has become an eternal injury to the child (the child's eternal regret, the eternal dissatisfaction with the parents......).）

The beauty of family affection lies in the fact that relatives can experience the love between each other, and the sadness of family affection is precisely to hurt each other's ...... in the name of loveAs long as people can turn the power of love into positive energy, everything will become harmonious and beautiful.

Family affection is not a superior material condition, family affection is sincere love for each other, and even love can be ugly in form, it will be a painful experience and a happy memory ......

A father cut off one of his son's fingers because he liked to steal, so that his son would remember the bad act of stealing for the rest of his life, so he changed his evil ways and walked towards the right path ...... lifeThe father's behavior really caused physical damage to his son, but it was worth it to be able to keep the alarm bell ringing.

A young criminal, when he was executed, fulfilled a wish, he said that he wanted to hug his mother, but he bit off his mother's ear, and said to his mother with remorse, the reason why I can have today's result is the result of your old man's pampering of me, I hate you!

Although these are extreme examples, the truth is the same, no matter who needs to go through the wind and rain, if you don't go through the wind and rain, there will be no strong perseverance to survive, so that the world is full of the beauty of family affection, and there is no tragedy caused by family affection.

People live in the world, in addition to their own personal pursuits, but also need family and friendship to accompany, whether in life or work, need someone to help to enter the role as soon as possible, the power of one person is limited, the power of many people is unlimited. Family affection is the same, once family affection has a partition, it is difficult to reunite, this is the lack of family affection.

Take a step back and open the sky, endure the calm for a while, life is to seek a balance between trade-offs, to have a certain degree of people, not too much, when it is time to retreat, we must retreat, no matter who is right or wrong, each one step is okay. If you don't even have the least respect for the orange, how can you talk about emotions, no matter how strong the family affection is, it will be indifferent.

People are different from each other in life, no one can change anyone, and it is not bad to be a person for oneself than to see it.

Some people's understanding of family affection is money exchanges, some people only value affection no matter how much money they have, while some people value things outside the body and lack real family affection.

As a layman, I don't want to evaluate too much right and wrong, who is right and who is wrong, I just know that Tong does what he thinks is right.

The question you are asking is huge. It's not because I don't know how you lack affection. Is there a lack of family affection without parents, brothers, and sisters, or that relatives are not lacking, but they don't care about you and have less family affection.

If it's the first type, it's a little more difficult. I think the best thing to do is to make a few of the best friends worth making friends with, and you treat each other as friends and develop a sense of kinship. If your friends play well, they will be closer than your loved ones. A friend's parents are also your parents.

If it is the second type, it is necessary to find out the reason for the lack of family affection. Let's find out the reason from ourselves. If it's something they're not doing well, you can be blunt about telling them or communicating with them, you need affection.

If you are an adult, then start with you, you learn to care for them, let them feel your presence, your giving. We often say that "sincerity goes, jade is open". People are not cold-blooded animals, let alone your relatives.

Touch your loved ones with your sincerity, your care, and your dedication. They are touched and will learn to give. In this way, family affection will be cultivated.

First of all, you have to know what kind of situation you have, is it because you don't have relatives or you don't feel the care of your relatives? For the first case, you can make more friends, especially close friends, you can usually talk to them about anything, good friends are actually similar to relatives in the end, and if you have a good relationship with friends, you can also walk around with their parents often, which helps you feel affection and care; If you're lucky enough to find a caring boyfriend and girlfriend, that's the best; For the second case, it can be divided into two types, one is that the parents are not around, and the other is that the relationship is just cold around you, or you don't feel family affection because of improper communication. In the first case, you can contact your parents more often, often call **, tell your lovesickness, or occasionally buy them some gifts and mail them back to express your love and concern; You can report back to your friends and relatives about your recent life so that they can know how you are doing, so that you can feel like you are around. In the second case, I think you need to find out the reason, whether it is because your parents don't know how to express their love, or if you have done something to make them sad, find an opportunity to talk to your parents, tell them what you think, tell them that you love them, and at the same time you can also understand how much they love you.

Usually people are not used to putting love on their lips, maybe other people can't feel it, so we need to say love, and sometimes when you say it, you will receive unexpected results, for the love of our parents for us, as long as you feel it with your heart, you will be born compared to what we do, how great and selfless their love is, it turns out that you have always been surrounded by love; But no matter what it is, I think you need to communicate more with your loved ones, communication is the best and most direct way to get closer to people, it can resolve misunderstandings, rustiness, and many things can be solved through communication. I also have to remind you that communication should also be at the right time, and it is good to do it when there is something happy and the atmosphere is relaxed. I wish you to find family affection and love as soon as possible, and you may find love when the time comes, and it will always be by your side!

What kind of lack of law? Are you emotionally weak or are others stingy with your feelings?

Summary. Hello, people who lack family affection, after all, can get a minority in society, because now many people are already very tired when they are alive and have no time to take care of others, but there are also people who will meet some warm friends and lovers, and they will ** the pain of lack of family affection.

Hello, people who lack family affection, after all, can get a minority in society, because now many people are already very tired when they are alive, and they have no time to take care of others.

That is to say, it is impossible to meet???

There are a few times before you have encountered a few pre-wax rates, but you want to be really too little in society, and you can use love to ** lack of family affection, there is a person who loves you, he will become your dearest person, and the probability of repentance is very large.

I met an aunt, but I didn't want him to leave me.

I understand the mother-lover complex better, because there are many such cases, saying that it is useless to say anything, and they are very persistent.

What about the end result.

How to say it, it depends on the situation, if I fail and tell you that you don't have a stupid ending, will you be more sad, and then inspire to be the best couple, it's all like this, but the reality is very cruel.

That's why I changed my aunt to my godmother.

In order to be recognized by everyone, it is also a kind of cover-up.

That means that in real life, if I treat my aunt as my mother, will she still leave me?

Then it depends on what she thinks of you.