How credible is it for a man in his thirties to be friends with you and a confidant?

It doesn't matter what the other person thinks, because I don't know what he thinks. So pay attention to his character, and don't kill a boatload of people with a rod. There are good people in this society, it depends on your experience.

Don't meet him often, it's better not to drink when you meet, it's better not to meet. If you have a confidant, you don't know if you can meet it. If you really don't want to contact, just change your number, won't you be able to find you?

I don't think the credibility is too high, because he doesn't know how to go, how can he learn to love you well if he loves his body well, if he really loves you, he should give you a solid life, you should find a way to make yourself better and better, so that you can feel reliable, so that you can give you the sense of security you want, this is the correct performance of truly loving someone.

Fifty or sixty percent. If you don't have good habits, you won't be able to fulfill your responsibilities well.

I don't think this kind of credibility is high, because when two people love each other, they will gradually care about each other, care about each other, and care about whether they can stay with her for a long time, so that they will not consume their body and mind.

A person doesn't cherish himself, but it doesn't mean that he can't love others, you can't judge him by this, if he really cares about you, and treats you well for a long time, it means that he really cares about you.

A man who doesn't even cherish his own body, how credible he is when he says he loves you. I think his love for someone can't be reflected in loving himself, because he will do whatever it takes to love you. Including his own body, he will not cherish it.

A man who doesn't even cherish his own body well, how credible he says is that he loves you, I think there are many men who don't cherish their bodies, but he loves his family more and the credibility is 90%.

This can't determine how credible he is to love you, because this is a person's character problem, and it is also an affirmation of your emotions, so at this time, you can only make an understanding of the other party's reality to be sure.

I don't think it's very likely, how can he, a person who doesn't even love himself, love others? I think all his actions are deceptive, and I don't trust such people anyway.

Many people love the person they love more than themselves, although he doesn't cherish his own body very much, but his love for you will not be fake, you can tell him to let him cherish his body, cherish his body.

That's a complicated question! I think there should be two questions! He doesn't know that taking care of his health must be ignorant and fearless! And it's nature to pursue girls! But in the end, the choice is up to the girl! You try it!

This is not necessarily, some people may not cherish themselves, but they may be good to others.

It depends on the situation, loving you is not necessarily fake, but it is true that he doesn't love himself.

I don't know what you mean by not caring for your body, such as smoking and drinking and other vices, these things are addictive, no one can control them, and whether he loves you or not is the same thing?

Judging from your description, a man who doesn't even care for his own body is not very credible, and it can't be said that he loves you is not credible, although some men treat themselves badly, they treat the people they love very well, so this can't be completely concluded.

A man who doesn't even cherish his own body well, he says that he loves you, the credibility is very low, and it may be impulsive.

Truth be told, this credibility is not high, but there are exceptions. He does not love himself, but he loves others.

I think a man who doesn't even cherish his own life, he said that the credibility of loving you is very low, because he doesn't cherish himself, how can he cherish others?

A person who doesn't even take good care of his own body, I don't think the credibility of her saying that she loves you is too high.

A man who doesn't even take good care of his own body. Say I love you, don't believe it. People have a selfish side, but in fact, the first thing to love is themselves.

He is not in good health, he cherishes men, he says I love you, and his credibility is not high, which means that he will only talk sweetly, and will not actually act.

He's out there and you're one.

First of all, it's not that I'm not responsible for you, but I'm not responsible for his family, I'm the most ruthless is this kind of man, although I haven't been exposed to such a thing, but I dare to promise that he will never divorce his wife because of your appearance, if he really divorced for you, then don't you think he is more dangerous?

You also have to be responsible for yourself, if you don't have to him, don't get caught between them, I think: when he comes home, you call him ** and he doesn't pick you up, you are also very painful, am I right? Hurry up and get out of this relationship, I think you should also be a good girl, and you will definitely be able to find your true love!

When you meet a man who is responsible for the family, you will understand how impulsive you were at the beginning, and even have a feeling of regret, I hope you will explain to that person as soon as possible, don't come to you, just keep you in your heart, and he will remember you.

Forty is a dangerous age for men!

You have to be careful, all the men say what he says!

He has a wife and children, do you think carefully about whether he will marry you because of your divorce? Can you be happy even if you can get married? Can you live in peace?

Aren't you worried about what happens to him and his wife? Since he can say those things to you when he has a wife, who can guarantee that he hasn't said it to other women!

Don't waste your good youth on this! Don't believe this man's tricks! Go find your own happiness!

From another point of view, you are his second wife, do you think the second wife will end well? You have indirectly destroyed other people's families, and you still reject him sensibly, right? Do you dare to say that there is no one else but you?

If he really loved you, he would have given up his family and would be with you at all costs, fool

Don't let yourself go wrong.

It's not worth it because he's maintaining that home and he's still in touch with you, do you think he can give you as much love as he wants, just to be responsible? Don't you want to have a full home? Such a man dumped it early.

Don't believe him

Because as a man, I know that men are more inclined to use rhetoric to trick girls into being happy, really, really don't believe it

You shouldn't be very old, how can you be deceived??? Don't be silly. Wake up ...

Grasp yourself, don't trust anyone, have your own criteria for choosing a mate, find your own happiness, and grasp it! Younger sister.

I feel that this man is cheating on you, he will be his wife and children when he comes home, and they will not think about you at all, be careful of being deceived!

Oh, how can you believe him, so naïve, so many examples, don't you know?

You don't trust him anymore, you don't need to intervene in his life, you live your own life.

Don't believe it, I've been there.

People say that men learn 40 years old, this is not unreasonable, since he is like that to maintain his home, then he doesn't want to lose it easily, divorce is not a new thing in this era, what he said to you is so true, so why would it. Do you want to think about it? Don't go astray!

Don't be stupid, it won't be true, will he marry you. You have to think about it. Don't think that if he loves you, you can be with him, or you can have a relationship after he divorces.

Upstairs is right, such a man cannot be trusted, even if he marries you, he will say the same thing to other women in the future.

As mentioned above, as soon as his novelty to you wears off, he will return to his wife. There are so many examples of this kind of thing.

Although your choice has nothing to do with me, this is definitely not true love. Remember: you can never see his heart.

Can't promise him! The children could see that maybe he had said the same thing to his wife ...... at the beginning

You have to understand that sometimes you are the most trustworthy, forget about the other.

People and what he said to you, think about it again, in fact, you don't really believe him, you yourself are questioning whether what he said is true, so in fact, you just want to believe him, be happy, think about it, and then call out the person who told you that he is squeezing you and him, find out the truth, and you have to let him understand that this question about whether you will believe him in the future is serious. Trust that you can solve the problem.

I read such an article a few years ago and I still remember it vividly!

A gentleman falls in love with a lady, and he goes downstairs every day to express his affection. The lady was a little moved but also a little proud, and she wanted to test the gentleman's sincerity, so she said to him: "If you really love me, can you sit downstairs with me for 100 days, then I will believe in your sincerity!"

The gentleman didn't say anything, but sat down at the window downstairs from the lady he loved. Day by day, no matter whether it was windy, rainy or scorching, he sat like this ......In fact, the lady also regretted it very much, regretting what she had said.

They all survived 99 days with great difficulty.

As the hundredth day was about to pass, the lady pushed open the window and rushed downstairs, wanting to throw herself into her lover's arms. But what she saw was that the gentleman was standing up, twisting his already numb body, patting the dust off his body, looking at the sky, and then turning around and walking away without looking back. Only the lady was left standing with wide eyes, not knowing what had happened!

But in an instant, she understood: the gentleman who once loved her had sat for 100 days and had already expressed his sincerity! Now that he has turned away, this is the dignity of a man!

I was very impressed by this article, and I admired the gentleman's actions, but there is also something undesirable about a gentleman: this lady makes such a request in order to test her sincerity, and in the first place this lady is already insincere, and she will not be a good person! This lady is not worthy of a gentleman doing this for her!

What is the meaning of love that is obtained entirely by sincerity? The basis of love is mutual affection!

I've been in love freely, but it's just a bitter wine, brew and drink it myself! It's best to talk to your parents about this and see what they think, it's the best solution. After all, they have more knowledge. As the saying goes: one person is short, three people are long.

By the way, a few more words: marriage matters, it is best to have matchmakers, parents are the masters, is the best, this is the tradition of the Chinese nation, not feudal or feudal, this is the principle of heaven. Many people can't listen to such ideas anymore, and when they hear such words, they don't like to listen to them:

What age are they, and they still talk about these old things! Although I am a young man, I am in favor of such traditions. I am a beneficiary of this tradition, and I am now quite happily married.

As for free love, this is the consequence of the gradual loss of human morality, unwilling to be constrained, doing whatever they want, no one can control, the words of their parents can only be used as a reference, or simply not listening, and in the end they still make their own decisions. This kind of thinking is not an individual, but has become a social ethos. However, the social climate does not necessarily mean that it is right, and what is allowed by national law is not necessarily right

**, lottery countries allow, but their essence is gambling; There are countries that allow homosexuality, and in our opinion, this is simply an incredible thing, and its essence is to corrupt human ......

Respect the tradition and tell your parents or other elders about it, and they will be able to help you.

I don't know if I can help you.

1. You can't see anything on the surface.

2. When you get along, don't listen to what he says, but see what he will do for you<1. > him take care of you and listen to your heart, not what he complains to you< 2. Although > money is not a problem, it also depends on it, if his family has money, there is nothing to say, but if he has no money, even if he borrows, he will spend it for you.

3> Some people will only coax you on the surface, get you this and that, but they don't actually take action, you have to see his actions.

..In short, you have to feel, don't be nice to him when you feel, I don't know if you're still a student, if you are, you can't be sincere, the future is still long, and you can't sell your body.

In short, it's okay to say yes or not, but it's good to keep half of your new ones for yourself so that you don't let yourself suffer.

Two ways:

1.Look at the friends he has made. (Including; The depth of friendship, the time of communication, their character) (as the saying goes: friends, like-minded!) )

2.Time is the best witness! If 1 is unsuccessful)

Look at how he usually behaves to you.

Don't accept him just yet.

What can I tell him?

You can ask him for help.

If it's been a long time.

He's still so patient with you.

If you think he's still nice to you.

Then accept him, be good