When your family gives you invisible pressure, you want to complain?

Today's children are facing many pressures, including the pressure of school or interest classes, the interpersonal pressure of social circles, and so on. At present, I often say, "Why do you procrastinate on your homework?" Why do you throw things away when you get home?

Why don't you hurry up and eat" and so on. And the child still watched the TV by himself, and after the compulsion, it was a crying. Parents want to improve this emotion, but they don't know what to do.

In fact, the emotions of both parents and children will affect each other, and if parents have their own emotional skills, then they can guide their children to control them at the appropriate time.

I think it's all about time. I can't change my family's pressure. It's okay to do what you want to do and work towards your goals.

After all, parents don't understand that temporary difficulties will pass, and the future will be bright. I think it's all about time. I can't change my family's pressure.

It's okay to do what you want to do and work towards your goals. After all, parents don't understand that temporary difficulties will pass, and the future will be bright.

What are the invisible pressures that the home gives you? It may be that you are being told to study hard, and you are feeling the pressure. You should explain to your parents your current situation. Let them understand you now. Friendly communication, so hesitation, your mind to let go of the baggage. Travel light.

I think if this happens to you, see if you can move out and take the test according to your own ideas, and don't care what your family says, because what your family says has nothing to do with you, you just need to strengthen your faith.

The family has given you, invisible pressure, this is the family's concern for you, but the family should also be moderate, you can follow.

When my family gives me invisible pressure, I want to complain, alas, it's normal for my family to give pressure, and my mother nags me every day when it's okay? Just don't take this seriously.

Make your own decisions about your own life!

You think remember it.

The family is all for your good, what will you do if you don't have money, child, don't be stupid, it's a fairy tale world, there is no money in this era, everyone is your uncle, and everyone who has money calls you uncle, so come on, it's not that you are under pressure alone, a lot of people are under pressure, we should be glad that we are able-bodied, and the most important thing is that we are alive.

Hehe, life is stressful, we have to learn to decompress, we can't blindly bear it, for example, you can climb the mountain when you are on vacation, ride a bicycle, and you can sing in your spare time. It is excellent for both body and mind.

You can ask for a few days to go out for a walk, do what you love, and have fun for a few days.

Give yourself a vacation.

Actually, it's good that you're past this time period, it won't be too long! Try to put yourself in a good mood.

Where does life come from without pressure, I sometimes think the same way as you, I also want to die, but we all have parents and families, it is not easy for them to raise you so big, are you willing to make them sad?

Because we are ordinary people, (people cannot live for themselves).

The same people in the family know that every day they have money, and they are annoyed to death every day.

How good it is to be rich, be content, boy.

Then go out for a walk and relax.

I feel the same way as you, I haven't been affirmed since I was a child, I used to struggle, and now I suddenly feel that they are right everywhere, and I am even a fault for living.

This is a necessary stage of life, and many young people nowadays have this kind of experience, and we can't have everything smooth sailing. It's normal to have heartache when you're out of love, and that feeling won't go away until you start a new relationship. If you still can't adapt to it after you work hard, then consider looking for another job!

It's normal for your parents to have invisible pressure, and they want you to do well. Now think seriously about how you want to go in the future, talk to your parents, tell them what you think, of course, you still have to improve yourself from all aspects, so many things to do, there is no time to heartache! Come on!

I like a quote for you: if you think you can, you can!

Children, live well, there are no parents in the world who don't love their children, but in different ways, there will be a generation gap between the two generations, and the perspective of the problem is different, so you may not feel their love for you. When you grow up, all the answers will be revealed.

Believe me, Chinese spoiling is really bad for children's growth, they think you are their private property, give them what they think is good, let children do what they think is right, but ignore the child's feelings too much. Believe me. They are well-intentioned.

They care about you so much that they will remember a lot of your stuff. When you learn to smile and accept everything, you will grow up. Don't refute too much.

Then you and they will be sad.

Child, I can tell you with great certainty that your mother and grandmother love you very, very much, but the way they express it, you can't accept it, you can talk to them, tell them what you think, I think they will improve, prepare for the college entrance examination with peace of mind, come on, I wish you the title of the gold list.

Take the exam well and give them a good score.

I hope that the first thing you can do is to change your mentality, parents are like this, live and evaluate when you are your own parents.

Our parents actually love it very much, but they can't express it. When you grow up and look back, you'll find out. Live, live well.

I belong to the type who doesn't talk to my family much, and I usually "report good news but not bad news". If you have a problem, you will choose a friend who is more similar to your own situation, and everyone will spit out and complain, so it will naturally be comfortable, and you will not expect others to solve the problem for you, that is, just talk about solving it. In fact, many people around me also have this mentality.

Everyone's outpouring is actually a kind of venting, but basically there is an expectation that the problem may still have to be faced by itself. Therefore, it is right to improve your problem-solving skills and find suitable channels to relieve stress.

If I encounter grievances and pressure at work, I will not confide in my family, and I personally feel that there is no need to let the family members bear this pressure and grievances.

If I encounter grievances and pressures at work, I will talk to my family, because I feel that my family is a place where I can fully confide my thoughts to the other party. If we can't even talk to our families, then who else in this world is worthy of us? Believe it.

Don't take the pressure to heart. Because of the pressure. It can make us feel bad.

Properly release the pressure. Find a place to travel. to soothe a bad mood.

Family members do not work in their own units, so interpersonal relationships and work content may not be clear. Sometimes you don't necessarily understand what you say, and you even have to criticize it based on your own judgment. It makes people listen to it even more annoyingly.

If things don't go well, I often complain to my parents, be coquettish, and ease my emotions.

I won't just report the good news and not the bad news, I will just resist myself and there is no other way.

If we have brothers and sisters, we can also talk to everyone about our situation, eat together, chat, complain about our own lives, and find that everyone's life is not easy, no one is special, how about it? Do you still feel that you are the most wronged and stressed? Our troubles are just a drop in the ocean.

People who are willing to take the initiative to communicate, regardless of their age, may find someone to nagging to relieve stress. And people who are unwilling to open themselves, even if they are old, may digest and resolve themselves without looking for people, including family members. Many people think that talking to family members is not necessarily the best option.

Parents are getting old, unconsciously we have become the pillar of the family, many times parents do not know much about the current situation, our grievances and pressure and parents will not have much effect, on the contrary, can only increase their troubles, so let those grievances stay in the heart. Parents want to see their children grow into a strong person who can reassure them and be independent. Let your parents' wishes come true.

The gap between parents' expectations of their children is too high and the actual situation of their children is too great, which causes a heavy burden to children.

Back to the psychological pressure to answer.

Today's children, since elementary school, under the "care" of their parents' hope for their son Jackie Chan, in the fierce competition between classmates, are burdened with heavy academics, in order to achieve the goal of being admitted to university, or even a famous university, day and night, buried in the boundless sea of questions, learning has long ceased to be a joy. Parents are also strict with their children, but they don't know that this kind of excessive demand for children has also become an important part of the psychological pressure of many teenagers. There was a junior high school girl who was very uncomfortable when she entered junior high school because of the change in the teacher's teaching methods and the change in her competitors, which led to a decline in her academic performance.

When the teacher asked her about the reason, she said bitterly: "For the first time in 17 years, I feel my own powerlessness, every time I see my parents' expectant eyes, I am very sad, I don't know what to do to meet my parents' requirements, and now, I am full of depression, trouble, sorrow, and anger, and I hate and fear when I see the book, and I really want to throw it out." ”

I feel very depressed at home, what do you think is the original.

1: Feeding family, children, housework, etc., running around for life day after day, no personal life; Back 2: Is there something in your home that you want to escape from in your heart;

3: I have been single for a long time;

Either way, you need to change your lifestyle, or change your habits. Give yourself a day off and get out and about.

Yes, people tend to come.

There are people who are like this, as soon as they go home.

Bai is one of a kind. Well, du is overwhelmed, you may be a zhi

A married man, dao or woman is talking and laughing with friends outside, and forgets everything, so when I return to the house, all the things, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, everything is overwhelming, and I can't breathe like a mountain on campus. So say that you don't report anything, don't go to your heart, do you live? Benefits, it's a day to want to be happy, and it's also a day to cry, so why live happily than five?

Where do you feel the pressure comes from?