What should I do if I don t have a personality with my girlfriend? 20

And if you don't come, you will separate, maybe you will know the existence of each other when you leave, otherwise let each other think calmly about these problems, whether you can stay together for a long time, you can't waste each other's youth and time, if you find out in the end that it's too late, there are examples around me.

He and his girlfriend have been together for almost 6 years, and now he is also proposing to break up, which woman who is about the same as your girlfriend can't cook, and he doesn't get it at all, and he doesn't have a good temper, he is an accountant, and now his age is also up, and his youth is gone, and the man is like you, he began to want to divide but didn't score, and the reason is that the girl is too withdrawn, so he is a relative (the family doesn't know that she has a boyfriend), so they used to be dependent on each other, and now the breakup girl is going to die or live, Otherwise, she said that she would never marry, and let him regret the pain he brought her, and the girl said that she had ruined her life and hated him to death, but they had been deadlocked and no one left, but they were not together, and became the most familiar strangers, and now they are still the same, he does his, and she is busy with her. The relationship is very bad (I don't know if it's true or not, but they did have a stalemate, and now they have been in a crisis phase) This thing is a long, long thing. Hope you make your decision!

After reading what you said, the landlord is already tolerant of her, and after the quarrel, you take the initiative to accommodate her and coax her, perhaps because your girlfriend is still young and her personality is not mature enough. You also have a lot of pressure at work, can you consider letting go of her and making your life easier? Be kind to yourself.

If you don't feel suitable, you should make a decisive choice, imagine that if you quarrel or encounter something unpleasant in the future, you will definitely think "how good it would be if it ended at the beginning", rather than regretting it at that time but irreparable It's better to end it now.

Either accommodate or separate!

Well, happiness is not something that can be done. When two people are together, they need to understand and tolerate each other. You say she loves you, but I think to love someone is to learn to be considerate of him, to care for him, to understand him, to support him.

On the issue of smoking, I don't like my boyfriend smoking, but I won't completely restrict him, due to the particularity of work, interpersonal relationships and other aspects, I still let him smoke appropriately!

You think you're together, you're not happy, and I think it's necessary for you to reconsider your relationship, but think about it carefully, and don't make decisions blindly! Maybe it's because they've been together for a long time, each other's shortcomings and deficiencies have been exposed, and if you can't accept it, you're unhappy, and you're depressed. It's better not to be together!

Separation, only temporary pain, not separation, lifelong pain.

Whether you want a long pain or a short pain, you choose.

I know a friend who is in the same situation as yours, his girlfriend runs away from home at every turn, and we used to try to persuade them. After that, it basically didn't matter. We're even getting numb up close, and sometimes we'll bet on the two of them when the woman will run back.

The people on the side are tired from looking at them!

Care more about her, and leave if you can't do it.