What is it like to give up custody?

I was desperate and couldn't raise my own children, but I still had to give up for various reasons.

Giving up custody is equivalent to throwing the child away, after all, it is a piece of my own heart, and I feel very uncomfortable and uncomfortable.

When two people are separated, no matter who the child follows, there will always be something missing, but as a father, I think that if the child's mother takes the child and the child calls someone else's father in the future, I will be very sad and regretful. With children, it will definitely be a lot harder, there is no doubt about it, whether it is remarriage, or work, it will be a lot more difficult, but difficulties do not mean that it is not feasible, we are all selfish, nothing more than to make ourselves easier, want to make ourselves less burdened, don't you? It's just that everyone needs to find a reason to convince themselves, that's all!

It's even worse than killing yourself, the feeling that life is worse than death, and you have lost your most important thing.

Although it was a last resort to give up, my heart hurt when I thought about it, and when I saw other children, I thought of my own children, and I burst into tears. When visiting the child and separating the child, the child looked at himself reluctantly, and the crying was the most helpless at that time, and the heart was like a knife cutting ......

Giving up custody always feels that the other party can't rest assured that they will raise themselves. I always feel that my child is not eating well, getting sick or encountering various problems. Nowadays, there are many natural and man-made disasters, and there are too many worries.

Relinquishing custody means that the child is raised by the other party and pays the child support himself. However, if the negotiation fails, you can file a lawsuit in court to claim a change in child custody.

There are those who have custody and those who are beaten to death and do not have custody. I know a friend whose divorce conditions are: divorce is okay, but he doesn't want children (sons), he doesn't give child support, and he wants the woman to give him tens of thousands of yuan, which is ruthless enough. The woman's father didn't say a word, and all agreed.

So everyone has it, you don't see it.

What kind of struggle did I have to make this decision, which shows that I really can't raise my children.

I deeply understand that I am very sad, I feel that life has no meaning, I have no motivation to live, and the future is even more confused.

I can't go to work with my children, what can I do to raise my children, it's not that I don't want children, but girls are in a vulnerable group.

Who would be willing to do this kind of thing to anyone, how can there be parents in the world who don't love their own flesh and blood.

Heartache, I can't eat or sleep well every day, the key is that he doesn't give me the child, and I can't raise it.

I now just choose to have a child or give up, because I have no financial ability, and in a first-tier city, his father is a strong and public official, but the child likes to follow me, and his father does not give much child support, his father is too ruthless to the child, and we don't even have a house.

I can't support it, and I want to cry in black and white like my child, and this feeling is extremely painful.

His mother left three children (all girls), the eldest was 10 years old, the second was 6 years old, and the third was 3 years old, and she ran away twice, in more than four months and six months respectively, and she put the three girls down at the age of eight months, without any news, without looking, and without child support, how should this mother comment on her.

Most men are ruthless, because men can't have children with anyone, and most women are soft-hearted, because women pay too much to have children.

The man didn't care about the family, I insisted on divorce, he insisted on custody, but he couldn't take it, or I brought it myself.

Who doesn't want to be with their children, and who can't bear to be separated. When you are helpless, helpless, and powerless, you are separated against your will, and all the pain can only be borne by one person, hiding in a no-man's corner and crying silently.

Living alone is chic, and it is too tiring to take care of a child

I remember that when my ex-husband gave up custody of his son, he said that the child would always grow up. The junior didn't want his own child, so he couldn't ask for it either. That's why I'm here to curse him, and I won't be able to raise a child.

What is the shame of those of you who ruthlessly abandoned your children? If I had been you, I would have died to atone for my sins. At least the last child you left behind was hated for not being done by you. This is also the only thing that those who are irresponsible can do. It's also the best way to make up for it.

Because I wanted to divorce at that time, he forced me to take custody of the child, and if I didn't divorce, I guess I would die......

Life is better than death, defeated by reality.

Relinquishment of custody? If there is no such thing, the child will never give it to me if he lives and dies!

I like to see what you say is very sad, but in fact, the thief in your heart is happy

Whoever will give up custody is a fool.

Legal Analysis: Both parties negotiate and voluntarily waive it.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1067:Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 1068: Parents have the right and duty to educate and protect their minor children. Where minor children cause harm to others, parents shall bear civil liability in accordance with law.

Article 1084:The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After the divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

After the divorce, children who are less than two weeks old shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Article 1085:After divorce, where one party directly raises a child, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.