What should I do now if I want to get my former lover back?

Updated on society 2024-07-07
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, many times this is the case, when we used to have it, it felt good, but we didn't think about what would happen to us after we lost, maybe you didn't feel anything when you lost it, but after a long time, when you look back on it, you feel very nostalgic. Sometimes feelings are like this, and only when they lose do they know how to cherish them. Since I haven't been in a relationship for a long time, strangeness is inevitable, but I believe that no matter how a person changes, some things will not change, and that is his memory of a person.

    So I think you should go with her to find that good feeling. But don't force it, if the other party doesn't dare to be interested, you can talk about your current life, feelings are out of plainness, achievement and blandness, and move her with your plain mood. People have feelings, and everyone needs to understand and be understood.

    Don't be discouraged, perhaps, what you need now is perseverance, and give him the kind of faith and hope that you love her. The girl is like this, she needs someone to take care of and cherish her, usually take care of each other more, and ask for warmth. Or occasionally send some funny text messages to adjust the atmosphere, chat not too dead, to seek innovation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't ask us!If you really love her, tell her, see what she says, it's what she says if she gives you a chance or not!Go ahead and ask, don't be silent.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you think too much, usually should be a special "thing" person, do what you want to do, think so much, girls are nostalgic, since you used to be lovers, there must be a lot of good memories, come on, chase girls and teach, just two: sincerity and responsibility.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore, and if you don't love him (her), what qualifications do you have to accuse Gao Qing of pointing out that he (she) changed his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is originally a short and brilliant feast in the lives of ordinary people. No matter what kind of love you have experienced, since you have broken up, please put away the sweetness and sorrow of the past, say goodbye to that luxurious journey, return to the ordinary, and continue to live on the original track.

    On the day of his death, his kindness to you can be taken back, but it cannot be invalidated, because you have owned it and will always be yours. What he gives to the next person is another good. You don't have to imagine how good he is to the next person.

    When a person has lived for a while, he gradually understands that if he is separated, he will not be able to control it.

    Love has life, old age, sickness, and death. When love is old, sick, and can't be cured, love will die. Love is going to die, it's time limit, why do we have to fall in love and refuse to let go?

    You can't be ignorant of the timing of everything, you just want to delay the deadline a little longer. Delay a little, it's still over.

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