We broke up last night, and she brought it up, and I want to redeem it now

How can emotional things be said clearly, even if you know that you will be hurt, you have no hesitation, if you want to redeem it, use your true feelings, tell her what she thinks, come on, no matter what the result is, as long as it is not because of a misunderstanding, there is nothing to regret, there are thousands of emotional results, all of them are beautiful, you must not be too entangled in ruining the beauty of the past, bless the lover.

When she said she broke up, she didn't love you anymore!!

Put it down! She has shown that she doesn't love you anymore. You will only suffer if you struggle, and she can't bear to hurt you. Don't be embarrassed for her.

No matter how much affection you have, you can't match the ruthlessness of the other party, and since your efforts are not rewarded, of course you don't want to face it. I think that's pretty good, since we're breaking up, we're going to break up completely.

It was right to block her, and since they had broken up, there was no need to contact. Her attitude is very firm, there is no possibility of recovery, she should learn to let go, adjust her mentality, and prepare for the next relationship.

It's normal to be sad, after all, you must have been together for a long time, and if you leave each other suddenly, you will definitely be sad, and you will be in a good mood, life is in the world, just do a good job in the moment, not that you can't live without each other.

Separated, what does it have to do with you, what do you panic about, you don't want to let go, just ask her directly if you want to know something. If you don't have a change of heart, move on with your future. What's the point of dwelling on these.

If you break up, you can still be friends, he often looks at your circle of friends, proving that he is still following you, and you don't want him to see your circle of friends, proving that you have let go of everything, and even friends don't want to do it with him.

In this case, it will be good to separate, and there is no possibility of being together again anyway, so let's get together and disperse, and get on with your life. Don't dwell on any of that, what's the point. Look ahead!

All good things come to an end; Gathering together is fate; Breakup friendship exists,.

If so, be resolute and don't hesitate to make a decision. Such a person is not worthy of your love, to be nostalgic. It's good to get together and disperse, and there will be loving people waiting for you ......

She keeps an eye on you once in a while as a friend. Don't be sentimental! Forget what should be forgotten. Start from scratch and boldly pursue your own love.

Why care about someone who has left you? It's not good to couple the wire, put it down and find a more suitable one for you.

You've put her down, that's good.

I think the way is – a good fight.

Seeing this question, I couldn't help but answer the question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years+, and the relationship has been very stable, if there is no accident, I should be able to enter the marriage hall smoothly. I think there are some experiences that can be shared to answer this question.

The most important thing between lovers is communication, communication, and communication.

There are many ways to communicate, and the common one is the usual chat, whether it is face-to-face or online, it is an effective way to communicate. But for me, I think the best way to communicate is to have a healthy quarrel every time there is a return, a return and a collision.

What is a healthy fight?

There are several characteristics of a good quarrel:

One. A healthy quarrel can release one's bad emotions.

I believe that many people have experienced cold violence, and some people even think that cold violence is more terrible than hot violence, and hot violence can at least have two people collide and touch; And cold violence makes you doubt yourself and escalates the contradictions.

Problems are always ignored and there is no time to solve them. A good quarrel can allow us to release our emotions and make the other party feel their grievances and dissatisfaction. Only with communication can there be a solution, and cold violence will only cover up one's emotions and make the conflict more fermented and worse.

Two. A benign quarrel allows us to see each other's character and three views better.

Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, and it is at this time that a person's behavior and morality can be better seen. In the early stages of a relationship, we will maintain a good image of each other in front of the couple, polite, beautiful and kind.

When our emotions are out of control, we can't help but expose our truest side, and irritable people can't restrain their tyrannical habits; Indifferent people are cold and violent towards you, refusing to communicate and ignoring you; The prodigal person turned around and complained to a confidant of Lan Yan or a confidant after a quarrel, and did not think of looking for you to solve the problem; People who don't care about you easily tell you ...... break up

Quarrels are a necessary test for couples, and a healthy quarrel is like a test paper to test the emotional problems between us. The unfit couple lost the test; And the right couple will only get to know each other better through testing, know that ** can be improved, and become more and more incompatible with each other.

Three. Benign quarrels can be retracted freely.

This is the most important point of a healthy quarrel. Clearly know that the essence of quarrels is to solve problems and get along better.

So no matter how fierce the quarrel is, how confrontational and disagreeable each other's points of view are, but because they know that they will not be separated, because they know that it is to solve the problem, they will all reconcile in the end. It's not a question of who bows his head first, it's that both of them know that the quarrel is to better run in with each other, so if they quarrel, they will take it back.

Chat communication on weekdays can certainly help us understand each other, but just like the answer can solve the problem, our reactions and practices when there is a quarrel can really let us understand each other more deeply.

May every couple be able to grasp every benign quarrel, and since they have chosen to hold hands, don't let go easily.

1 Once loved, once helpless, once owned, once lost, once made difficult choices, once young, once rushed, once drunk for you. Can anyone tell me what is right and what is wrong. This once very popular classic old song is still touching today, is the love you think is right or wrong?

2 Some people believe in wishful thinking, thinking that as long as they like each other more, as long as they love each other consistently, they will definitely be able to impress each other, and the other party will definitely like themselves, but feelings are not a person's wishful thinking, if the other party doesn't care about you, why bother?

3. When some couples fall in love, they love each other very much, they love each other very much, and they understand each other very well, but after a long time, they may also have aesthetic fatigue, and they no longer understand and understand each other, which will be followed by quarrels and cold wars, which will definitely affect each other's feelings.

4 Love is two people's hearts, not one person's wishful thinking, don't make yourself sad for the person who doesn't love you, the person who doesn't love you, no matter how good you are to the other party, the other party will not be tempted by you.

5. If the person you love happens to love you too, you must treat the person who loves you well, take care of your feelings with your heart, and love each other well.

6 For those who don't love you, you have to learn to forget, you have to give up bravely, you have to leave the other person's world, and you have to find your own happiness. When it comes to love, there is no right or wrong, only love or dislove. If you love each other, please cherish it, if you don't love, please leave.

There is an old Chinese saying, called "a loving mother loses many children", and this sentence is well confirmed in Di Ying, because Di Ying doted on her son too much, causing her son to do whatever he wanted, and was suspected of threatening to shoot American schools while studying in the United States. The cause of the incident was because Di Ying's son told his classmates not to come to school that day, because he was going to shoot the school, and after the incident was exposed, Di Ying also defended his son, saying that his son was just joking, but he didn't expect the police to really find bullets and guns in his room, and his son was imprisoned for this.

Big rabbit and baby rabbit walking together.

The little rabbit jumped up and said to the big rabbit, "I miss you." ”

Am I not right next to you? ”

Big Rabbit said. "But I still miss you. ”

The little rabbit stood on tiptoe, "I think about you every step I take, so no matter how long the road is, it will be easy to walk, even if the road is full of mud." ”

The big rabbit didn't speak, just continued to walk slowly.

Dude, don't force yourself If she's not testing you, if you're just blindly giving, let it go. She may not be worth it! Weakly ask, do you have feelings between you or only your feelings for her!

And what about what she does to you?

There's only one way: dead skin.

Maybe you didn't give her a sense of security, and if you really love each other, try to start from scratch.

There are times in life when there must be no time in life, and there is no time in life to force it.

- From the words, you can see that she herself wants to go down with you. She found that you are not suitable for it, and breaking up does not mean that there is no chance

I have no feelings for you, and the identification is complete. If you're not a stalker, break up.