Why do some people want to have confidantes?

If you want a person who understands her own heart and her own thoughts, and she doesn't have to be together to face those trivial things in life and contradictions in her feelings, and whatever difficulties and setbacks she encounters, she will comfort you and encourage you, and will not blindly complain about you, so a confidante is an ideal existence.

Men are good-looking, and they need to be cared for by women, but some couples are not like this, women feel that when the two are together, men should blindly be good to themselves, but they will not care for men. Men should work hard outside, but at home they also need the gentle love of women, since the lover can't give it, men will look for someone to talk to outside, because men also need someone to understand and love.

Confidantes are the spiritual sustenance of those men, and men often get spiritual comfort from them, give themselves encouragement, and let themselves be recognized and concerned. Sometimes spiritual care is more useful than material treatment, confidantes sometimes know themselves very well, but they can't live together, if they have a family, or don't have confidantes, it will destroy family happiness.

There are few friends, too few good friends, and very few intimate friends.

Confidante, also known as a pink confidant, is a female friend who is spiritually independent, equal in soul, and able to achieve deep resonance with you. It's not just an emotional trash can that makes you just talk about your troubles, or inThe outside worldThe nest where the bird is tired of returning after being hurt. Due to the particularity of men and women, it is known as a kind of "fourth type of feeling" that is free from family, love, and friendship.

The highest level of heterosexual friendship, it is relatively "dangerous", and once it cannot be controlled, it will cross the line into the love between men and women. The cunning man lets the woman foil herself, and the wise woman lets the man foil herself. A confidante is a beautiful background in a man's life, and the scenery is picturesque only for you.

A confidant is the most precious, rare, and coveted existence in a man's life.

The so-called confidante is a kind of spiritually higher than his wife, and the appearance of the confidante has taught a vivid lesson to the question of "whether there is friendship between men and women", and there is not only friendship between men and women, but also often stronger and deeper than friendship between people of the same sex; At the same time, it also gave a resounding slap in the face to the assertion that "there is only pure sexual relations between men and women", and it is completely possible for men and women to love without sex.

Although he will not fold the bed and quilt for him, cook and change clothes, he will give thoughtful and meticulous care and concern in spirit, and even manage men's words and deeds, moral sentiments, and ideal careers, understand the setbacks on the way forward for men, and soothe the wounds in men's hearts, which is not exactly what ordinary wives can do.

She doesn't possess you, but she has a heart-to-heart with you, a love connection, and a love connection, and can accompany a man for a lifetime, feeling this man's trust, gratitude and longing for her, and even love; She doesn't accept anything other than emotion, doesn't share your material things, but shares the joy of your success; They do not share in your household affairs, but they share in your pains and sorrows. "You are happy, I am happy", then you are satisfied.

It is generally used to describe a male friend who has a very good relationship with them.

A confidant is a confidant of the opposite sex, a confidant of the opposite sex is, this person knows you very well, and you think the same thing as you and do things like you.

Pink confidant, also known as confidant, is used between men and women to refer to an emotion known as the "fourth type of affection", which belongs to a kind of friendship between the opposite sex, but the scale is difficult to grasp, and it will evolve into the love between men and women if you don't pay attention to it.

Many people have confidantes, and the so-called confidantes represent the person who can share your happiness and happiness together, and who is willing to listen to you.

The meaning of a confidant is that a boy has a female friend who understands him very well, can understand himself very well, and has a lot of words in his heart that he will say to his confidante.

A confidante is a person who can understand his own heart, not about love, but a very noble friendship, that is, a person who knows himself better than himself and can confide in him.

The so-called confidante refers to the confidant of the opposite sex, but it is not a husband and wife relationship.

Therefore, not many people have confidants. Because, it is difficult to find a confidant, and it is even more rare!

The so-called confidante is a friend of the opposite sex who knows him very well, and the two of them can talk about everything.

This means that there is a common topic, you can have a better chat, you can get to know each other better, you are a very good person to talk to, and the relationship between two people is very good.

There are many people who have confidants, and this relationship is not normal. After all, I am married, and I already have a commitment to my wife, and it is understandable if I am young, and I can't ignore my previous friends because I have a partner. This kind of behavior will only hurt former friends.

Learn to grasp the scale and always put your wife first. Make other friends, and also take your wife to meet these people, then your wife will naturally not be jealous, if the man repeatedly puts the confidante in the first place, then slowly, the confidante will also replace the status of the original match. So let's find out!

First, why do many people nowadays have confidants?

There are two main reasons why there are confidants, the first point is that interpersonal relationships have become complicated, and there are many things that I always have reservations about when I say them to my wife, and I am afraid that I will not be able to accept them. However, when I say it, the other party can understand their own minds very well, and they may not really have each other, so they will have some good feelings for each other, and try to think from each other's point of view. When a man has a good relationship with his wife, he will also find a confidante, which means that he is an extremely insecure person who needs to get all kinds of relationships in order to establish a connection with the world.

This is extremely sad.

Second, is this relationship really normal?

This kind of relationship is not normal, if you meet true love, you will never have a confidante, other women are a passing moment for him, even ordinary friends don't want their wives to be angry, put their wives' feelings in the first place, only when there are cracks in the relationship, confidantes will appear next to men. If you want to change this situation, your wife must reflect on her own shortcomings, is there anything inferior to the other party? Give others a chance to exploit loopholes.

In short, whether you are single or in a relationship, you should maintain a certain sense of boundaries. Don't cross the line at will, because people must have a sense of morality to be worthy of the current relationship.

Because many people only think that this is a good friend who has similar interests, supports and trusts each other, and has nothing to do with gender, this kind of relationship is quite normal. Expressions such as red face and blue face are just a bit of banter and ridicule because of the identity of the opposite sex, but they are not much different from the friends they see every day.

Like-minded and know each other. A real confidante has nothing to do with gender. Two people have the same interests and hobbies, they are in love with each other, they can talk about the world, exchange work and study, and even help each other, encourage and support each other.

Such good friends are rare and precious. Confidante is a title imposed on friends of the opposite sex by the outside world, confidant only represents female identity, and confidant represents mutual understanding. If everyone is happy and happy together, and they are naturally relaxed when they get along, then the value and meaning of being friends have been realized.

A confidante is a normal friendship. When many people mention confidantes, they think it's a not very good word. They don't believe in true friendship between men and women, and confidantes seem to have become synonymous with "crush relationship" and "ambiguous relationship".

It is true that some people will approach the person they like under the pretense of being a confidante, so that the other party can take off their guard and accept the existence of a girl by their side. But this is not a real confidante at all, it just uses the word to achieve personal selfish obsessions, which also causes prejudice among the public. If you look at confidantes sensibly, you will find that this is a normal relationship.

Just because the other person is a woman, it is not normal to look at it with colored glasses.

Therefore, in the face of your boyfriend's confidante, you must learn to analyze rationally and face it correctly. Wait for a deeper understanding of the daily life of the two of them, as well as the reasons for the establishment of the relationship, and then go to the boyfriend to put forward their thoughts. If others are really just good friends, too much attention will seem stingy, and it will also destroy friendship and trust between lovers.

Because many people have a lot of pressure in their lives now, and they need someone to understand themselves and need their own space. This relationship is normal.

The reason why many people have confidants now is because they have special inner needs, and it is also because their beliefs are not firm enough; This relationship is not normal, because it is likely that over time, the two people develop into other relationships.

This is a kind of emotional cultivation, when others encounter difficulties, there will be friends to enlighten themselves, so that a deep emotional friendship will be formed. Such a relationship is normal.

Nowadays, people have certain psychological needs, need someone to understand themselves, and they are usually under great pressure. This kind of relationship is very normal.

The confidante is also named the pink beauty, this relationship is built on the spirit and soul to do the shooting, refers to a female friend in thought, consciousness, including personal values, on a horizontal line, this relationship is very delicate, but also like another self! Such a person is hard to find! But we need to pay attention to two points in the handling of relationships:

1.The relationship is delicate, encourage and grow with each other, and you can't cross the line, once you cross the line, it will develop into a relationship between men and women, and eventually hurt each other!

Friends of the opposite sex can talk to each other Sometimes people are usually not good friends in the couple's relationship. Generally speaking, the so-called confidant is a kind of love that is spiritually higher than that of a wife, a kind of thought and feeling that cannot live together. In life, there is often a confidant.

It has been said that a confidant is what every man wants and every woman hates. What kind of relationship does a confidant mean? For confidants, Cihai is a kind of love that is spiritually higher than that of his wife.

When you talk about the reality of having a confidante in reality, it refers to a female friend who has a man, can talk about everything, resonates with each other and is very confidant, and Hongyan refers to a beautiful woman, and now it also refers to adult women, generally not in a romantic relationship, but a living confidant, most people will think of another woman, a man carrying his wife outside his back. The difference between him and his wife is nameless, and their relationship is ambiguous. A confidant and a friend who can't live in an intimate relationship with a man.

She could be the girlfriend of a man, a wife, an elder, an offspring, or even a woman in another relationship. Trustees can be summoned; A female confidant can be a male girlfriend, a wife, an elder, or an offspring.

Even women who have other relationships. There will be a little more of a relationship between them than friends and a little less than that of lovers. At the same time, it is distinctly different from ambiguity. Usually, it should be the relationship between an ordinary friend and his lover or wife.

A confidante is actually a good friend of the opposite sex for men, two people say everything, and the two are the kind of relationship between them who are not in love and have more than friends.

It refers to a very close relationship with friends, and also refers to their own friends, because these friends know themselves very well and pay great attention to themselves.

refers to his lover, and now there is no so-called confidante, nor a so-called friend of the opposite sex, but an ambiguous relationship.

A confidante is a special relationship, more to describe a kind of friendship between men and women, and it is a confidant relationship based on a red face. Hongyan usually refers to women, so "confidante" is also mostly used for friendships between men and women. This relationship emphasizes the communication and understanding of each other's hearts, and does not involve emotional entanglements and gender distinctions.

Sometimes, it can also be called a confidant of the opposite sex. As a relatively rare friendship, the significance and value of confidantes lies in the fact that they receive mutual attention and support emotionally, but do not generate the pressure and burden of love and intimacy.

The importance of confidantes is that they are usually our close friends and trusted partners who can share our secrets and troubles without emotional stress and burden. Friendships between confidants are usually pure, deep, and free from the troubles of other relationships. They share joys and sorrows together, and walk through the bits and pieces of life together, which is a story that we will never forget.

In addition, confidantes also provide us with another perspective and way of thinking about problems, helping us to better understand life and life.

Although confidantes are not a special relationship that everyone has, however, when we meet such a person, we should cherish and maintain this friendship in time. It should be reminded that confidantes are not the same as "ambiguous relationships", and we should maintain this friendship with a high degree of clarity and responsibility, and avoid misunderstandings and hurts from the other party. In this kind of relationship, we need to be clear about our bottom line and principles, and avoid crossing red lines and affecting each other's feelings and mutual trust.

Therefore, it is very important to maintain the friendship relationship of confidantes, good communication and mutual respect. When infiltrating the same group, you need to strengthen your sense of self-protection and not let yourself be emotionally hurt and troubled. <>