One day at a time, one day at a time, what should a fickle person be liked?

Great wisdom is foolish, overflowing in words, humble and elegant, full of economy, and talented.

1. Great wisdom is foolishness.

Vernacular interpretation: It is also said that great wisdom is like foolishness.

Source: "He Ouyang Xiu Zhi Shiqi": "Brave and cowardly; Wise as foolish. ”

Translation: Very bold and unobtrusive, on the surface it seems to be timid, very wise but not sharp, on the surface it seems to be very stupid.

Second, overflowing with words.

Vernacular Definition: It refers to the profound connotation and rich thoughts and emotions that are fully revealed through the words, even more than the words themselves.

Dynasty: Eastern Han Dynasty.

Source: "Hanshu Dongfang Shuo Biography": "Overflowing in words, what is the comparison? ”

Translation: How can we compare the profound connotation and rich thoughts and emotions that surpass the words themselves?

3. Be humble and humble as a valley.

Vernacular Definition: Describes being very humble and accommodating to other people's opinions.

Dynasty: Warring States.

1.Chameleon.

2.Maxima.

3.A wolf in sheep's clothing.

It shows that you don't have your own opinions, and if you don't change the status quo, you will achieve nothing in the future, the main reason is that you don't have self-confidence, and you are worried about everything, this kind of character hurts others and hurts yourself

Change with each passing day.

rì xīn yuè yì )

Explanation ] different: different. It is updated day by day, month by month. Describe the rapid development and change, and the emergence of new things and new atmosphere. Also known as "changing with each passing day".

Source] Song Lin Jingxi's "Jishan Collection": "The gold and saga, changing with each passing day, is not only the teacher's ability. ”

It should be understood as "overwhelming" or "advancing with the times", right?

Everyone's personality is different, everyone has a different living environment, family, parents, genes, etc., and subjective and objective factors determine that everyone's personality is different. It's hard to find a soulmate or a good friend who really understands us, because he can't put himself in your shoes, it's hard, right? Genes should be the most basic factor, but their environment will create their different lives, people's outlook on life and values are also established with their genes, family environment, and social environment, so their approach is their approach, which may be very different from ours or we don't like or can't accept it, which is also determined by each independent person's personal space, we can't interfere with their behavior, nor can we decide their behavior, if you don't like it, you may have less contact or don't care, which makes him look the same every day!

This shows that this person is very smart, but the reality is that "action is greater than thought": having a good idea and then putting it into action is the prelude to success.

First of all, having a lot of ideas can only prove that people have their own independent thinking ability, do not follow the crowd, and have their own ideas and goals, but because they don't know the essence of things or don't have enough confidence to implement ideas, they often change ideas!

When an idea appears, it suddenly turns out that it is not very well implemented, or there are some factors that can overturn these ideas, so you have to change to the next one, etc., you don't have enough confidence to practice and study, it's too superficial!

Therefore, for this kind of person, it should be necessary to practice a lot, to do things from the beginning to the end, to start and finish well, and slowly change this situation of excessive dynamic changes!!

99% sweat is not only the time and energy paid, but also a more important premise, that is: to have progress, breakthroughs, and dare to eat crabs. In their eyes, every success is the result of learning, not a simple proof of ability.

Therefore, they are not afraid of failure. Who can grow all the way to the finish line? I'm afraid it's hard for the gods to do it.

In the eyes of "rigid" people, it represents the failure of the denial of ability, but it is the progress in the eyes of "growth" people. They will review the cause, learn from it, and start all over again. And will not refuse to try again because of "fear of failure".

Just like Edison mentioned above, in order to invent the filament, he did 50,000 experiments and wrote more than 150 notebooks alone. Each time, we carefully summarized the experience of failure, and then formulated the next test plan, and finally achieved success.

The emotions of the family are very unstable, and they change every day. This may have something to do with his personality. His personality traits are unstable.

It can also be due to menopause or puberty. You see what stage he is in. It could also be poor sleep and rest.

He is more irritable and easily exposed. Fickle. After finding the cause, prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem, this will not solve the problem.

This may be a lot of factors affecting his mood, you can go to them may be angry because of unsatisfactory work, physical discomfort, or menopausal syndrome, you can talk to them when they are in a good mood, understand why they are in a bad mood, and then comfort and enlighten. If it is a spouse, be more considerate and caring for him or her, ask if there is something unhappy or something else, and then do something about it. Siblings should communicate more, be considerate of each other, and help each other.

Home is a big society, treat everyone around you well.

Recommended for those who are irritable:

Broaden your mind and vision, look at problems with a long-term vision, and be good at seeing the positive side of people and things.

Communicate and talk to others more often, talk about stress and troubles appropriately, and solve problems together.

Learn to empathize, learn to take care of the feelings of others, and be more considerate of the hardships and difficulties of others.

When you are upset, you can do outdoor activities to breathe, distract your mind, and change your brain.

When you have free time, you should read some inspirational, etiquette, literature and history books to improve your cultivation level.

If the problem is serious, it is recommended to consult a psychologist, including a Chinese medicine doctor, for comprehensive conditioning.

It's best to talk to a psychiatrist if necessary.

The emotions of the family are very unstable, and they change every day. When encountering such a situation, we must do a good job of ideological work and have a good talk with him.

It is necessary to give 2 points for 29 times, 268435456 points for the 30th day, and a total of 536870911 points for 30 days.

You were copied by the Martians.

It is possible to use idioms:

Change with each passing day. Pinyin】 rì xīn yuè yì

Explanation ] different: different. Renewed during the day and changed at night. Describe the rapid development and change, there are new changes every day and night, and new things and new atmosphere are constantly appearing. Also known as "changing with each passing day".

Examples] The art of teaching is also adopted by the great powers of the law, and the books of textbooks. Qing Wu Zhaoren's "Painful History: Original Narrative".

Usage] as a predicate, object, and definite; Refers to a large variety.

synonyms] A thousand miles a day, advancing with each day.

Antonyms] immutable, self-contained.