In love, only good enough is worthy of love, do you agree?

Disagree.

In real life, it will be relatively easy for those excellent people to find a partner, but this does not mean that only excellent people deserve love.

Love has nothing to do with external conditions. Although some people in real life are very good, such as high education, a stable job, an annual salary of millions or tens of millions, and even successful entrepreneurs, they may not necessarily deserve love, because such people may not have so much sincerity in the face of love, they are more concerned about the interests of reality. In addition, after they form a family with a person, they may spend most of their time on their careers, and they have no more time to take care of the family, and we cannot think that they deserve love because they have good external conditions.

If you love them just because they are on good terms, such love is insincere. Love is a feeling of affection, when you really like a person, you will not look at his external conditions, if you like him because his external conditions are good, this kind of love is not pure love, this can only be regarded as a calculation at most, not love.

If a person who is not excellent has a sincere heart, he also deserves love. People who take their feelings seriously deserve love, although some people have bad external conditions, but they treat their lovers' feelings very sincerely, they will treat one party sincerely after being with a person, and will never be half-hearted in the relationship, let alone do something sorry for the other party. After they form a family with a person, they will also do their best to pay for the family and become a person who takes care of the family, and he will not dislike each other after the object is sick.

Although such people are not as good as other people in terms of material conditions, their attitude towards feelings is impeccable, how can such people not deserve love. Everyone has the right to love, and the idea that only the best are worthy of love is too materialistic.

I don't agree, there is no good or bad in love, and there is no level of education, as long as two people like each other and tolerate each other enough, they will be very happy.

I don't agree with this sentence, even if you are not good enough, there will be someone who loves you, and you will get enough love.

I don't agree with that, I don't think everyone is good, isn't it true that people who are not excellent are not eligible to be loved, and people who are not excellent are also loved.

<> "It's not only good that you deserve to be loved.

1. Many times, in the face of some unsatisfactory trivial things in life, our mentality will become bad uncontrollably and dissatisfied with our current situation. When we are in this unhappy state for a long time, it is most likely because we have fallen into a state of stagnation and self-doubt in life. So much so that this state has spread to life.

It's as if it's easy to get caught up in the little things, which in turn leads us to feel more anxious. A lot of people are the same, and everyone just can't like themselves consistently.

When you do a good job, you feel great, like yourself for a while, and then at the next moment when you mess things up, you start a new round of fast core self-loathing. Even those who seem to us to be good enough can still toss and turn anxiously because they don't live up to what they think is "good."

In fact, many times, we have these feelings because of the environment, which in turn affects our own psychological feelings. Many times, we are forced to be affected by our environment. To a large extent, self-satisfaction is also based on what kind of love you get.

Those who have been loved unconditionally are able to be themselves more at ease, and they have a greater sense of security deep inside.

2. In the eyes of too many people, only continuous success can bring more sense of identity. However, if you don't understand the real reason for this, the achievement of multiple people is nothing more than a drink to quench your thirst in terms of increasing satisfaction. The reason why some people don't like themselves is not because they are not good enough in something, but because they fall into a psychology of "only excellent people are worthy of love".

The sense of security that this kind of psychology brings is extremely unstable, because if there is a mistake, the self-identity that has been built up with great difficulty will turn into self-aggression.

It's not that hard to like yourself from the bottom of your heart. After figuring out the internal reasons mentioned above, live your life and don't blindly compare yourself to others. Understand that everyone can be loved unconditionally, and give yourself a sense of security in your heart.

If you want to achieve something, make a detailed plan and move forward step by step, without having to be tormented by all kinds of complicated emotions every day. Learn to be a rational, gentle, and determined person, and don't rush to blame yourself if you still can't be calm.

It's okay, it's still young, let's take our time.

3. Time flows through everyone in the same way, while everyone spends time in different ways. The days are so ordinary, but there are small things, like the broken rays of the sun, sprinkled on them.

Don't hate the world because you've been hurt; And don't give up on yourself just because you've been questioned. You have to remember that you are always worthy of love. Believe that the stars will speak, the stones will bloom, and after passing through the wooden fences of summer and the wind and snow of winter, you will finally arrive.

Put away today's worries, hang up the moon, and get a good night's sleep. The tenderness of life will always "click" into your arms.

Of course, this is not true love, because anyone will love very good people, this is human nature, if you are full of shortcomings, and this person still loves you, that is true love.

It's because you love you because you're excellent, it's not true love, it's just admiration for liking your excellence, don't like you as a person, if you love someone, you have to love his shortcomings and his advantages, only love his advantages, such love will not last long.

I don't think it's true love, real love, no matter what you look like, he loves you because everything in you is good in his eyes.

I don't think this is true love, there will always be a bad fortune in a person's life, and no one can guarantee that they will always be so good. Because you are excellent to love your person, one day when you are no longer excellent, he will no longer love you, the real appearance of love, should be the sharing of honor and disgrace, common weal and woe, advance and retreat together, and support each other.

This is certainly not true love, real love is knowing that you have many shortcomings, but still choosing to love you.

I think it's real love, because you are good enough to be able to attract him, excellence is your capital, you should make yourself better and look forward to better love.

This is true love, a person loves you because of your excellence, which means that he admires you from the bottom of his heart and respects you, and this kind of love can last longer.

I don't think it's real love, real love, whether you're good or not, beautiful or not, will fall in love with you, they will look at your inner beauty.

I think this is also true love, because of your excellence that attracts him, so he is willing to pay for you sincerely.

Loving you must be that you are excellent, and no one likes to mix badly. Both men and women are like this, looking up, envying the strong, and they all like the excellent and capable.

Why do you make him love you? Because there's money? Because of beauty?

Because you are a little sad because we are afraid to pay. In fact, we will always be loved because we are good in something, in fact, we should be happy no matter what we are loved, after all, it shows that God still treats us well.

If you are good enough, you will always meet more excellent people, and you will also meet the most suitable love for yourself. When you don't work hard and choose to give up on yourself, your love will definitely not take the initiative to come to the door, only if you work your own, make yourself better, and make your inner world richer, so that you can get the love you want mostTherefore, no matter whether you get the love you want now, you must not give up on the road to making yourself better.

I'm not a very good person myself, and the people around me are friends at the same level as me, so I've been willing to fall and not want to make progress, until I met my current boyfriend, who was just a friend of mine at the time, he was sunny and handsome, especially like fitness, and he likes to go to the library when he has nothing to do, and go to read books on weekendsI sometimes go to the library with him to read books, and it's really quiet.

After staying with him for a long time, I will find that my knowledge is too scarce, and I don't know a lot of things, I made up my mind to improve my connotation, bought a lot of books to read, and the more knowledge I came into contact, the more I felt that I was a frog at the bottom of the well before, and then he said some current affairs news, as well as sports, magazines, etc., I can discuss it with him, and then he confessed to me,We are together as a matter of course, so when you are good enough, love will automatically come to your door, and you must work hard to improve your thinking, so that even if you have no love for the time being, at least knowledge will not disappear.

If you should work hard to improve, don't give up on yourself, making yourself good enough is the smartest way, whether you can get love or not, and knowledge is always your own.

Not necessarily, love needs to be cultivated by two people, run together, have a common language, and excellence is only a part.

If you are good enough, you will definitely increase your chances of meeting love, because it will usher in a lot of admiration for you, and you will also meet better people.

Not necessarily, some excellent people have an arrogant personality, are difficult to get along with, and will not be favored by girls.

I'm sure I'm going to get love. Only if you are good enough can you attract better people to love you.

Love is not good enough to have love. The most beautiful relationship in the world is to love and be loved, and give to each other relatively.

There are a lot of people laughing with you, because it's easy:

But there are very few people to cry with you, because it is difficult.

The person who laughs with you, maybe suddenly, turns around and tramples on it at will, and smashes that true heart in front of you to show you.

The person who cries with you, but picks it up carefully, because he knows the sound of heartbreak.

The road ahead is difficult, life is also bitter, with people who feel sorry for you, the hard days are also sweet.

No matter what happens, there will be someone who is willing to support you and be the wall between you and suffering.

Sincerity is the most rare.

Not necessarily, if you are good enough, you may get love, but if you are not good, you must not get love, in fact, love mainly depends on fate, and it has little direct relationship with how good a person is.

Not necessarily! If you are good enough, love will come, but it is not clear whether people are compatible or not, and they all have to go through running-in.

If you are good enough, you can get the love you want, at least you can have the right to choose, but love needs a heart-to-heart connection, and love cannot be bought with money.