Why do people like to base their happiness on the pain of others?

I am happy to see others sad, which is caused by a typical inferiority complex, because I am not confident enough, and I can't produce a sense of achievement and happiness by making myself strong, so I will meet my inner shortcomings through other ways and channels, such as seeing others fail, low, and encounter difficulties, so that I can find a trace of comfort and satisfaction in my heart, so as to balance my inner inferiority complex and weakness. Therefore, such people are usually extremely happy in their hearts when others are frustrated and miserable! On the contrary, when others are proud of their success, their hearts are very depressed and uncomfortable, which will aggravate their inferiority complex.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Because they are all egoists who don't think about others. But it depends on who does what they do and what they do, and what they are happy about, and what others are suffering. If the person does this often, it is self-interest, thinking only about oneself and not about others.

These people don't think about other people's feelings, they just want to be happy and happy. I don't think about what others think, whether I can accept it, or anything like that.

I can't understand that others just need to eat it themselves!

Summary. The meaning of this sentence is: The happiness you get is exchanged for my pain, that is, your happiness is to use the pain in my heart as a bargaining chip.

It embodies the emotional coldness between people and the despicable character of a person, and each of us must be kind to people in life and work. Don't base your own interests and happiness on trampling on the pain of others, think about the problem from the perspective of others sincerely, and don't damage the interests and feelings of others, so that you can get the respect and trust of others!!

The meaning of this sentence is: The happiness you get is exchanged for my pain, that is, your happiness is to use the pain in my heart as a bargaining chip. Reflecting the coldness of the emotions between people and the despicable character of a person, each of us must be kind to people in life and work.

Don't build your own interests and happiness on the pain of trampling on others, you must sincerely consider the problem from the perspective of others, and don't damage the interests and feelings of others, so that you can get the respect and trust of others!!

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They all laughed and laughed for ten years, and they were sad and old.

But we can't base our happiness on the suffering of others, which is neither immoral nor truly happy. As the saying goes, do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

When others are already unhappy, you should comfort them, or watch them silently and don't add fuel to them, which will make them sneer at you. I think you're too bad to be a good person.

Why is there the word schadenfreude, which means that we feel very happy as bystanders when we see others suffering, and to put it bluntly, I am relieved to see that you are not happy.

I don't understand, what kind of psychology this is. You have to hate this person to have such mental activity.

For example, if you make a mistake one day, the people in the office may use your matter as a talking point and talk about it.

Does that really make sense? Is it really fun to do this? If they were themselves, others would be very uncomfortable with them. If you don't feel good about yourself, why do you want to inflict it on others?

There are many ways to be happy, but you can choose to get up in the morning and smile in the mirror, although there is some nervousness.

But it's also a really good way. You can go shopping for a favorite outfit, go to a city you've been planning for a long time, have a dessert, go to a movie, go out with friends, or even stay at home and play games and sleep well.

Don't base your own happiness on the pain of others.

Your ridicule may be like an extremely sharp knife cutting deep into the heart of others, causing great harm to others, and you don't feel it. The most ridiculous thing is that sometimes, in fact, you are not qualified to laugh at others at all, you laugh at others precisely because of your self-righteousness, in the same way, have you ever thought that others may have already discovered your n faults, and others do not laugh at you because they are kind.

We should not judge a person's faults arbitrarily, and we should not spread it as a joke to others, which is against conscience.

Just like why the zoo prohibits feeding and eating animal food, from the animal's point of view, the food you feed casually may cause harm to them, you feed it happily, and the animal is the one who suffers in the end.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

My happiness is built on other people's pain, question, you are too humorous. Normal should be. My happiness is not based on the suffering of others.

Everyone is happy. This should be a manifestation of a big ego. Then the expression of the ego is my happiness, and only I should know best.

Or maybe my happiness doesn't have much to do with others. It's called solitary fun. The unhealthy performance of selling is that one's own happiness is based on the pain of others.

This is a mental health problem or an abnormality.