can t accept all the things of the future mother in law, do you want to continue this relationship?

First, I don't think you're bad yourself, why do you have to find a second marriage with children. In the eyes of secular people, this kind of thing is not popular with women, at least your future mother-in-law will think that you have a plan, otherwise which good girl is willing to be a stepmother to others.

Second, if you have a very good relationship with your boyfriend, in fact, you are not afraid, you just need to be good to the children, your boyfriend, and the elderly, just do it, the old lady is so old, even if she has to take care of it, how long can she manage it. In fact, the old man is very worried, and he is afraid that his son will not find a daughter-in-law, and he is afraid that his daughter-in-law will come in the door to his granddaughter, and he is afraid that you will have a plan, and he will treat you like that.

Third, if you are my child, I will definitely not agree to you marrying into such a family, because it is too complicated, with your age and experience, I am afraid that it will be difficult to weigh all kinds of feelings and balance all kinds of relationships in the future, and it is not fair to you, there are many good men in the world, why do you have to find such a thing. Marriage is very practical, it's not as simple as you think, even if it's your own child, you have to quarrel one day, this child is very well-behaved now, and in the future, your husband will defend you now, after marriage.

Encountering a relationship is precious.

What is the motivation behind all the future mother-in-law.

If your future daughter-in-law can't accept you as a mother-in-law, will you still support your son to continue to love your future daughter-in-law?

The final choice is yours.

Give up, or you'll have nightmares all the time.

Every old man is a little nagging, but you will also get old! Sometimes family affection cannot be chosen, you can only slowly adapt and run in! If you were your own mother, would you have a choice? The biggest factor is whether you like your current boyfriend or not?

Don't live together, for everyone to be happy.

Give up, you're not motivated to keep going, and there's still a long way to go.

I'm in a similar situation to you, except that I'm engaged. I also want them to be good to me, and I am good to them, but unilaterally is useless. Anyway, I resolutely don't get married until they change, so as not to sit on the cold bench in the future.

1. You must determine whether the man loves you or not.

2. After getting married, the in-laws are the parents, and they must be filial, so you should weigh it yourself.

3. Only good people can be blessed, and what kind of realm you encounter in this life depends on your own actions.

My sister is also afraid that you will be wronged if you marry in the past. If you can't communicate well, you will definitely have a lot of trouble in the future. You have to be careful!

It's better to divide it, this kind of man waits for you to marry the guilty one

If you don't have a firm determination to handle this relationship in the future, it's better not to get married than to be uncomfortable in the future, but no matter how you marry anyone, you have to face your mother-in-law.

It's not good for you to think this way, your mother-in-law will love you, she will treat you like a daughter, and then you love someone to include his family, which is a must

It is a disease, and it must be cured... Just think about what your future daughter-in-law will think of you. You women do this to women, what do you let the men do. Are you angry at both ends?

Your relationship with your mother-in-law will affect your later life. Be sure to take care of it. If you don't handle it well, you won't be happy in the future, and it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Look at whether the contradiction is big, so old, and the aunt is still so cautious. There are also men, and some will change when they get married. Not married, just fresh. After the freshness period, it will be cold. So think about it yourself

Have you talked to your husband? It's best to talk to him and see what he has to say.

Have you ever lived with your boyfriend or mother-in-law?

Love is not forever, you love deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day in the future, he just arrived at this day one step earlier than you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in the memories and gently gaze at the withering tenderness! When he doesn't love you, my dear, please take a deep breath, the road of life is paved with flowers of love, there is always one that belongs to you, this is not to comfort you, but, this is destined for life!!

If you feel it, you can continue, learn more about each other and your family in the relationship, and at the same time push yourself well in the relationship.

How old are you?

How old is the man?

What does the man do?

What his parents do.

Your future mother-in-law is not good to get along with.

How's the character?

What is the monthly income.

Do you have a house or a car?

You've got to figure it all out.

Then think about the relationship with him.

It's a bit more reliable this way.

I hope you guys have good results, really. However, long-distance relationships are painful, difficult to have results, and neither party can shake their determination to be together. I used to be like you, and in the past few years, a lot of difficulties have come through.

All kinds of insistence, but then they separated, and the reality is always cruel. I think you know the answer in your heart!

Tired. You can't hang yourself from a tree, can you? Moreover, this tree may not be able to withstand it.

You can try to adjust your mentality, why do you want to push yourself so hard.

In fact, you know that you shouldn't continue, but you are unwilling.

A man without a sense of responsibility is not a good man!

He's not ready to be responsible for you, or he doesn't have the idea of being responsible at all.

Another reason for a typical excuse for a person who is not responsible is that he doesn't love you.

He said it so clearly, why do you want to continue with him?

I don't know if he has ever been sorry for you in your 3 years of relationship, or if you have ever been sorry for him. After reading your story, I don't know what happened to you before, but in what you said about him, I found that he is a person who loves you very much, at least he cut off your fingers for you, how painful it is to cut off your fingers, how can you bear it as an ordinary person, why does he cut off your fingers? I'd love to know why.

For your relationship, I think age is a big problem, I really don't know what kind of mentality you had to accept him who is 9 years older than you in the first place. You're worried that your chances of being together in the future are slim, and you're right, not to mention that he will delay the marriage for you, and will your family agree to the marriage? Now the legal age of marriage for women is 22 years old, I don't know if I'm mistaken, if I'm not mistaken, when you reach the legal age of marriage, he will be 31 years old, for men, 31-year-old people don't get married, I always think it's unlikely, unless it's the kind of person who can't find a partner or doesn't plan to get married.

Also, what I want to say is, if you marry him, how can you have no future, and you don't want to marry him immediately, there is a transition period for marriage, even if you get married, you still have the right to freedom before you have no children, and you will not have the privilege of taking care of children for the time being. In addition, I would like to ask you, do you think your relationship is the kind of mutual sincerity? The 3-year love period is not short, but it is not so long, because sometimes the love period is super short, and it seems to happen yesterday when you recall it.

I want you to think about this matter seriously, I have to say that you initially accepted that it was a mistake, since the mistake exists, it must be solved, for this matter, please do not drag the mud and water, but quickly cut through the mess, otherwise it will hurt everyone. In this story, you mention that you tend to only think about how sorry you are for him, why don't you think about how good he is, think about the good times you had together (of course, this is what you choose to think about with him). If you don't want to delay yourself and others because of him, please end this relationship immediately after a long pain is better than a short pain.

To be honest, your breakup will cause him a lot of damage, after all, this relationship period is a bit long, and it will take time to slowly ** the wound in his heart.

I'm the same as you I recently liked a man who was 7 years older than me I had a crush on him for a long time I thought about it a lot I knew very well that I couldn't give him anything I couldn't give him himself His relationship was premised on marriage I didn't fit in No matter how much I liked him I wanted to give him a lot But I didn't have the ability Because I love him So I don't want to drag him down Even if I'm really with him A few years later I separated from him So who will pay for his and my youth in those years Me? He? None of us can But I confessed anyway I made it very clear I love him But I won't be with him Although I will be in pain Maybe I will see him holding hands with someone else There are children But I know very well that I am doing this for his good So I think enough is enough to love someone You don't have to be with him Loving him silently is also a way I won't say how much you feel for him and how he feels for you No one can insure it for this thing Be ruthless For you to love him In order to be worthy of his kindness to you Maybe after many years he will remember that you will smile I fell in love with such a sane girl back then, girl, I wish you happiness.

The gap between ideals and reality is still quite far.

Subjectively, you have feelings for him. However, how much affection do you have for him, is there no doubt, "I can die for you", I think you will. Then again, how much affection he has for you, and whether he is as firm as you are to him in the midst of so many impossibilities among you, is a matter that needs to be carefully considered, because it is still not worth it.

Objectively, his interests are not good, his personality is not good, and your family and friends persuade you to break up for your own good. If he is richer, then his interests will not be a problem, and his personality will be fine as long as you don't dislike it. If he doesn't have any money, then it's really hard to say what will happen in the future.

Don't doubt it, just break up. It's purely for you, and as for him, the superfluous conscience now is only a prelude to future tragedies.

Feelings are two-fold, the key is what you think. Maybe we're all too young to know what love is. Maybe what you think of as love is just a kind of liking.

Otherwise, it wouldn't have faded over time. Therefore, when it is time to let go, you must be bold and let go. to pursue your own bright future, and he, you have to silently bless her.

I'm sure you'll all be happy in the end.

From this passage of yours. It can be seen.

You are already very repulsed by him psychologically, so even if you marry him, you will live in a world full of complaints all day long, some people say that marriage is the grave of love, but your relationship may not have love left, sometimes people need to be braver, live for themselves once, and what you said about your boyfriend's shortcomings are intolerable shortcomings of boys, just imagine how you can be happy living with such a person, if you say that I marry him and am willing to endure all this, then I also bless you, Do your best to fulfill the promise between you and don't regret it. But if all this is no longer good, then I think you better let it go quickly.

Likes to gamble, short-tempered, acidic. Narrow-minded、That's it, you'll regret it later.,Gambling people are inhuman.,Narrow-minded people are not good.,I'm your second.,Of course, if you really love him, you can tolerate everything about him.。。。 Feelings can't be delayed, and long pain is better than short pain.

It's good to divide it for a while. Bless you ...

Ever heard the saying? Twisted melons are not sweet!! I know that you have a deep relationship, but you also have to recognize the reality, the reality is very cruel, when you feel that you are no longer suitable for being together, so long pain is better than short pain, all kinds of happiness and happiness in the past, keep it as a memory, remember to bless him, after all, you really loved each other, and he also gave you meticulously!!

If you really soften your heart again and again and go against your heart, then you know best what will happen in the future, don't you? Don't be indecisive and harm yourself and others! SUPPORT YOU ...