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<>Since you are in love, when two people are happy together, they are in love. There are not so many shackles when it comes to really falling in love, and it stipulates what the other party must do. The more rules and regulations you give, the faster your love will die.
If a man wants to be good to you, he doesn't need you to force him to do it at all, he will take the initiative to give it to you, I'll give you the simplest example, my ex just started chasing me, I said don't send me, your home is too far away to send me home is very tired, he said that if you don't send him, he will be even more tired, because he will be very disappointed because I am gone. But then I felt a lot of need and insisted that he send me, and he was a little reluctant at this time, and then it caused our unhappiness.
Don't ask a man for what he gives you, look at what he himself gives you.
Don't listen to what he promises you, look at what he has done for you.
Don't have a vicious mouth but a weak mentality, learn to have a sweet mouth but a strong inner framework, no one can shake it.
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I think that's just because she hasn't learned how to love someone, she doesn't know what it means to love someone, so she does, and secondly, you really don't really give her enough security, so she does, so I think she's right, she just doesn't know how to love you.
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<> the breakups I've seen, the most common situation is that the woman is killed by herself, the man just said that he was busy, and then the contact became less, the woman's mentality was repeated, for a while she felt that it was her own no, and for a while she felt that she was busy and considered a fart, or because she didn't like me, she ignored me, and then began to have a variety of hard mouths and soft hearts, unlimited attacks, and the man's final collapse, from several fake breakups to real sex, among which the key point that caused this change was that women were prone to quickly produce a trust mentality.
Think about it, when he liked you, you didn't have a sense of need for him at all, as long as he liked you, he would panic, hoping that you would care about him.
When becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend, men and women think differently, men pay attention to their careers, so after he has got you, he will inevitably shift his energy and focus on the things he cared about before chasing you.
And after you become a girlfriend, it is easy to solidify your thinking, thinking that he should treat you the same as when he chased you, but have you ever thought that people's emotions are a big variable, if you blindly pay attention to his attitude towards you, and he has gradually become accustomed to the points that he liked you at the beginning, but he is not satisfied with your current points, and his liking for you will decay. Therefore, the breakup became inevitable.
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I won't, because being in love is a beautiful experience that makes people feel happy and happy, but being in love is also a complex emotional relationship that requires time and effort to manage. If you know that a relationship will end in a breakup, is it still worth going to a relationship?
First of all, if you know that the relationship will end in a breakup, then the person who chooses to fall in love may have some reasons, such as wanting to find a short-term happiness, or want to go through a special experience, or just want to find an emotional sustenance. Whatever the reason, it can lead to a breakup as a result of a relationship. However, that doesn't mean the relationship isn't meaningless.
During this time, two people can share happiness and happiness together, care for and support each other, and make each other feel warm and happy. Although the end result is a breakup, the experience can have a positive impact on the growth and emotional life of both people.
Secondly, having a relationship that you know you are going to break up can also have some negative effects. If no one is able to express their thoughts and feelings honestly, misunderstandings and suspicions can arise, leading to a relationship that gradually becomes strained and unpleasant. If two people can directly face each other's feelings and thoughts and communicate honestly, then the relationship has the potential to become more beautiful and meaningful.
However, if two people are not able to communicate honestly, then the relationship can become painful and unhealthy.
Finally, choosing to have a relationship that you know you are going to break up also needs to take into account your emotional ability and endurance. If a person has already experienced multiple breakups and no longer has too many expectations for the outcome of the relationship, then it may be easier for him and her to accept and bear a relationship that he knows is going to break up. However, if a person has very deep expectations and attachments to love and relationships, then choosing to have a relationship that he knows is going to break up can make him feel very painful and lost.
To sum up, choosing to have a relationship that you know you are going to break up requires taking into account your emotional ability and tolerance, as well as the impact of this experience on yourself and the other party. If two people can communicate honestly, respect and support each other, then the relationship may become more beautiful and meaningful. However, if two people are not able to communicate honestly, then the relationship can become painful and unhealthy.
Therefore, before choosing to have a relationship that you know you are going to break up, you need to think about your thoughts and feelings, weigh the pros and cons, and make the best decision.
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Being in love is a very special experience that can make people feel happy and fulfilled, but it can also bring pain and hurt. A relationship that you know will break up can be unsettling and painful because you know that the end result is not what you expected.
If you're thinking about falling in love with someone you know you're going to break up, then you need to think hard about your feelings and motivations. Do you really like this person, or do you just choose him or her because of loneliness or something else? If you choose to be with this person, are you okay with the outcome of the eventual breakup?
Are you brave enough to face the pain of a breakup?
It is recommended that you take the time to think carefully about these issues before making a decision. At the same time, you can also talk openly with this person about your feelings and worries, and see if you can find a way to deal with this relationship together.
The final decision is up to you. Whatever you choose to do, remember to respect your feelings and be honest and honest so as not to hurt yourself and the other person.
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I think it's a breakup. It's that two people can't find a particularly good point between each other in love. So two people will be separated. This is actually an inevitable stage.
There is such a thing as falling in love. In fact, it is a feeling that two people are very happy together. So it's very happy to be only two people together. In this case, two people will go further.
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That is, to find a good person, two people can talk about it, and the goal is the same, that is, to talk about marriage, get married and have children for a lifetime, this is the right goal. We must unify our thinking.
More than 99% of today's single men and women who are in love are not married, so they will definitely break up with all kinds of bad excuses, even if it is a trivial matter.
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If you don't feel like you're a good fit for each other, it's wise to break up when it's time to break up. If you are blindly reluctant, you may end up hurting each other
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Gathering and dispersing is just the common sense of life, gathering is not the beginning, and dispersion is not the end.
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It's not the same as your boyfriend's future planning, this is not a reason for breaking up, two people together is to tolerate each other and understand that it may be sweeter when you first fall in love, and slowly want to enter the marriage hall, then a lot of things will happen in the middle, planning is one thing, it is true that when the ideas of two people are not very consistent or Qin, there will be certain differences in general personalities, as long as the personality is different, people will have different plans for future life.
In life, you will find that the people who are married around you, their personalities are opposite, one party is very understanding of each other, and there is a lot of tolerance, this is a manifestation of love, if you love your other half, then you must be more tolerant of him.
There is also a possibility that the three views of the two of you are different, so the things you think are not the same, under normal circumstances, people with the same three views will have some similarities for future development, that is, how many children you will have in the future, how to make money, save money, and make life better, these are basically the same, money is more important, if there is no money in the future, then it will affect your life.
So the main thing you have to look at is whether the original families of the two of you live similarly, and whether the three views are the same, if they are the same, then the plan can also be more tolerant of each other.
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Falling in love for the sake of breaking up is certainly not worth it, but falling in love for the sake of marriage is worth it, because this is the goal.
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Falling in love for the sake of breaking up is worth it only for you to know, but you can learn from the experience of love.
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I talked about an object before I got married, that is, my first love, I really love him, even when I broke up, I still love him very much, but in the end it was I who took the initiative to break up, I can accept that you are poor for a while, I can also accept that we will be poor in the future, but I can't accept that a boy he doesn't know what struggle is, he doesn't work hard, he doesn't want to endure hardship, he thinks it's good to be poor now, I can't accept it, so in the end I chose to break up, very painful, but also very resolute, It is useless to say that no matter how much he tries to get together, he will break up.
We both went to the same high school, and then we agreed to be admitted to the same university, but then we studied different majors, and we didn't determine the relationship in high school, but we had a good impression of each other, but we also understood that this was not the time to be in love, so we were studying hard, and finally got a good university, and the two of them also graduated successfully, we confirmed the relationship in our freshman year, and then spent a very happy campus time, I thought we would be happy for a lifetime.
But then we graduated, I found out that this is not the case, he may be very good when he is studying, his brain is really smart, but he is not willing to work hard after work, he feels that the work is too tired, he feels that the work is too difficult, so he is not willing to go to work later, I persuade him to go to work, I coax him to work, and help him find a job, but in the end it is useless, he can't do it for a few days, so the final result is that I have been raising him.
He worked in the rain for three days and dried the net for two days, and our life was so immortal, he enjoyed this life very much, but I didn't want to, I didn't want my life to be like this all the time, so in the end I chose to break up. I think people, looking for the other half, you must see clearly, whether a person is kind enough, whether he works hard enough, whether he is self-motivated, whether he has quality, these are all things that you need to see, so keep your eyes open.
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Probably because I'm a Pisces, the requirement for love is loyalty! It's a beautiful thing for me to be in a relationship, and I don't bring up easily, unless. The other party, or the conditions of real life, I can't accept it.
Boyfriend is having an affair with someone else.
In my emotional world, everything is required to be simple, I don't want our relationship to be mixed with a third party, and I don't want my man to have an affair with someone behind my back. Because a lot of people start chatting and then slowly get to know each other, if my boyfriend always goes behind my back, or blatantly talks to other girls about topics that I can't accept, then I may propose to break up with him. I will definitely remind him first that I can't accept the fact that he is having an affair with other people, and if he changes, maybe I will continue to be with him, if he always doesn't take my words to heart and continues to chat with other girls, then the relationship will basically end in failure.
Not receiving the blessing of friends.
Actually, I'm not a person who can't control myself, but in the face of my own feelings, many people are more confused. It is said that the authorities are obsessed, and the bystanders are clear, and my relationship status is basically shared with my girlfriends, and if they feel that my current boyfriend is not good, I will consider it. But if many friends around me don't bless me and be with him, I will choose to end this relationship, after all, my friends and I have nothing to say, they can consider my problems from my point of view, and they also very much hope that I can get happiness in the relationship.
But my good friend and my girlfriend don't support me being with my current boyfriend, so it means that he can't pass the test in terms of my friend, and this kind of relationship will definitely end, after all, he can't get a blessing. Although he said that he lived his life by himself, he may be blinded by love, and the disadvantaged party in the relationship does not know it.
In fact, love is not so important in my life, I care more about the care of my family and the relationship with friends, if the person I really like appears, then he will also become my friends and family.
I am very optimistic about the relationship between Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong, and I think it is very suitable.
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