In three months, we got married, but lately we ve been fighting

Updated on society 2024-07-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Empathize with that.

    My husband and I are too, and we don't know why we got married. I think it's like a premarital phobia, because we're about to really form a family, and we need to adapt to each other's different habits, in fact, it's a very difficult thing to get used to, and the problems we face after marriage are becoming more and more practical, and we have to face them, so I'm a little tired.

    I was reading a book recently, "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", about how to manage marriage, although not married, but it is very helpful for the communication of two people, in fact, the most important thing is to love each other, there is no problem to communicate, just to learn a good way, because after all, the gender is different, the way of thinking is different, and it is not easy for boys to understand us, so we still save ourselves! By the way, I also saved him who was also depressed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, congratulations on your happy wedding! Is it normal for the couple to quarrel? Wouldn't it be nice to take a step back?

    Why don't you take a step back and see how your boyfriend reacts? If only he were still chirping! Then this man is too stingy and has no measure at all, but well, it is estimated that most men will be shy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I also feel like I should sit down and think about it.

    But isn't there also marriage anxiety, it's always good to calm down.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Wrong: It is easy to have conflicts after marriage, and then consider it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    All have premarital anxiety.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's stressful, and I'm in the same situation, people say it's a premarital phobia.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A month after getting married, they quarreled every day. If you're a man, be humble! Women are sensitive after all!

    Especially when there are grievances! People from two different families, living under one roof, is the beginning of your true married life! The newlyweds will be troubled by the trivial matters of life, and the run-in period between the two is short.

    The two had better calm down and think more about the beauty of love.

    1.We need more communication, communicating with each other in a quiet, heart-to-heart way. In this way, you can find your own reasons and ask the other party about your recent situation, work situation, some plans for the future, and some recent thoughts, which can be used as a topic for chatting!

    Some causes of discord can be found!

    2.In daily life, let each other have some touching little stories. Everyone has emotions.

    Use your own practical actions to make the other party really feel that you are working hard for the happiness of your family. Give each other respect, respect is the beginning of a good life, respect each other's hobbies, respect each other's preferences.

    3.Let's put ourselves in the other person's shoes. If we continue to do this, what will we get, will we be able to live happily ever after?

    What can I do to live a happy life? Change your attitude and get along with a grateful heart, thinking that everyone has shortcomings and strengths, you can't always catch your own shortcomings, you have to see more of the other person's strengths and think about what other people have done for you that motivate you.

    4.Now the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and quarrels are very noisy things. If you quarrel a lot, you have to reflect on yourself and think about whether you have done bad things in your daily life.

    The other person often reminds you to make corrections. There are some small faults, whether I turn a blind eye or not, I don't change them many times, and I don't realize my mistakes, but I can refute a set of reasons why I don't correct them.

    Before and after marriage, because of things and various pressures that you have not encountered between you, it is inevitable that there will be more or less conflicts. This is quite normal. Husbands and wives must understand each other, understand each other, and trust each other in order to resolve conflicts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think we can be separated for a while, think about each other's problems, and correct what we didn't do well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you should become more tolerant and generous, don't be too careful, and in married life, you should be more tolerant of each other's shortcomings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you first get married, two people quarrel every day, the first thing is to find out the reason for the quarrel, and then solve it according to what you should do, and usually both parties should understand each other more, respect each other, and communicate with each other more, which is more conducive to the continuation of married life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.First of all, it is a regular situation for newly married couples to quarrel, in the case of falling in love, everyone has been showing perfect people everywhere, but after marriage, all kinds of bad habits are exposed, and the best way to deal with the defects like orange spikes is to coax the other party, which is very easy to solve.

    2.Quarrel due to the disagreement of the three views, that kind of quarrel is generally a blind date between men and women, and they are not in love and move towards marriage, and the temperament is different after marriage, it is very easy to quarrel, and it is very easy to divorce if we really like the other party, we need to restrain ourselves, apologize and ensure.

    3.Because the language expression is not on the channel column and quarrels, generally speaking, this quarrel is the worst, and the language table bridge Wu Yingda is not on the channel column, which is difficult to fill. If you really want to get along with Min Cong, think about how you liked other people's things in the first place, and value the other person's strengths.

    4.If we have been arguing over trivial matters, as a couple, we can sit down and communicate carefully, reach an agreement, and then speak, which is also very reasonable.

    5.Quarrels due to ruthless violence and domestic violence, generally speaking, this kind of reason is more common in men, if the other party does not change after a few times, everyone will consider the real validity of this kind of emotion.

    6.If she quarrels because of money problems, if she doesn't like money very much, as long as everyone improves a little and invests in their own diligence, the other party will not be able to quarrel with everyone in the eyes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is often said that the seven-year itch ......You're still noisy!! Heng Xiao Jean!

    It's still early......

    However, there is an article that says a method that is quite suitable for you to try, and maybe it will have a miraculous ......It is to treat the lover as a roommate ...... live togetherIn this way, there will be less extravagant expectations or always wanting to change the other party to meet your own expectations! Command Bureau.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Married for half a year, quarreled three times, quarreled once every two months, small couple, this is also normal, friends socks because of the sweet sail love period, after marriage into the cold period, so it is inevitable to quarrel during the period, and after the three good years, it will be good slowly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Marriage Law Article 17 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of their marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

    1) Wages and bonuses;

    2) the income from production and operation;

    3) income from intellectual property rights;

    4) Property obtained by inheritance or donation, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 18 of this Law;

    5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

    Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

    Article 18: In any of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the husband and wife:

    1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

    2) Medical expenses received by one party due to bodily injury, subsidies for the livelihood of disabled persons, and other expenses;

    3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;

    4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

    5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

    Article 12: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly submit divorce proceedings to the people's courts.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

    4) Having lived in a rotational residence for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to think clearly about his personality and how Yuandongfan is to the family and you, whether he is suitable for life, the love period trembling past and entering the marriage stage, the two of them want to face the orange hail on both families, and assume the responsibility of their own family, which is essentially different from when they are in love, many people can't change their roles in time, you have to think about it clearly.

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