If you don t want to be at an age where you should settle down, should you get married for the sake

You shouldn't get married for the sake of getting married, and if you do this in your life, you are irresponsible to yourself and your other half.

You should not marry for the sake of getting married, only the person who should be married, there is no age to get married. Only if you meet that person, it's never too late to get married. The most important thing in life is happiness, to marry for the sake of two people to be better, not to marry for the sake of marriage.

In fact, you should not marry for the sake of getting married, because such a reluctant married life may make yourself more miserable.

From my personal point of view, no.

But in reality, it is still necessary to combine the actual situation, when people's expectations are higher than the results she can see, there will always be some people who compromise with reality, which is inevitable, and there is no right or wrong.

Although I sometimes sigh when I think about it, my friends around me gave up their expectations for the sake of family, age, life and other reasons, and chose to marry someone who didn't love much but was suitable.

Even if I foresee that one day they will regret it, I rarely tell them about it, because I can't estimate whether my words will pull her out of the mud or ruin the ordinary marriage she may have.

After all, there are too many uncertainties in life, and no one can say with certainty that their plan for the future is the most perfect, and no one can say that they will not regret it for the rest of their lives until the moment they close their eyes.

Therefore, if the subject is sure that his goal is to wait for a beloved, then stick to his own ideas, other people's words and suggestions are just reference to Senhu, don't question your own heart, otherwise one day in retrospect, you may feel that you did not insist, and the possibility of missing is the life you really want to live.

If you are a mature person, in fact, you can choose the right one, because a mature person can accept the price behind the choice.

If you are an immature person, how to choose is wrong, because you will regret missing love if you choose the right one, marriage is as plain as water, and those who choose love will lament the poor couple's sorrow, and they can have no worries about food and clothing.

Therefore, a good marriage experience does not depend on the partner, but on oneself.

Even if you choose to delay your marriage, it will not be because you are old, and marriage is not a child's play. The two must really love each other, and they have to grind each other's shortcomings. Understand each other more, then you will wake up, or you won't be able to choose to get married. Wow.

First of all, I will definitely tell you that marriage cannot be compromised, even if it is a single person, I will never find a woman who has no feelings to marry.

It's too sad to think about life than to be in a lifeless house, painfully guarding a low-quality, or even non-quality marriage, and entangled and consuming each other for various reasons.

Some people are getting older, facing the pressure of their parents, the pressure of the people around them, and the pressure from themselves, so they choose to search for a woman without feelings in a panic, and as a result, their married life is terrible, and finally ends in divorce.

There are also some older young people, under pressure from their parents, who choose to make friends constantly, and there are many people on the dating network, and everyone has different motivations. Don't rush to the doctor and hurt yourself.

A marriage that needs to be compromised must be unsatisfactory. Because a good marriage can nourish the soul and make the home a safe haven for both husband and wife; A bad marriage will drain people's energy and make people tired of their home.

Why do the Dayuzhou family want to get married? Because of love, or because of life, or because of force, or because of interests. In short, everyone gets married in the hope that they can live a better life, that is, their life experience is more diverse.

Few people say that they got married to torture each other!

Happy married couple standing on the beach.

Why do people want to get divorced? You may say that the relationship between husband and wife has broken down, the lover has empathized and said goodbye, the husband and wife have incompatible personalities, sexual affairs are not coordinated, the three views are inconsistent, parents interfere, parent-child education conflicts, and the company has gone bankrupt ......You can give a lot of reasons, but it boils down to the fact that the couple is uncomfortable living together, the marriage experience is terrible, and even ruining their own lives.

Marriage is a good wish, but the reality is cruel! Because marriage especially needs to constantly inject positive energy, keep paying the price, and constantly meet the needs of the other party, and at the same time satisfy yourself.

One will make it all the repression and abandonment of the husband and wife in the marriage. The essence of marriage is to suppress one's own heart and give up one's life and innermost needs.

In fact, in the face of marriage, especially a marriage with problems, it is not to settle for marriage, but to find a way to solve the problem of marriage, promote and improve marriage, and if you really can't bear it, then go for divorce!

Marriage sooner or later, try to find someone you like, don't be for the pressure of the outside world, the potato will ruin the calendar, that.

No, it won't. Every man and woman, when they reach a certain age, is bound to face the problem of marriage, do not choose to marry because of some external factors, must be because of love.

1. If you have affection for each other, your life will be happier.

In this life, at least once desperate to love someone. Everyone is choosing to choose life, choose life, choose love. You and I, when we were still young, felt that love was to choose what we loved, no matter how difficult the process was, it was also a kind of worthwhile.

However, when you and I gradually mature, we find that life is not so simple, in fact, it is more important to find a blind person who loves you. After all, everyone wants to have the feeling of being loved, and they may have been hurt by love before, so they are a little afraid of love, and it is good to find someone who loves them.

2. Love can make you understand each other better.

Life is in stages, at every age, there are things that should be done, if you have taken a step through the love of the gods, then, in marriage, you may face more problems. The current divorce rate is very high, and the reason for this phenomenon is that the two people in the marriage have not adjusted their roles well, and some people choose to settle and get married just for the sake of it, which will inevitably cause a lot of problems. Without love, people who enter marriage cannot be said to be unhappy, but at the very least, there are many more stumbles than others.

Because I don't know much about it, I may go through a few quarrels and end up separately.

3. For the rest of my life, I got married because of love.

Marriage is just a state, if marriage makes you unhappy, in fact, it is better to be single! If you have to give a reason for getting married, then I hope you do it because of love. People who have no feelings have entered into marriage and seem to be happy, but in fact, only you know that your life seems to be more lonely than before.

4. Marry someone you like, even if it doesn't matter what the outcome is, at least you once loved each other.

If you take marriage as a bet and marry someone randomly, you will expect that you will be lucky, even if you find a random one, you can still win, but the reality is not so friendly. That person may indeed be a good person and will cherish you, but the chance of that is still too small after all. And once you lose the bet, you can indeed divorce and restart your life, but it is not easy, and it is difficult for you to really get out of it.

Remember, never get married for the sake of getting married. When you really want to get married, you don't have to find someone you love so much, but you must first judge whether that person is reliable or not, and whether you are suitable.

1. If I have to make do, when I reach the age of 30, do you want me to be unmarried, or have I been divorced?

2. I like good men (good women) like my dad (my mom), if you know a guy (little girl) who is better than my dad (my mom) and then introduce it to me!

3. I don't need to be held in the palm of my hand by others, I am popular myself, and I am self-respecting and filial.

4. If you get married like this, love can't be cultivated, and sooner or later something will go wrong, because it's too tiring to live with people who don't have a deep emotional foundation and inconsistent thinking pace.

5, rich and handsome, must have a girlfriend; The big boss must be attentive; Workaholic, apparently disregarding home.

6. I already have a boyfriend (or girl), but he hasn't divorced yet. (Usually at this time, I will persuade you to break up, and then you will be able to settle down for some days).

7. I found a girlfriend, but she is still studying, and she is too young.

8. There are too few boys (girls) who are reliable now, you see, I heard that my cousin (cousin) broke another one.

9. There are several people chasing me, all of them are very good, it's really hard to choose!

10. In these years, who doesn't have a few spare tires!

In fact, some young people don't want to be single, they still yearn for the love of growing old together, but the reality limits their vision, and being single is a helpless move that "has to be".

1. The economic cost is too great, and the conditions do not allow it.

It always costs money to fall in love, and after a period of love, you always have to consider the long-term plan for the future, but the current housing prices are so high, big cities can't even afford a down payment, and there is not much left after buying a house with a salary in small cities.

When we knew 1+1 <2 at the beginning, I believe most people would choose to be that lonely 1.

2. Love needs to meet, get along and operate, and there is no time at all.

How do young people live today? It's not 9 to 5, it's "996", "007". This group of young people is too busy, they want to go on a blind date, and they don't even have time to look for a blind date, but they have someone they like, and they have to take time to make a meeting and make a ** porridge, let alone long-term running-in and managing feelings.

This is the mode of love and getting along with modern people, how difficult life is, how difficult it is to solve this problem.

3. Young people's education coverage has improved, and their love needs have become clearer.

Modern young people generally read books and receive education, which leads to their no longer being blind to love, no longer for the purpose of inheritance, and they are more aware of their needs and standards for choosing a mate. For example, the three views should be matched, the personality should be similar, the pursuit should be consistent, and the door should be right.

So once young people no longer regard love as a trivial matter, but as a big thing to consider, and what they want is clearer and more precise, then the range of partners they can choose will continue to shrink until it is accurate to that group of people and that type of people. And this kind of person is actually not easy to meet in life, and young people who are unwilling to settle have to wait for singles in the end.

4. There is no opportunity to meet the opposite sex in the life of two o'clock and one line every day.

In addition to not having time to know the brightness of foreign bodies, there is also an important reason why young people are single, that is, there is no opportunity to know the opposite sex. Many times, as long as you have enough excellent people of the opposite sex around you, even if you want to be single, you may not be able to hold on.

I'll give you a simple and old example, if you are in the entertainment industry with a lot of beautiful women and handsome guys, or if you can contact all kinds of excellent people of the opposite sex by the nature of your work, your chances of being attracted will be greatly increased. If there is another secret message to you among them, then unless you have no need for love at all, you will have the urge to fall in love every minute.

Because they believe that the low-quality marriage that will come will only reduce the quality of life for both parties. At the same time, marriage is followed by the birth of children, and if the family does not get along in the future, it is not responsible for the children.

Marriage is not a necessity.

Such young people think that marriage is not a necessity, but an add-on, and that it will be sweet to have a marriage, and that they can live freely and freely without marriage. Therefore, they will not rush to find someone to marry them off.

A low-quality marriage can reduce your quality of life.

Many older young people are very good, and the conditions are very good, so they are not willing to find a random person, and the person they marry reduces their original quality of life. They enjoy the current high-quality life, and they are unwilling to get involved in the troubled waters of marriage and live in firewood, rice, oil and salt. Enjoy the mentality that the whole family is not hungry.

Pursue perfection in relationships.

People who are unwilling to compromise often pursue perfection in their relationships and are unwilling to be with someone they are not interested in. They hope to find someone who can make them happy, so that the two of them will be happy together for a long time. Instead of making do, it is better to slowly find the right person, like my best friend, she was still single at the age of 30 before, and she was not in a hurry to get married, because she felt that the person she met at that time was not suitable for her, but she did not sit still, but took the initiative to find it herself, and posted a blind date post on the platform of a companion marriage and love, Zhenai.com, and then met a boy who was a bad boy with her and liked each other, and received the certificate in April this year, and is currently living a very happy life.

In fact, marriage would rather not be than compromise, because if you are with a person, you may live in regret in the future, and such a relationship is not destined to be happy.