I want to divorce my husband, but he refuses, what is the reason?

Three-year itch Seven years itch! This is married life, you are married not long ago, this is a manifestation of the run-in period, as long as the relationship is still there, you will be happy, he may be just a momentary fast, and what the heart really wants to express is not these topics, don't give up your lover easily, at this critical moment or pull him, can't let him go alone, you know? I believe that love will touch everything, and believe that my original vision is not wrong, which is the important thing.

Think it through. It's best to cool down for a while, and if you quarrel again, then bring up divorce.

Holding the bowl and eating the pot, the bowl is always your own, whether you eat or not is there, the food in the pot is eaten by others, you are in the bowl.

Think it through. There are no perfect people in this world, and those who are so-called divorced are not a matter of personality compatibility! Even if you find a new one, it can't be the same as your personality! People are different. So don't always eat in the bowl and think about the pot.

That's because he still has feelings for you... Think about why you have to leave.

Maybe he still can't bear it.

Legal analysis: There may be many reasons why the husband is reluctant to divorce, the first is the issue of custody, and the general court judgment of custody is based on the situation of both parents, and the husband is likely to not get the children or will not take care of the children. Then after the divorce, the interests are damaged, and it is better not to leave.

It is very likely that divorce will affect your career.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1077:Within 30 days of the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority. Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

Is it that your husband doesn't like to express, he loves you in his heart, but he doesn't show it so you feel that he doesn't love you, you have to communicate with him well, talk about it, as long as you have the mentality of solving the problem, there is no problem between husband and wife that cannot be solved, I really hope you are happy.

Your husband refuses to divorce you, and you say he doesn't love you, can you be sure? Since he refuses to divorce you, it means that he still has feelings for you, mainly because you don't love him anymore, what is the specific reason?

Then why did you marry him in the first place?

No, the other party can sue for divorce, and under normal circumstances, the court will decide the divorce after two court sessions.

I don't think necessarily, if the relationship between the two of you is indeed broken, you can also get divorced, and if you have been separated for a long time, you can also get divorced.

Not really, as long as the judge feels that the relationship between the two of you has broken down, then you will be divorced.

Agreeing to a divorce is an irreversible and irrevocable decision, but in this case, sometimes something goes wrong: your husband asks for a divorce and you don't want to divorce, but after thinking about it, you decide to agree to the divorce. However, your husband suddenly stops showing his determination to divorce, and he doesn't contact you much, which is confusing.

After some exploration and reflection, it can be found that the main reason for this kind of situation is that people's attitudes towards marital problems and the way they deal with the relationship between two people are differentiated. Perhaps, your husband's filing for divorce is just an impulse and does not really want a divorce. And when you decide to agree to the divorce, you make him feel free and stressed.

In this case, he is instead skeptical of your decision, and in the case of uncertainty about how to solve the problem, he prefers to temporarily distance himself to give himself time to think.

In this case, we can be clear about what we want. First of all, we need to consider whether we really want a divorce. Secondly, we need to be more explicit in our attitude when communicating with our partner and think about ways to solve the problem with them.

When this happens, it is advisable to find the right time and space to sit down with your partner as soon as possible, express your thoughts and attitudes, and try to understand your partner's inner thoughts. Please try to analyze the fundamentals and the bottom ** of the poor HR side to understand the impact of market factors.

In addition, we can also ask for help and advice from our friends. When we talk about our problems and ideas, it will be easier for us to see the problem as it really is and think rationally about possible solutions. The importance of interpersonal relationships in life cannot be ignored, especially when facing marital problems, the support and help of friends are very helpful to us.

All in all, in such a situation, we need to be aware of our thoughts and attitudes, and try to communicate with our partner to solve the problem. If we are still feeling uneasy, we can seek help from those around us to get more opinions and suggestions to find the most suitable solution. <>

If you don't want to leave. Then you have to be mentally prepared. Because you will be very miserable for the next few years.

At the same time, you have to change the way you treat your husband. Try to do as little as he hates. Be as polite as possible to him.

It's like treating people you don't know well. Try not to generate a thrust on him.

And what you're going to do right away is to be financially independent. As long as you are able-bodied, I am sure you will find a job that suits you. A woman can only be attractive if she is self-reliant.

When you gain a foothold in society. When your self-confidence gradually returns, and you no longer look like a resentful woman, but a confident woman.

Maybe your husband's new love has also waned. Plus there are children. So you have a chance to turn the tables around.

During this period, no matter what your husband does, you must stay calm and not cry and make a fuss. There is no need to please him. Because pleasing will make you lose your charm.

Try it, it's also right to defend your marriage for the sake of your children.

A person who knows how to control his emotions will have the wisdom to make the best decisions, know what he wants, and never let his life get out of control at will.

Why did your husband divorce you Is it your fault or his fault, if he is sorry for you, there is no need to maintain this marriage, because she does not deserve your love.

Two people have no feelings, they won't be happy if they are barely together, your husband doesn't love you anymore, there must be someone outside, you don't want to change it, it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, let it go, and find your happiness again.

Such a relationship should be difficult to maintain, he himself has made up his mind to divorce you, don't force it, and you won't be happy if you are reluctant! Whoever leaves can live more, why bother so much for him! Is there so many good men in the world?

The twisted melon is not sweet, and two people can automatically divorce after two years of separation.

Why not. Women are more scarce.

Since your husband is going to divorce you, proving that he is in love with another woman, and he doesn't love you anymore, are you sure you want to live with him? If that's the case, then you have to be very forbearing, and you have to treat him.

Meticulous care.

Care for her, love her, warmth, reasons for divorce.

Negotiate well, find out why he wants to divorce, if he has someone outside and you don't want to leave, try to seduce his heart back.

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