My husband refuses to do housework, and I work so hard.

Try to influence him, if it doesn't work, divorce, this kind of person is either selfish or disrespectful to women and thinks women should work.

If you can't, just leave. Don't keep doing it for the sake of the child, the child is not a thing.

Haha, men all over the world are almost like this, but some are slightly better, there is no way, with children and bonds, you can only try to ease the contradictions, the more you do with him, the more you do it, the less good it is, and your temper will only get worse and worse.

A lot of this kind of situation, really helpless, or the child is important, don't do the housework if you can, you are too hardworking so your husband is lazy, so be lazy and take a holiday for yourself.

For the sake of the child, you must talk, you must share the housework, otherwise you will buy vegetables to take care of your mother and son, regardless of his share, he will have to cook in the morning and evening, it is impossible to be hungry, so you can't get used to him, otherwise you will have hardship.

I feel like your husband is a little irresponsible for the family! Dear, men can't get used to it! There is no need for a woman to wronged herself for the sake of this family, communicate well with your husband!

That man also doesn't like to tidy up the house, and if you want them to help their wives cook and do laundry, it's even harder than climbing to the sky, but when you really need it, sometimes it's necessary to let them replace your wife appropriately, and men can't get used to it, and if they get used to it, they will work harder for themselves.

Everything is a game that makes your husband change, you can try to change your husband, it is recommended that you start with the computer first, (secretly) so that he can't play the game, you can also threaten him, but there has to be a degree. In short, there are many ways, I am also a man, and I hate such men.

My husband has never done housework, he has never helped with the baby, I do everything at home alone, and I am very busy every day. Alas, as long as the mentality is calm, there is actually nothing that cannot be overcome, come on.

There are few men who are diligent, since they all know that he is wrong, then they can bear it, or you will slowly change him.

Put your child at home, and then you go out for a day, and he will understand your hard work.

I feel the same way, my husband is also lazy, and I don't want to talk about him often, for fear of hurting the relationship between husband and wife. Sometimes I feel wronged, but with a baby, try to make the family more harmonious.

Men will always have shortcomings, so let's get by, and want to open some.

This is what you are used to, he doesn't do it, he doesn't care about his food, he doesn't wash his clothes.

Don't do that in that case, go to the restaurant every day, ask him to pay for it, and see how he handles it.

If he doesn't like to do it, he won't let him do it. There are so many men like this now.

Tell him, I hope he will share a little.

I don't go home, I look for my own fun, and my husband is like this, and I usually work night shifts and fall asleep the next day.

He doesn't do it, and you don't do it either. He'll be angry then.

Say reconciliation: appropriate, and we will each share a little.

But you have to pay attention to proportion. After all, it's quite hard for men to make money outside, and you also have to do more housework yourself. Think about him a little more.

A man's interest in housework is cultivated by his wife. Nowadays, the competition in society is fierce, and both men and women are tired. You have to be conscious when letting him do the housework.

For example, if you have a period and say that you are very unwell, you will politely ask him to do it for you. No matter how good or bad the housework is, say it is good, praise it more, and do not criticize it. No matter how bad the rice is, it is said to be delicious.

The family reunites on holidays, asks him to help with cooking, washes clothes, and lets him help with cooling. From a little bit of passive, he has become a passive housekeeper to an active housework.

When the husband is willing to make changes and share the housework, no matter what the husband does, he must affirm the husband's labor, praise your husband more, give your husband full emotional value, so as to stimulate your husband's enthusiasm for housework, when your husband helps, don't say that he is clumsy, this will only hit your husband's enthusiasm for housework, once you strike, you have to start all over again.

If none of the above methods work, then you can use some extraordinary means, my husband used to be a person who never did housework, and he would always throw his clothes everywhere, said a few times that it was useless, and then I would never help him clean up, but throw all his dirty clothes in the washing machine, when he did not have clean clothes to wear and was in a hurry to go out, he would realize the importance of doing housework for the family.

When you want a man to do something for the family, do you make him feel a sense of being needed? Uproar will only use orders and commands, in the form of accusations and complaints, which will definitely backfire.

So a lot of times, some of the bad situations are also of our own making.

Even if the relationship between husband and wife cannot change each other, forcing each other to change into the person they want with a tough attitude or way, which is a big taboo in marriage.

Even if you are right, the person who is "violated" will not think that you are right, then they will definitely refute you and have a strong desire to attack you. Because in the most direct way, it is a kind of "invasion" of dignity, thoughts and emotions for each other, and finally because of biological instinct to resist.

Of course, people can be changed, but we need to use the way of "guidance" and "influence" to infect each other subtly.

Maybe this is the problem of many married women, the husband does not do housework, so what should we do when we encounter such a situation?

There are probably three ways to deal with it.

1, you are lazy, I am lazier than you, seeing who can survive in the end, I don't believe that you don't have a time when you can't stand it, so when you really can't stand it, you will naturally do it.

2. If you admit it, you will take care of all the housework, but at the same time, there will be endless complaints and complaints, which makes the family atmosphere not so harmonious and warm.

3. Forcing your husband to do housework in a noisy way, it may be a long time, and the two people will always attack each other because of housework, resulting in weaker and weaker feelings.

Maybe the effect is always right, but the cost is too great, in this case, it is better to change the way to guide the husband to do housework.

Husband and wife need to respect each other, he doesn't do housework, you can rent a big rotten to guide him to do, such as asking him to help with the hanger to put on clothes when you are doing laundry, etc., slowly cultivate him to take the initiative to help you share the housework, don't be in a hurry, slowly follow the good inducements will definitely have good results.

Housework is very tedious, and I can't finish it every day. It's a bit tiring to let one person do it, and even lack of skills.

What should I do if my husband doesn't do housework? A good communication, let him know how much housework a family has. Such as cleaning, laundry, cooking, tidying up the house, clothes storage, ......These things are done by one person, and they are too busy.

Especially when everyone is at work, you can only get up early and be greedy for darkness, tired and tired. See how he reacts.

Second, appropriate sharing. When a woman is doing housework, she calls for help. Let him experience the hard work of doing housework.

Third, let him choose, for example, laundry and cooking, and share the burden, and choose one for each.

Fourth, if you don't do it, punish it appropriately. For example, throw his clothes down and let him pile them up like a mountain and see what he does.

Of course, do it in moderation and don't hurt your feelings.

It's all about communication. Be skillful.

I wish you happiness.

The housework of a dual-career household is shared by both husband and wife, unless one of them stays at home as a full-time househusband or housewife. If you are both at work, and your husband doesn't do housework after the morning sock shift, and all the housework falls on your shoulders, you can also learn from your husband, don't do housework, find a housekeeping service to do part-time or full-time, and you must live a happy life. Roll smart.

Two people love each other sincerely, and since they have organized a family, they will accept everything from each other, and it is not very important whether they can do housework.

But housework is shared by both parties.

After getting married, both men and women will face a major problem, household chores. Each side does more and less, and it feels unbalanced. The housework of the family formed by two people should be shared by two people and should be reasonably distributed, so how to divide the housework between men and women is the most reasonable?

First, the two sides can decide the division of housework through communication, grasp some rough work in life, tiring work, let boys do it, some fine work, let girls do it, can also let both men and women choose freely, choose what they like and are good at, two people divide it equally, one person and half.

Second, both men and women can do housework together, and when one person is busy, the other person should never watch it, and over time, it will make the person doing housework have an unbalanced psychology, which is not conducive to family harmony in the long run. Let's do it together and make our little home clean, which will make the relationship between the two people better and better.

The third and most important point is that boys should never think that housework is what girls should do, the essence of married life is tolerance and understanding, but it can be said that when your other half feels very tired, take the initiative to take on housework, not only will make the other half feel very happy, she will be better and better for you.

Scientific studies have shown that the man's initiative to do housework will improve the wife's happiness a lot. For the sake of the happiness of their wives and the harmony of their families, it is recommended that boys do as much housework as possible.

In today's society, it is indeed necessary to advocate that the two of us do housework, because it is said that men and women are equal, and you women also have to go to work to make money, and then go home and take care of the children, so men also have to do housework, and they can bear part of the housework.

But there will be a lot of men who just don't want to do housework, maybe they are used to it, and they don't have the idea of doing housework at home since they were young, because in the previous era, they were all men outside, and women were inside, so he would feel that everything in the house was done by women, and men were done outside, but now men and women are the same, if women make money, and then the housework in the house is also done, the man only earns some money, and does nothing at home, of course, women feel unfair, and some men don't make much money, Going home and doing nothing will lead to a particularly high divorce rate in the family, and women can earn money and take care of their children, so what's the use of asking for a man? So there is something really unfair about this.

I don't mind that the other half doesn't do housework, at least I can help cook a little or watch the children, so that the woman's heart will have some psychological comfort, I will feel that I am so tired when I go home at 1:30, I have to cook, I have to watch the children, and I have to clean up the house, and it is already late to sleep at night, if I can get the comfort of my husband, it is good. It's just that some men don't know how to be grateful, as if things at home should be done by women, no matter what they do, it is a matter of course, and when they meet such a man, women will be particularly chilled.

To be able to get warmth in a family, two people need to take on the responsibilities of the family, there will not be too many differences, and the children can feel warm.

I don't mind if my partner doesn't do housework, I think there will be a division of labor between two people in a family, everyone should have their own children, and they should both cooperate with each other, and the housework is something that two people must share at the same time, not one person's work.

Many times, if a woman does not do housework, she will be scolded by the people around her. But it seems natural for men not to do this! But why?

We went to work from nine to five. Why do women do housework after work, while men have to rest quietly? A happy marriage is made up of 70% trivial life, 20% family relationships, and 10% joint efforts.

All the years are peaceful and beautiful, because the people who love you are sacrificing and guarding these trivial things that you usually turn a blind eye to.

Cooperation between husband and wife is one of the great joys of marriage and can also promote the development of the marital relationship. You did it, it didn't work, it should be. When two people are together, they should share all the household chores.

And those seemingly mundane housework are also an important part of improving the quality of life in marriage. True love is not a short-lived romance created by flowers and wine, but can be gradually highlighted over time.

When two people are together, it is to take on the responsibilities of a small family together, and really live together, not so much magnificent and powerful, but more life. Marriage is a world of two people who need two people to manage. And a family needs a man, and you have to pay, it has an irreplaceable meaning.

Life is not long, and I hope that every girl can be with someone who loves you.

The smarter a person is, the more he understands the importance of doing household chores. He did it because he knew how to hurt his wife. In such marriages, there are very few quarrels.

If you are more considerate of your wife, she will be more gentle with you. When a man is willing to do housework, he actually wants to enjoy life with you. Because I love you, every little thing will become the mediator of the marriage, and the two of them enjoy life little by little, and contribute to the family of my sons, and this is the happiest thing in the world.