Please tell me how to deal with the problem of not knowing the relationship between friends

I think ah, you can give 200 with your friends, and then buy some very special things for your friends that they will need in their new home, such as kitchen utensils, tea sets or something, and wish them a hundred years of good together, but it must be very exquisite, and buy it with the remaining 300 yuan.

I don't think you should lobby those friends who plan to make 200, because even if they end up paying a lot of money with you for the sake of face, they will still be very dissatisfied with you in their hearts, because although everyone is good friends, after all, they still have their own lives and their own little ninety-nine. You still follow the crowd in the big picture and then make up for it secretly, so that it will be better to adopt a compromise approach.

I think. 1, since he is your best friend since childhood, he will definitely not mind how much money you have, hehe, love is stronger than gold;

2, don't care too much about other people's opinions, this is your good friend's marriage, how much you pack is your mind, if others think so, it can only mean that he is small-minded;

So, there are three ways to do it.

1. You can pack as much as you want.

2, it's really not good, you can go to his house on the eve of his marriage and find an excuse to give him some first, your friends should understand. Then on the day of the wedding, another 2,300 is packed

3. Compromise, package 300 or 400.

This thing is really difficult to do, so it is recommended that a few friends discuss it and try to follow as much as possible. Because as you said, if you are too casual, it is not good to let others know, because the amount of casualty often also represents the depth of the relationship.

Look at the economic conditions, or look at the relationship. If someone genuinely regards you as a friend, he will never take care of that.

Money doesn't represent feelings.

Is there a gift exchange?

What's the value?

Five hundred, two hundred is definitely too little. Five hundred is five hundred.

Look at the economic conditions, look at the relationship.

You visit his house before he gets married, and by the way you ask if there is anything you can help with, and you leave 300 before leaving, and on the day of the wedding you are with 200 (the kind of gift list), he will know what you mean immediately, and he will not tell anyone else, and he will come back when you get married.

It's good not to let others know. Or you can buy a gift yourself and give some money.

I think buying a gift is a better way to show sincerity

As long as you get along sincerely, the friendship will not fade, but with the passage of time and the change of the environment, everyone will have their own things and their own lives, and it will naturally become lighter, but this does not mean that the friendship between the two parties will fade, as long as both parties have each other in their hearts.