How to do a good job in the psychoeducation of teenage children?

This is normal, you can talk to him, the righteousness is good, but you can't go too far, let him talk to you, let him speak his heart

Sometimes the pressure of teenagers to conform to the herd is very great, and he used to be a good child according to what you said, maybe the circle of friends influenced him, try to understand his circle of friends, and guide him to meet better peers, such as relatives, neighbors, don't use "you see how good he is, you want people to learn and learn" but use examples to knock on the side, let him admire himself, believe that he is also envious of other excellent children psychologically, and believe that he will realize it himself. And appropriately help them alienate their bad circle of friends.

I'm also a kid of this age, and I think that if you want to communicate, if you want to communicate, you have to be in the most unguarded state. For example, when you are walking, when you are playing. Don't turn over a heavy topic all at once.

It will make people resistant. You can take him to your previous classroom, school or something, and tell him about your previous study life. Tell him how to choose the right path......In fact, everyone thinks about it, but they don't know how to go.

The circle of friends is a very strange thing, as long as your approach and ideas are different from this circle, it will slowly fade out.

1. Be democratic to children, respect children's feelings, respect children's rights, respect children's opinions, respect children's friends, and listen to children's heartfelt words.

2. Punishment of children should pay attention to art, parents should understand the purpose of punishment for children, they should pay attention to the art of punishment, the usual practice is to put the facts, reason, bitter words, know the reason, move with emotion, guide with action, let the child bear the guilt of self-blame and self-punishment.

3. Clarify what kind of person the child will become, and at the same time, the parents' expectations for the child should not be too high. Parents should be consistent in their opinions on their children's education, and should not guess that they should solve the problem in a rough way. At the same time, children in this period begin to have some ideas of their own, and want to have some opinions on their own affairs, at this time parents should communicate more with him, such as girls, mothers can pay more attention to the changes in the body, make some suggestions, and care more about the changes of the child, the same as the father to the son.

But be careful not to laugh out loud when you say these things! It should be communicated in a calm tone and expression.

People have three rebellious periods, different rebellious periods, different personality development, psychophysiological development characteristics, and parents should also have different ways of coping. And at different ages, the methods of educating children are different, and next, I will introduce to you how to educate ten-year-old children.

1. Ten-year-old children have grown up, are sensible, and have a certain ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Therefore, if you feel that your child is not doing well, you can patiently tell your child that if he continues to maintain bad habits, the disadvantages are in. Every child wants to be a good child, so once she realizes what she is doing wrong, she will definitely change it.

2. Ten-year-old children happen to be in primary school, except for the time at home, most of the rest of the time is in school. Usually pay more attention to the child's situation at school and communicate with the teacher. To see what the child is not doing well, parents should assist the teacher more and work together to correct the child's problems.

3. In addition to family and school education, there is also social education. Let your children get in touch with some well-behaved children, so that they can often play together and learn from each other. With the role model of his peers, I believe that he will become better day by day.

4. Encouragement. No child doesn't like to be praised and encouraged, so we must find out the child's shining point in time, constantly praise the child, cultivate some self-confidence for him, and let him know himself correctly.

5. Water your children with love. Every child needs to be watered with love, so that she can feel the warmth of the world. Only then will we have more courage to face life.

6. Let your child read some healthy and uplifting books. Knowledge can change fate, let the child read more books that are in line with her age, and through the image of the role models in the book, she can correctly guide her outlook on life and values.

In fact, parents are the first teachers of their children, and parents should lead by example, and set a good example for their children in everything. Suspicious sails.

Parent-child communication.

This is the most fundamental, maybe many parents and children will have a generation gap, always wonder what the child thinks, but as a parent, have you sincerely communicated with your child? Don't press the child with the fact that you are an old man or something, this is the most disgusting thing for the child, and you should communicate with the child like a friend. Respect for children Parents should not always focus on their children's weaknesses and do not compare their children's weaknesses with the strengths of other children.

When contacting children, parents should try to find out as much as possible about their children's strengths and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

Learn to genuinely care about your child.

If you really care about your child, you must be able to empathize with your child, always pay attention to your child's feelings, remember your child's birthday, remember the day when the school held a parent-teacher conference, give the corresponding rewards and drums to your child if you do well in the exam, and encourage you if you don't do well in the exam, and don't blame your child too much. If you do something wrong, you should give him a correction and guide the child correctly.

Don't always object to what your child wants to do.

Some parents always treat their children as children, this does not let him do, that does not let him do, such as after doing homework and want to watch TV, as parents should not object, this is also the space that children need to relax, if you tell him not to watch, tell him to read a book in the room or something, although he reluctantly returned to the room, but will he read seriously? It's useless at all, just let him relax, and after relaxing, he will naturally go back to study hard.

The influence of the family and the inspiration of the parents.

Parents should set an example, the role of parents directly affects the mental health of their children, parents must reflect on their own personal lifestyle and attitude, pay attention to correcting their own bad personality, and provide healthy things for their children at any time. Establish a harmonious and pleasant family atmosphere.

Educating children is a long-term project with a complex system, and it cannot be achieved overnight. No matter how old the child is, respect and understanding, more communication and more listening are the core of education.

Ten-year-old children will be a little rebellious, parents should communicate more with their children, not casually tantrums, which will make the child's rebellious psychology more serious, to guide well so that the child can listen, do not scold.

Ten-year-old children are normally in the fourth or fifth grade of primary school, at this time the child has formed a strong sense of self, usually has their own opinions and ideas, at this time parents should take more communication, reasoning, more experience, set an example and other ways to educate their education, blindly forcing the requirements can easily cause children's rebellious psychology, to convince others, to discipline others.

As a parent, you must know that children have a lot of individuality, not every child can adapt to school learning, school learning is a general, go hand in hand to transmit knowledge, but many children's intelligence has his characteristics, if one day you find that your child is doing well, is not good at learning, it doesn't matter, people's knowledge structure growth from learning is not even 1 10, a lot of growth is carried out outside the school, so many children are very smart, but not in school, It is because his intellect is not adapted to this stereotyped way of indoctrination, and he may like a way of thinking for himself.

For ten-year-old children, parents need to communicate more with their children in order to know what their children think, communicate with their children like friends, and respect their children.

Don't always see your child's shortcomings, don't compare other people's children with your own children, parents should be good at discovering their children's strengths, and encourage their children to reduce their children's resistance to parents.

Parents should set an example and pay attention to their words and deeds, as their words and deeds will affect their children.