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Figure it out for yourself. Have the courage to come here and talk about the problem, and I hope you have the courage to face others.
It's you who live, you yourself who survive. Not someone else.
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This is because of the reason why you are paying too much attention to yourself. It's not necessary to be too yourself. Perfect.
If you protect yourself too much, you will feel physically and mentally tired, in fact, there are still many good people in this world, the key is what you think.
Tip, you can record the number of times you have not been influenced by others, and over time, you will overcome this problem.
After reading your information, Baby Anne's books, it's better to be less exposed, you should read some inspirational books. Try to minimize exposure to negative things.
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Everyone has psychological problems to a greater or lesser extent, and when you say this, it means that you feel insecure and distrustful of the outside world. Many children have autism because of this. I wonder if you were often neglected when you were a child, or if you were too strict at home?
However, it is also recommended that you talk to a psychologist to relieve your mood.
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。。Actually, I don't think it has anything to do with suspicion, you just don't have enough confidence and care too much about what others think of you.
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We are the kind of people who are afraid of others when we go out, very sensitive, very insecure.
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The suspicion is too heavy!! To believe that there are still many good people in this world
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It is a very common emotional experience for the feeling of being hurt by a word. Many times, people may be hurt by certain words or actions, especially if those words or actions come from someone they trust or love, and the level of harm can be even deeper.
I'm sure everyone has been through a situation where they have been hurt by a word. I've had this experience personally. In my opinion, the feeling of being hurt is like being slashed by a sharp knife deep inside, which is very unforgettable.
Sometimes, this hurt can lead to negative emotions such as sadness, anger, loss, etc.
However, I think for this situation, we should learn to let go. After all, everyone makes mistakes, even ourselves. Moreover, if we keep dwelling on the pain of harm, we will only make ourselves more miserable and unable to get out of the shadows.
Therefore, we should try our best to forgive the person who hurt us, learn to reconcile with others, and at the same time learn to protect ourselves so that we will not be hurt in the same way.
Of course, in daily life, we should also pay attention to our words and deeds to avoid hurting others. Especially when it comes to words and actions, we need to be more cautious to avoid hurting others by injuring them with inappropriate words. In interpersonal communication, understanding, tolerance, and respect are very important qualities, and only by treating others with sincerity can we gain the trust and respect of others.
In conclusion, being hurt by a word is a very common emotional experience, but we should learn to let go, and at the same time, we should also pay attention to our words and deeds to avoid hurting others.
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Sometimes someone else's words can hurt you severely. I still can't forgive it long after, and as far as I'm concerned, I've been seriously hurt by a quote from a friend of mine who used to be. He sentenced Yin Bo to me, what are you, the reason why this sentence hurt me the most for the longest time.
It's because this sentence makes me very chilled, this sentence comes from the person I trust the most, and this sentence changes my attitude towards making friends, these three reasons.
First, the reason why this sentence hurts me for a long time is because it makes me feel very cold. The reason why such a sentence hurt me so deeply, for so long is because this sentence is very chilling to me, what are you, this sentence is full of hunger and distrust, and deep disdain, this attitude makes me very chilling, and it is because of this that this sentence will hurt me for so long.
Second, this quote comes from the person I trust the most, so it hurts me even more. One of the most important reasons why this sentence hurt me so much is because it comes from the person I trust the most, the person who said this is a friend of mine, I trust him very much and regard him as a confidant, but I didn't expect him to say that to me, which is unbelievable. I felt deeply hurt.
Thirdly, because this sentence made me change my attitude towards making friends, this sentence hurt me very deeply. My former friend said that sentence What are you, and the most direct change it brought to me was that I changed my attitude towards making friends since then. Specifically, I have a new understanding of what kind of person is suitable to be my friend, and then my attitude towards making friends has also undergone a fundamental change, which is the most important change in my life experience, which also fully proves how deep and how long that sentence has brought to me.
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