Does being too dependent on a boyfriend end up being a breakup? Male netizens, please give more advi

Updated on psychology 2024-07-11
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Will definitely be forced away!

    I think you may have obsessive-compulsive disorder in love, you should go to a psychiatrist, even if you are not sick, you can also counsel to restore psychological calm, really.

    When my girlfriend and I first fell in love, we were very attached to her, and we wanted to see her all the time, and in the end, we both acted like crazy people, which was very painful!

    Really, I hope you're doing well! Give yourself a little confidence and give your boyfriend a little space and freedom.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Both sides should give each other a certain amount of space, so as not to overwhelm each other.

    It's better that your social circles are different and not integrated.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It varies from person to person, maybe your boyfriend just wants a sense of accomplishment to be relied on, you just do what you like, love needs to be managed carefully, if you think you have found the right partner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    ………I'm a girl running in, I really don't know if I really like it that much? You really like him, I wish you all happiness

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you keep going like this, he'll be very annoying to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The friends upstairs are right, you are not wrong to do this, but it will make him feel very tired, so it is better to love him with a normal heart, bless you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ah, I also want to pester my husband every day, what should I do? ~~

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, obsessive-compulsive dependence, but don't go too far, then he will be annoyed, his patience is also limited, at first he thought you were a little bird, but it's hard to say after a long time, so give him a little space for himself The appropriate distance is still very beautiful

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give me some personal space. Otherwise, the man will feel tired. You can ask him.

    For example, if you have a day off tomorrow. There was nothing to do. Call ** at night and ask him. What is he going to do tomorrow? You can't stay with him. If he loves you. Generally not refused. Unless he has something very important or he doesn't love you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everybody needs to be free, and that's what everybody needs to live in this world.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm a man, I advise you, give him a little space! The man who loves you will also have a day of fatigue for you to behave like this. You want to make him feel that you are infinitely attracted to him, not to make him grow more and more bored with you.

    Loose when it should be loose, tight when it should be tight, so that you are attractive to him, and he will not be able to figure you out! I'm a man and I trust my instincts!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He won't love you, he won't love you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My wife is also annoyed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because a person is an independent individual, since it is an independent individual, then everyone's life is faced independently from the beginning to the end, no one can replace anyone in birth, old age, sickness and death, so no matter what the relationship is, relying on others is always futile, and handing over one's fate to others, then it has become an accessory to others invisibly, and the accessory is often dispensable, who will take it seriously.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Too much is not good, it is better not to rely on.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because he's gone, you can't adapt to living on your own.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because people are independent individuals, girls want to be protected by their boyfriends, but boys like girls to follow.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because the word "excessive" is problematic in itself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You need to be financially and personally.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because he will be the grass you are, and will no longer be a treasure.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you rely on him too much, you will have no ego.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    will slowly become less like you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because there are always some special circumstances, such as when you get angry and he ignores you, you will be sad.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because over-reliance will make him flutter.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Depending on what type of boyfriend you are, some guys want girls to be more clingy to themselves, and some don't want to be too clingy, after all, they all have their own space.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He doesn't like you anymore, and you have nothing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This habit is definitely not developed at once, it must be a gradual process, and I don't know that if my boyfriend suddenly says that I rely on him too much during a quarrel, then I will definitely realize this problem. Then you will slowly get rid of this habit of yourself, because some of your actions may cause trouble to others.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Relying too much on your boyfriend, first of all, you will only let yourself see him, and ignore other friends around you, the same way we rely too much on our boyfriend, his life, including his normal interpersonal interactions, will definitely be affected. Appropriate dependence is also possible, but excessive dependence will definitely have some adverse effects on both of them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If, in the process of falling in love, you suddenly find yourself too dependent on him, and you even lose your own unique charm, it will inevitably have a certain impact on your relationship. If you like it enough or think about it later, you must not rely on it too much. Because everyone doesn't like to be tied down.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I will choose to change myself slowly and control myself. I like him, but I can't let that liking turn into a haunt. We rely too much on our boyfriends, and that can definitely affect us, especially in a new environment, which can make it difficult for us to get along with other new people.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When I suddenly found myself overly dependent on my boyfriend one day, when he was not there I was very panicked and didn't know what to do, I realized this problem when I clearly understood that I needed to change this state, so I had to overcome this dependence and solve the problems I encountered.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Relying too much on your boyfriend, what you should do at this time is naturally to reflect on yourself, two people can help each other together, and you can also do something within your power for each other, but these things must have a degree, when we get along, many things still have to be done well by ourselves, and we must choose an independent mode of getting along, so that even after separation, there will be nothing wrong.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When you rely too much on your boyfriend, you may need not only your own strength to change the status quo, but also some external strength, such as letting your good friend help you control the time you spend with your boyfriend, so that you can slowly get away from your boyfriend to do something, when you can complete some things independently, you will have some pride, so as to insist on doing this thing, it will change the status quo.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, let's identify this problem, it's not good to rely too much on your boyfriend quietly.

    Women need the support of a man and a broad shoulder to give themselves a sense of security. Relying on men is not a bad thing, but excessive dependence should not be. This will make the man feel that you can't do anything well, and you won't do anything but rely on him.

    After a long time, you will rely too much on him, making him easy to dislike you. You will obey him, lose your own opinions, and lose your self-confidence, self-reliance, and tenacious personality, which is not conducive to your future development, and even more so to the development of your relationship.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not good! Sometimes he gets annoyed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If he really loves you, of course, it's good, a woman who is too strong will make him feel inferior to you, resulting in an inferiority complex. In the end, it is likely to affect your relationship. So if he really doesn't think he loves you, rely on it more.

    Even if you accommodate him, you pretend to rely on him a lot. Then he will hurt you more. If you don't love it...

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