How did you get through the tough times?

The day of the high school entrance examination was very hot, and everyone else had their parents to send the exam, and I was alone, and after the exam, I took the bus to the hospital to take a bath for my mother and bring food to my younger brother. In a month, I lost 15 pounds, skinny and bones. Sometimes I think about it, I have survived such difficult days, and in the future, I am not afraid of anything. ‍‍

I failed the college entrance examination, I was sad, and then I was depressed and the walking dead every day. I thought I would continue like this, but my parents encouraged me, my best friends, and my teachers told me not to give up. In the end, I was reluctant to repeat it. ‍‍

When I broke up with him, I felt that my life collapsed in an instant, and I felt that my life had no center of gravity. Then I have been in KTV, washing my face with tears every day, and then I slowly came out, and I felt that I still had to live without anyone.

At that time, my boyfriend broke up with me, and then I was fired from my job. I don't have a place to sleep. I spent the night under the cave of the train station by myself. And then the next day, you have to face reality, look for a job again, and start again.

The business failed, and then there was a big debt, and then the parents comforted themselves, and their friends often enlightened them, and then they would reflect on themselves. And then decisively come out of the shadows yourself. Men should be able to afford to put it down.

I didn't get into the graduate school entrance examination, and I was also very sad, I didn't expect to lose. But I still bravely faced the reality, actively communicated with them, and then constantly made up for my own shortcomings, and then devoted myself to learning as always.

It's to keep enriching yourself, to find things to be busy with, so that you won't be idle and think about some painful things, only to make yourself stronger.

Of course, it is to communicate with friends, and to express the unhappiness in your heart out loud, and you feel the pressure in your heart be released.

Of course, it's just to study hard, and then don't let yourself think of the pain of falling out of love, and don't think about it all the time.

1. Establish and maintain confidence that the hard years will eventually pass.

This is not a high-pitched song, nor is it a promotion of idealism. When you're at your best, faith may be the only thing you have (and of course you can call it hope).

If the confidence value is zero, you may surrender in the first second of being stuck in a difficult year. If the confidence value is 100, no matter how harsh the ice and snow are, it will be melted by your burning universe.

Really, faith is your most loyal backer, your inexhaustible arsenal, and the base from which you rely on the Jedi to fight back. As long as you don't give up on faith, faith won't forsake you. With faith, you will have the courage to face the difficult times.

Only by facing up to the tough times can you find an exit from them.

2. Persist in fighting and continuously improve the combat value in battle.

Take the difficult years under your feet as a game, break through with different tricks, and restart a game if you lose a game, maybe you will clear the customs one day. In any game, there are a lot of people who have cleared it. You haven't beaten the game yet, just because you haven't played it enough - don't want to try another round?

3. Practice patience and learn to wait.

Not all dilemmas can be solved in one go. There are some difficult years in life that can last for many years.

Sometimes, you can't get out of a certain predicament, not because your determination is not strong enough, your wisdom is not high enough, and your strength is not strong enough, but because the objective conditions are not yet ripe.

Mine is that of course I have pressure, combing it, because the children have graduated from college and now have their own jobs, it is to make people feel more relaxed, but I still feel that my life is not easy, and my pressure is two:

1. Lack of money. Because of the heavy burden, there is a lack of money. The reasons for lack of money are divided into two ways:

One is the pressure from the elderly, I grew up in the countryside, and now my hometown still has an elderly father living by himself, because I work in a different place, he will not come to live with us, so every month my sister and I give him pension money, he lives in the countryside by himself.

There is also the old mother-in-law, although there are six children in the family, but we are the husband and wife who can really give a fixed amount of money for her every month, so we bear two pension expenses every month. But in any case, we always guarantee the old man's money first, and hit the card on time on the 15th of each month, and we have insisted on it for more than ten years. The second is the pressure of repaying the loan, because in the first two years, I planned to retire in a remote provincial city, so I bought a pension house in the city, and wanted to sell two small houses at that time, and then buy a large one, but later changed my mind, only sold a small one, and then mortgaged a larger new house.

After the second year of delivery, I took out a loan for decoration, and now the monthly repayment pressure is very great, according to the original budget, although there is pressure, but it should be able to insist, and then for various reasons, the income has not increased, but the expenditure is in **, plus the impact of the epidemic this year, the loan repayment pressure has felt that it is almost unsupportable, it is really not good, so I have to follow the original plan, and then buy the small house that I plan to buy, so that the loan is paid off, and the pressure will be solved. But in the current market situation, I'm afraid that the house is not easy to sell, at least ** will be greatly affected. We'll have to wait and see.

Second, the pressure of work. The pressure of work is not because of ability, nor because of physical incompetence, but from the many uncertainties faced by the work, age, no one wants, assuming unemployment, looking for a job, and having to pay their own pensions, etc., the pressure of work is really unsettling.

The above two pressures, I think, no matter what, to ensure that the health is not wrong, and then go with the flow, what to do, all to know the destiny of the year, as long as you live the present, have the present. Sitting and watching the wind and clouds, I stood still, waiting for the next intersection of fate and accepting the challenge of fate.

I lick my wounds alone in the middle of the night, do psychological construction for myself, and try to be busy during the day, so that I don't have time to think about anything else.

It was thanks to my friends who have been comforting and encouraging me, and my relatives who have always supported me that I was able to get through the most difficult time.

How did you get through the difficult times in your life? I made it through my own perseverance. I had to take care of my mother and daughter.

They are all the most important people in my life. A God enlightened me, gave me life, and taught me the truth of life. At the end of my life, I think the hardest stage of my life was 30 to 40 years old, because this is the moment when we are fighting, we are under the most pressure, 30 old people are suitable for all ages, especially in the countryside, where young people of my age in our village have buildings in the county.

After my brother got married, he saw that the future of our family was bleak and proposed to split up. I was a chieftain, and all my sisters were left to me, because at that time I had a job and my monthly salary was ten dollars a month. You have a quiet life working overtime, I don't have a quiet life.

If he doesn't fall, he might miss out on a lot of fun. When I was eighteen years old, ending my life without putting much pressure on my parents, I bravely gave up the opportunity to go to college and joined a society of ignorance. So far, life has been chaotic!

There are still two difficult periods in life: just leaving the family and entering the stage of social entrepreneurship; The other is the old and young stage of middle-aged people, when you have just freed yourself from the shackles of family and parents, wandered the rivers and lakes with your own blood, and created a world, people will surely recognize, reflect, unite, and love this country through this plague. After the plague, I felt like I had come back from the dead.

I wish the Chinese people and the people of the world great unity, world security, and health in China.

I don't think I have experienced it yet. I think it's very big, I think it's very serious. There are more people in the world who are in a more difficult situation than yours, and I have found a relatively low or difficult process.

At that time, I had to go to work with my two children, and there was no one to help take care of them. Every day is like a war. The scary thing is that they are sick.

If one gets sick, the other will get sick too. Luckily, these two children are very wise and intelligent. They don't cry and they don't get into trouble.

They were also very happy.

No matter how bad the weather is, the day and night are still distinct, just remember that no matter what, the sun still comes from the east, and there is an early morning that is the beginning of the day, and whether it is cloudy or sunny, there will be a day and night, regardless of the weather.

In our lives, we will always encounter some difficult times in life because we are studying, or at work, when we face these difficult times, how do we spend it? Today, I will give you a brief talk about how we can spend the difficult times in life.

In my personal opinion, if we want to spend the difficult time in life, first of all, we have to find out the problem and solve the problem, we can't solve it because we are afraid of him, if we solve her because we are afraid of him, then this difficult time in our life will not get an end, therefore, we first have to solve the problem, the problem we encounter in life can only be better spent this time by solving this problem. The second is that we still have to face our lives positively in this period and then in time, because life always goes on, and if we become corrupt because of this same problem, then we will not end this difficult time.

Therefore, we have to go to a happy and positive state to face such a difficult time, in addition to facing positively, we can also do something to make ourselves as happy as possible, because doing something that we feel happy will make us forget the troubles in life and the irritability in work for a short time, which is also a very good choice, in addition to these, we can also go to our good friends, to talk to them about the discomfort in our hearts, Discuss with them how to solve such a problem, because when we face the comfort of ourselves, our relatives or friends, we will also get a little comfort in our hearts, because they are the only little tenderness we have left in life, and when we are comforted by them, we may be more motivated to face such a difficult time.

The above content only represents my personal opinion, if there is any error, please understand.

You can write down all the difficulties you have experienced, and sort them out one by one, how to solve them. You can choose to learn a new thing, raise a green food plant, eat well, sleep, and minimize communication with the outside world.

You can chat with your friends, you can go out shopping with your friends, or you can stay at home by yourself, do something you want to do, and you can travel alone.