How to spend a lonely and painful time without being overwhelmed?

1. Reading books will enrich you and gain knowledge.

2. Breeding flowers and animals, planting trees, and feeding small animals will make your life colorful. And there is a reward.

3. Cultivate your own interests and hobbies, such as fishing and practicing calligraphy.

4. Maintain an optimistic attitude and communicate with others.

5. Accompany your family to travel or walk for a while every day.

To live is to live a happier and happier life, and to live a happy life is to strive for oneself. People in pursuit of their own happiness, there is a desire to fight for, for the goal of life people must make themselves work hard, find fun in the work, make the monotonous work full of fun, so that they are carefree, physically and mentally healthy, life is peaceful and comfortable, happy to live every day. It's for everyone to find their own happiness.

Without fighting spirit, faith, and perseverance, people may be subjected to all kinds of means by the world and struggle to survive. Therefore, in order to make your life happier, you must set a goal in life and do your best to achieve it. If he works hard, he will be happy in the process of achieving it.

If there is no pursuit, no ideal, no goal, you will lose yourself, you will live very empty, very confused, and you don't know what you are living for. We have to know exactly what we want. In fact, what we want is very simple, what we want is happiness.

What happiness is, he has no specific concept, maybe it's a feeling, maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's material, I think both are indispensable.

People are self-absorbed all day long: I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness.

Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears. Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance. Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

Text lucky first three.

Have you ever listened to the rain and looked out the window in a quiet daze?

It's a kind of comfort, it's a kind of enjoyment, it's a solitude that can be quiet.

Loneliness isn't all bad, it's just that bleak loneliness is hopeless.

Enjoy solitude, and eventually become the person you like in your heart.

There are no truly happy people in this world, only people who can think more openly, the world, all living beings, everyone has their own troubles.

The trough of work, the embarrassment of life, emotional frustration, and the pressure of school ......Each one is like a mountain, overwhelming us, sometimes more than one at the same time, tired and unloved, unable to divide the energy and mind to deal with socializing.

In this world, not everything that is reasonable and good can exist or be realized according to one's wishes, some things have already happened, whether good or bad, and no matter how pointless you regret it.

You want too many things, you want too far in life, and you're not good enough to be as good as a debater.

All your obsessions are drawing the ground as a prison, and if you persist for a long time, not only will there be no repercussions, but it will also make us sad.

Life will be bleak because such and such attachments cannot be realized.

Everything that happens in a person's life has its own providence, and the mentality is very important.

Life is short, don't be happy and sad in getting, and don't be bitter in losing.

This life is a lonely journey, a person will be at a loss, will be confused and hesitant, between the lights and wine, the bustling crowd is even more desirable.

It's just that in this world, loneliness is the norm, and there are only a handful of friends who can be called friends, and most of the rest are just playing on the spot.

When a person is accustomed to loneliness, he understands loneliness, and he can naturally enjoy loneliness, and the misunderstanding of others has nothing to do with him.

When others don't need you, learn to walk away on your own, be a little more self-aware, and be less self-conscious.

Between people, many times it is an afterthought, when they are together, they feel ordinary and ordinary, and only after they lose do they gradually remember each other's goodness.

However, those who say goodbye are returning to the sea of people, and they will not see each other again, and most of the fate between people is only once in this life.

One does his best, the other doesn't know how to cherish, then forget it, you have to believe that you will eventually meet someone to drink with you and accompany you for a long time.

The gathering and dispersion of the relationship cannot be forced, those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want!

If you are not like-minded, you can't understand what it wants, and you can't understand what it wants, and you can't solve its so-called worries.

Some people constantly wronged themselves in order to bring Sihe Hequn, but even if they integrated into the circle, they also lost themselves.

Loneliness is innate, it is the norm of life, and the achievement of a person who can endure loneliness is to be strong, wise, and calm, and everyone is lonely.

After the loneliness has passed, you will find that you will not feel sad when you are full of devastation and thorns, and you will not feel sad when you are full of tears.

Listen to the rain falling, and wait for the potato acacia to bloom, wouldn't you be happy?

The most important thing is to divert your gaze, focus on other aspects, and keep yourself very busy every day, so that you don't think about the sad and unhappy things.

Where are you? I can't help but want to hold you.

First, start with a simple one.

Learn to smile, including passers-by. Meet the student on the weekend and ask him her. Eat three meals a day on time, eat a balanced diet, and learn to cook.

Many foreign friends invited me to teach them how to make dumplings. Go to the gym. You have an FB or a school forum.

Go and play with people. Read fashion magazines and learn to get dressed.

And then: about friends, in fact, can know you very well, if you come across, please cherish it. If you're isolated, think about your own problems, and if you don't have your own problems, try to change the environment and start over. Don't think about the boy's friends.

In a mature relationship, two people must be the first independent person before they can become lovers. If you're not good at handling your feelings, finding a boyfriend means endless demands, and feeling means giving. No boy could tolerate such a girl.

All in all, good luck

Everyone has a lonely time! It's up to you to treat it. Try trying something new. Maybe you'll fall in love with it right away (* hee hee f